I have watched this serial from the beginning. There are few characters I admire but not emotionally attached to any that I start justifying what all they do. In BV forum there are good number of unbiased viewers who make objective interpretations from what they have seen in an episode. They do it because they are able to distinguish right from wrong but not to put down any character they don't like.
Regarding Anandi, all I can say is, she stands out in few ways but she is a huge let-down in other aspects. She hasn't got that balance.