Dheera wrong or Wright??? Share your POV

Dheera is odd couple, ok our forum is divided in to half /half - ok let's see about recent situation and what if the situation was different.

First - recent situation at what we are seeing live on soap. Dhram is married, have a son age 22-23. Who is married to vidya. Meeras sister.
-Durga, a wife who he have no relationship and not accept her as his wife. Do not treat well.
-dhram double meeras age. She is 21 and dhram 42.

All the revenge one side, now this man has fallen head over hill for meera. Truly loves her. He is forgetting all the relationship as how society will think of him merrying someone half his age. This could have been solved but the big problem is that meera is his DIL sister. Big time messes the relationship.

Now from dhrams POV , he is a man manipulated by his mother to merry a half his age girl. Than manipulated by meera to act as she is in love with him.

He is a man and obviously any 42 will list over a 21 years old, specially when he now have the ticket as meera his wife. With all the odd and shame that he went through in name of revenge suddenly feels normal.

Remember dhram is the man who did not care regardless who he is merrying. He has no shame at the first place to mess up relationship. So he will not have shame to love that same women.

This is what we are seeing now. He has fallen in love without shame. He is still the same dhram, because if he was anything different he would think 100 time before saying he loves meera.

He is a shameless man, however in that shameless we see bravery. Because look at his guts, after all the relationship who is saying no, he is fighting with them for his love.

He is fighting against the world to prove, love can happen to anyone, yes there should be restriction at who you love, but specially in this situation, in his logic, why is it wrong? Just bcs meera is half his age? Or because meeras sister is married to his son.

Dhram and meera not blood related. Therefore the society is restricting this and dhram is against that fact for his love.

From meeras prospective; she have been manipulated but now is in guilt and realisation what she have done. She is sas of her own little sister. That guild and sickening idea is in her brain is building up, with family force it's not helpful, as the pressure is forcing her to now divorce dhram.

Correct according to our society : relationship like this should never happen to avoid such relation clash.

Correct according to love: love is possible between two individual and long as they are not breaking any human law.

So , this mean, love wins. Society is not always correct and we know this better than anyone. Love is pure and dhram love is pure at any circumstances.

What wars will happen: dhram and meeras child will be same as shvan and vidya but as a sister prospective don't you always look at your younger sibling as a child? You always look out for them, and love them.

-Dhram and meeras child will call meeras sister aunt or now bhabhi!!! Either way relationship is not muddle up.

-vidya and shaven child will call dhram and meera dada /Dadi or aunt or uncle, either way you look at those child as your own sibling or child.

This is possible as they are not blood related however it gets gross because we think like this as a society and morally in a natural world this will not happen and tbh yes I have hard time digesting this fact however looking at dhram and meeras love, a 3 end person can not take that decision when 2 people is happy the way they are.

Love can happen to anyone!


Alternative : Durga may be his wife but shvan not his child, can be his brother!! This distance the relationship and dheera is possible with no obligation.

This is the unbiased post which has the pros and cons to dheera relationship. Dheera relationship is weird in many ways.

Couldn't read all of this in detail but got the general gist. A good, relatively neutral post. Good job there!

You are contradicting yourself.

Originally posted by: White-Rose

You are contradicting yourself.

You are using shameless and brave in same sentence

Shameless person can't be brave and vice versa

If he is fighting for meera shamelessly doesn't make him brave, it means for him lust is above everything.

Why falling in love means only with a girl? Why can't he fall in love with his child who was pressurised to marry any Modi daughter just for happiness of his mom?

Again there is one more contradiction. From where did shravan come if there was no relationship between dharam and Durga?

Meera is anything but wife. She is not wife of dharam. He has no right on meera and if meera wish to marry someone else without divorce then dharam can't even stop her. That marriage is illegal to begin with.

All these years dharam has just lived for himself and his mother. Now it's time to live for his son. Responsibility of father is not just to contribute sperms, giving him happy life and a good upbringing is his responsibility too. Now when he is improved then start spreading happiness from your home and start with your own child.

Shravan is not yet declared his brother, let's talk about reality and not possibilities. Right now shravan is his son.

Meera is an immature girl, few months back he was in love with sanskar and it took her few days to fall out of love. If tomorrow any of meera's friend taunts her about your husband is an old man, there are chances of meera losing interest from her marriage. She would make circus out of all relations. Better let her go and let her live her life.

I don't think dharam is 42. When aham and Gopi got married at that time aham was a well settled business man. He looked like a well trained business man. He must be around 26 at that time. There was no relationship between aham gopi for few years, let's say till meera arrived aham was around 28 or 29. Add 18 years of leap means 47. Let's say dharam is one year younger then aham means 46. Even dharam has a business and he might have contributed few years in it to learn before marriage. Those who want to have career can't get married in 18 or 20 years and start vellagiri.

About debate of right or wrong. It's morally and legally wrong.

Good post. Your age calculation is accurate.😃 It was mentioned in the show that Ahem was 26 when he was a bachelor. Ahem got married at the age of 26. He completed his 27th birthday when Rashi changed the cake order which Gopi had placed. His friends made fun of him looking at the cake picture. There was no relationship between Ahem and Gopi for 1 year.

Ahem had consummated Gopi in their second holi after eating bhang laddus which means that they had a honeymoon in their second year of their marriage.

After 10 year leap, Ahem told Gopi that she is not like before and she is 43 years to climb on the stool and take out things from the shelf. Gopi told that he is 47. So the age difference between them is 4. That is Gopi married at the age of 22.

Dharam is one year younger to Ahem so he is 46 but he is elder to Gopi.

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

Good post. Your age calculation is accurate.😃 It was mentioned in the show that Ahem was 26 when he was a bachelor. Ahem got married at the age of 26. He completed his 27th birthday when Rashi changed the cake order which Gopi had placed. His friends made fun of him looking at the cake picture. There was no relationship between Ahem and Gopi for 1 year.

Ahem had consummated Gopi in their second holi after eating bhang laddus which means that they had a honeymoon in their second year of their marriage.

After 10 year leap, Ahem told Gopi that she is not like before and she is 43 years to climb on the stool and take out things from the shelf. Gopi told that he is 47. So the age difference between them is 4. That is Gopi married at the age of 22.

Dharam is one year younger to Ahem so he is 46 but he is elder to Gopi.

Modi family especially Kokila Modi is marriage oriented. She interferes in other person's life. In Gujrathi community, business in there in their blood. If they spend one rupee, they have the capacity to earn 100 Rs. That does not actually need a degree. It needs tact.

But the CV's have made SNS that way wherein women don't have any other work but to get married and produce children

Nice we had many POV regarding the odd relationship, at least we have explanation why this forum is half/half that's great.

Originally posted by: White-Rose

You are contradicting yourself.

You are using shameless and brave in same sentence

Shameless person can't be brave and vice versa

If he is fighting for meera shamelessly doesn't make him brave, it means for him lust is above everything.

Why falling in love means only with a girl? Why can't he fall in love with his child who was pressurised to marry any Modi daughter just for happiness of his mom?

Again there is one more contradiction. From where did shravan come if there was no relationship between dharam and Durga?

Meera is anything but wife. She is not wife of dharam. He has no right on meera and if meera wish to marry someone else without divorce then dharam can't even stop her. That marriage is illegal to begin with.

All these years dharam has just lived for himself and his mother. Now it's time to live for his son. Responsibility of father is not just to contribute sperms, giving him happy life and a good upbringing is his responsibility too. Now when he is improved then start spreading happiness from your home and start with your own child.

<font size="2">Shravan is not yet declared his brother, let's talk about reality and not possibilities. Right now shravan is his son.</font>

Meera is an immature girl, few months back she was in love with sanskar and it took her few days to fall out of love. If tomorrow any of meera's friend taunts her about your husband is an old man, there are chances of meera losing interest from her marriage. She would make circus out of all relations. Better let her go and let her live her life.

I don't think dharam is 42. When aham and Gopi got married at that time aham was a well settled business man. He looked like a well trained business man. He must be around 26 at that time. There was no relationship between aham gopi for few years, let's say till meera arrived aham was around 28 or 29. Add 18 years of leap means 47. Let's say dharam is one year younger then aham means 46. Even dharam has a business and he might have contributed few years in it to learn before marriage. Those who want to have career can't get married in 18 or 20 years and start vellagiri.

About debate of right or wrong. It's morally and legally wrong.

For your top line: yes I am putting my POV across that's the soul reason for this post, so we can know what people thinks, not argue against it!!

And shameless person can be brave, you can not take that right way from them. It depends how a individual person look at certain prospective, for example this one, I like dheera but back of my mind there is all this relationship however if they both love one another, no 3rd person can intefear on the other hand you don't like and so you will not agree either way. But that's your prospective, not my or not others.

Originally posted by: Maansexi

For your top line: yes I am putting my POV across that's the soul reason for this post, so we can know what people thinks, not argue against it!!

And shameless person can be brave, you can not take that right way from them. It depends how a individual person look at certain prospective, for example this one, I like dheera but back of my mind there is all this relationship however if they both love one another, no 3rd person can intefear on the other hand you don't like and so you will not agree either way. But that's your prospective, not my or not others.