The Whole School Laughed, But not her! - In Defence of Suman :)

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I so wanted to make this post yesterday, but damn the college assignment and other work, that took away my time... šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜† Anyways, I still do not see post on the topic I wanted to discuss as per yesterday's episode...

I will surely provide screen caps soon, but for ... to began with...

Yes! So Suman was horrible terrible and extremely rude, and I will still say, I disagree...

I can see many of you have posted that she was in her teens, and was under peer pressure.. šŸ‘ That's one point, but others would include,

If you see it, when he stumbled down, maybe whole school laugh... But had peer pressure not been a burden she might have stood there helping him, but naa... I guess she just decided to ignore, my point is, if she didn't take a stand, she didn't laugh out loud on his condition. What Suman did was just in front of 5 to 10 "So called Friends", while rest of school joined in mocking Shravan when he fell down. Yes, she was wrong, BUT I guess seriousness of situation wasn't taken by Suman at the point. For her it's still not badi baat, because she don't know all that "Emotional" aspects of what Shravan has been through on topic of his mom.

Shravan had known Suman enough, that she wouldn't like to acknowledge him as her friend when in front of school, yet seeing her there he could have tried waiting for her to be alone ... (or maybe not.. he just wanted to cry out his heart...) but, I guess this could have been expected scenario at that moment of time. Had he really known Suman, it would still not be considered badi baat, specially knowing she cares for image and her friends were teasing her at that moment and after ignored so many times by her.

But what all have I remembered about Suman and Shravan, was that one scene, where Suman was waiting for Candyfloss or ice cream, and some stranger (woman) came along to scold him for accidentally bumping into her, and Suman coming to his defense, and making woman apologize to him. It's clear that she did care for Shravan back then too.

Coming to certain points:
Why didn't she write mails or message him in past 10 years? Umm... Was it her ego? Or was it her faith that she will clear out everything once they meet face to face?
She called him, she came running behind him to say sorry, but he ignored, he cried, and sat in car, even on hearing Suman, and left the place. I guess if someone did that to me, I would be sure that the person wouldn't even bother to read messages, and then clearing out and talking out hearts is "toh dur ki baat" (definitely not easy) on internet or phone. We all know what he did with that written version of sorry by Suman!!!!🄱 So would there be ANY possibility of Shravan replying to her messages or phone calls? Big Doubt.


What Shravan did,
Planned an insult, as worded by Suman, in front of almost 50 to 60 people, involved other people in the plan, like fake version of himself. He laughed along with other people. 😭😭, plus Shravan also made statements, which can hurt or break any normal human being. I still refer to that statement of Suman being after him for his success and financial help!


So do I mean to say Suman was right at her place? Maybe not
So was she wrong? Definitely Not
Was Shravan wrong? 100% he was wrong


That's all my honour!šŸ˜†

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well good post...


Different people have different perspectives on this show,characters...

So far I am impressed with everyone's povs

U guys r giving different analysis on particular character/scene...

Really a good post,...


Since yesterday I am in support of shravan...today maybe I am gonna change my decision...because this show never let you to stick to exact decision,...

With each passing episode...the equation is keeps changing...

Because here...we don't have dhram Ki Devi,mahaan ,obedient,bechari,...etc female lead...

Because both suman and shravan are wrong at certain stages...

But still they are perfect
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shahsb_26

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if she didn't take a stand, she didn't laugh out loud on his condition. What Suman did was just in front of 5 to 10 "So called Friends", while rest of school joined in mocking Shravan when he fell down. Yes, she was wrong, BUT I guess seriousness of situation wasn't taken by Suman at the point. For her it's still not badi baat, because she don't know all that "Emotional" aspects of what Shravan has been through on topic of his mom.

But she saw his condition and he was pleading to her to talk with him.. she could have atleast listened to him..

Shravan had known Suman enough, that she wouldn't like to acknowledge him as her friend when in front of school, yet seeing her there he could have tried waiting for her to be alone ... (or maybe not.. he just wanted to cry out his heart...) but, I guess this could have been expected scenario at that moment of time. Had he really known Suman, it would still not be considered badi baat, specially knowing she cares for image and her friends were teasing her at that moment and after ignored so many times by her.

I guess he knew suman.. he accepted her.. he knew she wont acknowledge their frndship infront of everyone.. bt still he had a feeling that wenever he will need her she will b always there with him.. at that tym she wont care abt her image and reputation... hw could he wait he was so much upset he thought sumo would really support him bt she chose to ignore

But what all have I remembered about Suman and Shravan, was that one scene, where Suman was waiting for Candyfloss or ice cream, and some stranger (woman) came along to scold him for accidentally bumping into her, and Suman coming to his defense, and making woman apologize to him. It's clear that she did care for Shravan back then too.

Yeah because at dat tym her frnds weren't there around.. that's y she supported him...
remb wen after that shravansaid ur name should b sumo wat did suman tell i will tell this to everyone in my school bt dnt ever tell that u have given this name..


Coming to certain points:

Why didn't she write mails or message him in past 10 years? Umm... Was it her ego? Or was it her faith that she will clear out everything once they meet face to face?

She called him, she came running behind him to say sorry, but he ignored, he cried, and sat in car, even on hearing Suman, and left the place. I guess if someone did that to me, I would be sure that the person wouldn't even bother to read messages, and then clearing out and talking out hearts is "toh dur ki baat" (definitely not easy) on internet or phone. We all know what he did with that written version of sorry by Suman!!!!🄱 So would there be ANY possibility of Shravan replying to her messages or phone calls? Big Doubt.

If she can stalk him and he has also stalked her on FB den if suman had sent any msg then m sure he would have talked to her.. maybe he will show some anger and all bt he would have still responded her.. because he was waiting for her to call or atleast msg him..


What Shravan did,
Planned an insult, as worded by Suman, in front of almost 50 to 60 people, involved other people in the plan, like fake version of himself. He laughed along with other people. 😭, plus Shravan also made statements, which can hurt or break any normal human being.
I still refer to that statement of Suman being after him for his success and financial help!



@ black : he didn't call her agold digger.. he said that because wen he was nerdy and shy she never wanted to associate with him infront of the school.. and nw since he has become confident enough and she is claiming that he is her frnd in front of those 'so called frnds' of hers then wat wil lshravan think.. forget about shravan any normal human being will think the way shravan did.. its natural to think..

So do I mean to say Suman was right at her place? Maybe not
So was she wrong? Definitely Not
Was Shravan wrong? 100% he was wrong


That's all my honour!šŸ˜†


both are wrong in their own way..
my POV sorry if u r offended..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice post dear..
Everyone has pov of his or her and each pov looks valid...
Sumo cares from him..yes that's right seeing lady bumping into shra and scolding...
If she doesn't acknowledge him in public but somehow she talks to him..like in a scene where he ties lace and she comes and drops handkerchief and talks to him...
So she gives importance to him..
Shra struck to that one.point but she did insult him in public before...

Shra was hurt but he does same but saying gold digger and using him for money and fame is wrong ...

Still confuse to say who is wrong and who is right..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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My word though i didn't like actions of young sumo , in my opinion Grown up shravan's action is far worse...I don't care if i sound like a Feminist...I'm completely against playing gender card...If the role reverses then also i stick to my opinion...
@TM...Bang on šŸ‘ Brilliant post...very well decoded
This forum is blessed with talented writers ...All your analysis is awesome guys...
Keep rocking...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Suman was wrong in the past & Shravan is wrong today.. that is what makes them real. They dont deserve justifications, rather what they need is redemption. For Shravan he has to look at her beyond what she did in the past..move on and view her for the person she is today. For Suman she has to reflect on her wrong and apologize for it rather than just brush it off as bachpana. Also as much as I am all for her self-respect, she definitely needs to bend down a little this time & make it up to Shravan.

Edited by WinniethePooh. - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't think suman was any better than those random school kids by not laughing because he thought of her as a friend and would have expected her to do more than just not laugh ,I thought she was highly insensitive especially with the family bit dialogue ,more than insensitive I would say self centred and narracist , but i agree with your point that she may not have fully understood how that day was different buy saying thatand I think children should learn to respect each other which she lacked as a child, I also feel that sravan's response was much more worse for one it came late and the meaning when he uttered the same.words that a teenager did 10 yearbback was very different
Edited by tttttt1 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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everyones points are justified.
I have a feeling that one sentence from shravan to sumo at party about his status will play a big part with sumo's current financial situation (23 lakhs in total now!!).
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would not be surprised a marriage proposal from shravan and in return he will wipe out all her debts to her mami. After marriage sumo insulted at every opportunity by shravan, his chachhi and the other young couple in the family. Pushkar will be the pillar of strength to sumo, unless CV's turn pushkar's character a shade of grey
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ms.S.K.

everyones points are justified.

I have a feeling that one sentence from shravan to sumo at party about his status will play a big part with sumo's current financial situation (23 lakhs in total now!!).
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would not be surprised a marriage proposal from shravan and in return he will wipe out all her debts to her mami. After marriage sumo insulted at every opportunity by shravan, his chachhi and the other young couple in the family. Pushkar will be the pillar of strength to sumo, unless CV's turn pushkar's character a shade of grey

No please no!!!
Can I write a bigger no ,
Means revenge to a child bully ,domestic violence to feel the power in the equation ,becssue its Indian tele it may happen but sony I believe.is the better of the lot
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ms.S.K.

everyones points are justified.

I have a feeling that one sentence from shravan to sumo at party about his status will play a big part with sumo's current financial situation (23 lakhs in total now!!).
.
would not be surprised a marriage proposal from shravan and in return he will wipe out all her debts to her mami. After marriage sumo insulted at every opportunity by shravan, his chachhi and the other young couple in the family. Pushkar will be the pillar of strength to sumo, unless CV's turn pushkar's character a shade of grey

oh shobhi if cvs takes this script like this way then it will become mai tulsi tere aangan ki kind of indian story šŸ˜•šŸ˜†...yesterday that lattu shravan said to her she is matlabi..which is really disturbing to hear.. 😲 its not a decent ..he needs to be a normal human being and for this he needs psychiatrist therapy.. where he can express himself to the doctor properly and free from his teenager complex towards suman ..or a tight slap from pushky or from his dad..apne aap hi dimaag kaam karne lage gašŸ˜†
Edited by kinara17 - 9 years ago

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