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Posted: 10 years ago
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If I were Ganga, I would really want Anandi move back to SN. Imagine managing a full time profession, 2 children and on top of that, Anandi generated drama every second day.
Won't she crave for a normal family life ?
However selfless and mahan one may be, this is too much :(

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: kase

If I were Ganga, I would really want Anandi move back to SN. Imagine managing a full time profession, 2 children and on top of that, Anandi generated drama every second day.

Won't she crave for a normal family life ?
However selfless and mahan one may be, this is too much :(


Once upon a time, the same family had played with their life to give her shelter... When she was telling jagya that dadisa's decision to stop anandi from going to SN was not right, jagya reminded her of her past.


I dont think ganga should complain about anything.
Edited by Shinya - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I really hope Anandi leaves BH now.
Dsa and JG pressurised Anandi to stay on in BH after they brought Nandini to Jaitser. Dsa and G wanted Anandi to stay on because they too wanted bond with girl and felt the girl also would feel better with having a large family around her.

Mangala ensured that the girl never felt these people as her family.

Then with Akheraj on the run and hunting for all of them it made sense to stay on in BH.

Now Akheraj is dead as far as they know and staying in BH didn't make any difference in the live Anandi and Nandini so they might as well go back to SN.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Jagya and Ganga did not pressurize Anandi to stay in BH Enough of false blames on them
Anandi should stop making them the reason she cannot stay in BH They will never ask her to stay because they have not kept her in BH for their personal interest

They respect her relation with Dadisaa and does not wish to come between it They never pressurized her What is Jagya and Ganga suppose to say when Anandi says she cannot stay in BH because she does not want to create problems for them or she does not want them worry about her problems ? Should they ask her yes get lost ? They are well mannered and kind hearted will not say this Why cannot Anandi say she wants to take control of her life on her own thats why she wants to stay in SN? Surely they will never stop her if she says this but this woman each time makes excuses she is burden on them knowing very well Jagya and Ganga will never ask to leave because she is burden on them but still she acts like this which only shows Anandi does not want to leave and wants to fix herself in BH with all coaxing and cajoling Anandi enjoys it otherwise does she not know herself Jagya and Ganga or Dadisaa will not ask to go saying she is a burden on them


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nobody pressurized anandi to stay.. she wanted to stay so she stayed.
Why JG wanted to bond with the girl? They could have bonded with her even if anandi had moved to SN.

By the way, it was not mangala's duty to ensure that the girl felt these people were her family.

It was the duty of the mother where she failed miserably. Why blame mangala for anandi's failures ?

Anandi is not a good mother. This the CVs are showing through actions... And nimboli does not need a weak mother like anandi. She is capable enough to look after herself.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya


Once upon a time, the same family had played with their life to give her shelter... When she was telling jagya that dadisa's decision to stop anandi from going to SN was not right, jagya reminded her of her past.


I dont think ganga should complain about anything.


For that once upon a time gesture, she has also done enough for the family back. I am saying from the POV that Anandi should move and start managing her life and problems on her own. Ganga & Jagya are not expected to be perpetually solving one problem after the other for her.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: kase


For that once upon a time gesture, she has also done enough for the family back. I am saying from the POV that Anandi should move and start managing her life and problems on her own. Ganga & Jagya are not expected to be perpetually solving one problem after the other for her.


Jagya feels it is his duty to help anandi and her daughter... he did not like it when ganga said anandi should go to sn.


Anandi is a misfit as a mother... She messes up with the lives of her kids...

Her children are not safe with her. So I feel it is better the children are either sent to boarding school or they stay with Jagya... But never with anandi.

Even shivam feels insecure with her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes its suffocating to be in Ganga's position.


If I were Ganga, I too would have wanted Anandi to go back to SN, especially when everything is well with her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree @Kase Ganga has done enough for this family for anyone to say she is indebted to singhs so should not complain but keep taking all that she does not like . Ganga has not done less for Singhs

and by the way Jagya has done very much for Ganga but Singhs turned their backs on her after making huge promises with her ?so can't say Singhs were very great to Ganga . Jagya's credit for helping Ganga cannot be given to whole family

Ganga will not ask Anandi to leave No she won't but Anandi should herself think she needs to take control of her life and stop bothering others with her problems and she needs to bring a proper reason to move out of BH Directly saying to someone i cannot stay in the house because i am a burden on you here In this situation a courteous person will only say No its nothing like this , please stay as long as you want and same Jagya and Ganga say and Anandi stays because she wants to . What else is reason ? No body is keeping her in BH at gun point
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Anandi is shown a super idiotic mother day by day she herself is so inconfident how can she give security to her children.
As a wife who will like ex wife knocking door in the middle of the night to save her say daughter.
Anandi will not move unless she is given a kick. And the kick is coming soon.

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