Re:Has anyone watched from the start. DTN pg 1

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Posted: 9 years ago
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It constantly amazes me with some of the comments in this forum. In running down Anandi and praises on Mangala etc.
Let's not forget that this is the story of Balika Vadhu, who is Anandi from her journey from Child Marriage to her present.
There have been highs and lows in her life and how she has lived it.

Now Nandini was abducted from her while she was saving another young child and that child is Nimbolli and this is what amazes me that people so conveniently forget that.
The saintly mother claims to love her but if you look at the past epoisodes she did not do much for when she was growing up but saved her a few times when it suited her. This is there for all to see. She did not bring her up at but it was a combined efforts by the 4 ladies in the house who bought her up.
Now I am 100% sure had Mangala looked at the babys clothes and seen the locket than she would for sure have destroyed all the proofs on who the child was. As Nimbolli loved CC.
Now when it suits her the motherly love comes out and she lies through her mouth and even brain washing a confused and jealous brother.
There is a thing as emotionally abusing a child's mind.
Anandi should have taken away Nandini when the court case was over but gave in to Mangala a big mistake.
No country in the world will give a abducted child to the people who kidnapped her and treated her badly and now constantly under the lunatic Kundan eyes.

And another thing men and women can be friends. Now some call Anandi school a dating place how disgusting and low typical indian mentality.
No wonder we ladies face so many problems in our lives if this is the mentality that we cannot not understand the word of friendship. ..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I have watched from the start.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@ TM: Moral policing and opening up topics to question people's opinions is against forum rules.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I have watched from start. And observed Anandi for years.
But I am not biased like the so called fans of the lead.
The child Anandi - she was absolutely worth praising, victim of circumstances but she used to glow under that. Adult Anandi - a teenager trying to be a perfect wife but bearing all the insult I have full sympathy.
When gauri entered she was interfering into Gouri and Jagya s life but I will support her because she was a legally wedded wife and her acts were justified.
But I have objection to her:
1. hanging in at BH after her divorce with stupid logic of emotional bond and maika.
2. Taking custody of badi haveli and Jagya s life after remarriage. No woman will get involved in her ex husband's life after being divorced.
3. Living with her ex in laws and ex husband, like a third woman. Whether she has shared the bed with Jagya in eleven years we do not know. But even living with ex is being as straight as being a third woman and it has been proved that Ganga used to consider her as TW.
4. If she could not break the bond with singhs then why did she leave Udaipur after her husbands death. Sekhars approval is just a lame excuse. Anandi when it comes to her advantage dumps the reason being for family.
5. As a mother, she was fully responsible for loosing the.child because she paved the way 'a bayel mujhe mar' And 11 years she was so busy with at jagya s house she did not do anything to search her.
6. In 11 years her son knows only her bal sasural not his own blood. What if they live in another country that does not stop you from keeping touches.
7. And with this Nimbuli story, she just cries and stand like a dumb. While Dadisa handles shivam, jagya handles akhiraj, anant handles others.
8. Anant is a not a friend, he is a love bird and naturally tries his luck in spending time or dating with Anandi. Women always has sixth sense to guess what a man has in mind. So why not anandi - it simply shows that she is also interested in this man and wants to be approachable to this man.
If this is the example of women empowerment, then Anandi is an worst example of a divorcee, a widow and a single mom.
I go by what I have seen.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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##Missesha
Now that I ask a simple question on if people who like to criticise Anandi have watched the serial from the beginning it becomes a issue for moral policy. But where is this same moral policy when the lead is being critized and called all sorts where is it than.

This is called the freedom of speech or is that not allowed now, because I dare to ask a simple question on who has watched the serial from the beginning to criticise the lead.

Simple answer people jump on the bandwagon to criticise the lead without watching from the beginning.

The easy answer for those who have not watched from the beginning call in the moral policers so my guess is right.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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What nonsence is this.
Anandi has a good relationship with dadisa and bh.
Yes men and women can be friends.
She is a good mum and has been a good wife as well.
So what if she stays there there love there.
**DT NOTE: Comment has been edited because it included targeting other members and making remarks against them for sharing a different opinion. Please ensure you respect all opinions regardless of whether or not you agree with them.**


Edited by Yuvika_15 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pams1234

##Missesha

Now that I ask a simple question on if people who like to criticise Anandi have watched the serial from the beginning it becomes a issue for moral policy. But where is this same moral policy when the lead is being critized and called all sorts where is it than.

This is called the freedom of speech or is that not allowed now, because I dare to ask a simple question on who has watched the serial from the beginning to criticise the lead.

Simple answer people jump on the bandwagon to criticise the lead without watching from the beginning.

The easy answer for those who have not watched from the beginning call in the moral policers so my guess is right.

I have watched the show from the beginning and if you were part of this forum since beginning, you would have known what sort of regards people held for Anandi many years back and why they slowly and gradually started picking on her.

Almost lot of highly active members on this forum were once Anandi fans, friends to each other, enjoyed very light and healthy moments on forum, participated in ATs, were part of OS and FFs and so much more.

So your conclusion that people here have joined the bandwagon to put Anandi down is a half baked conclusion. And you starting a thread to question it - this is against forum rules

You mentioned about people's mentality on friendship btn man and woman - that was moral policing

Hence I pointed out both.

But anyways, carry on.

Edited by Missesha - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I watch every episode twice a day i.e. Morning and evening. Sometimes see the repeat telecast on weekend.

Anandi used to be my favourite when Prat was in the show and now it is my least favourite.

Any other question?
Do you think only story and character matters? Sometimes we have to think out of the box to analyze and comment on the forum. 😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pams1234

What nonsence is this.

Anandi has a good relationship with dadisa and bh.
Yes men and women can be friends.
She is a good mum and has been a good wife as well.
So what if she stays there there love there.
The people who think otherwise that men and woman cannot be friends have a one track mind.
I hate anyone to be in trouble and with you lot around as you will not be able to help them.


Nonsence is an abusive word.
Maintaining good relationship is not staying with you ex. Men and Women can be friends, But your ex huuby is not your friend, and a person who is already fallen for you cannot be friends.
There is no logic of one track mind.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aajkal

I watch every episode twice a day i.e. Morning and evening. Sometimes see the repeat telecast on weekend.

Anandi used to be my favourite when Prat was in the show and now it is my least favourite.

Any other question?
Do you think only story and character matters? Sometimes we have to think out of the box to analyze and comment on the forum. 😉

Not biased with any actor, Anandi till she got married had a back bone. She used to be silent but used to revert back when required. After marriage, she was with Shiv and still used to glare up at times. Now post leap she has become a mere 'waste bin' character. Cry, and burdened with self pity. So naturally she will loose her grip.

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