With all these exclamations about trust...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I'm shocked how Kunj finds it totally normal that he can believe Maya trusts him with her divorce, but not that Twinkle trusts him with her life after all they've gone through together. It broke my heart in the beginning of the episode to see how he's so pleased Maya trusts him but for even one moment cannot see that yes Twinkle does show trust in him. But he's never been able to do the same. He wants her to mature up, and now when she's trying he plays it off. In fact Kunj is the one being immature here. It really annoys me how the CVs have changed him from the wise, understanding guy to one who acknowledges something is off with his wife but doesn't do anything about it. Not once in the past few days has he gone up to Twinkle and really tried to talk to her about what's wrong. He finds it weird that she is so upset about Maya's divorce, she's going through his phone, she's acting more clingy but nope he's gonna brush it off and just explode on her when she's left with no choice but to confront Maya about it.

Twinkle tried to talk to Kunj, and now she went to Maya. Where's his trust in Twinkle once again? How can he just blow up on her without any background story or explanation?

What do you guys think about the precap? Was it a bad decision on Twinkle's part? Or is Kunj continuing to be irrational?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: teddyyy

I'm shocked how Kunj finds it totally normal that he can believe Maya trusts him with her divorce, but not that Twinkle trusts him with her life after all they've gone through together. It broke my heart in the beginning of the episode to see how he's so pleased Maya trusts him but for even one moment cannot see that yes Twinkle does show trust in him. But he's never been able to do the same. He wants her to mature up, and now when she's trying he plays it off. In fact Kunj is the one being immature here. It really annoys me how the CVs have changed him from the wise, understanding guy to one who acknowledges something is off with his wife but doesn't do anything about it. Not once in the past few days has he gone up to Twinkle and really tried to talk to her about what's wrong. He finds it weird that she is so upset about Maya's divorce, she's going through his phone, she's acting more clingy but nope he's gonna brush it off and just explode on her when she's left with no choice but to confront Maya about it.


Twinkle tried to talk to Kunj, and now she went to Maya. Where's his trust in Twinkle once again? How can he just blow up on her without any background story or explanation?

What do you guys think about the precap? Was it a bad decision on Twinkle's part? Or is Kunj continuing to be irrational?


Straight to the point, love it..I'm gonna head first into my view on precap..Twinkle is in the right, yes her manner of doing it may be wrong..but how many times has she confided in Kunj on what she feels..he doesn't seem to care or understand her one bit..so for Twinkle it is a means as a last straw to explode in front of the cause which she sees as Maya

Communication is vital in a relationship and these two are doing everything else but that..I wish I could just enter the screen and lock them into one room until they talk it all out

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ill reiterate my voice throughout other posts.. mainly cause im sad the posts are so less commented and viewed on. Activity in forum is like dead. šŸ˜†
Anyways, I dont think kunj is wrong but I do agree there is some immaturity on his end with the Maya stuff. Just as I think theres some immaturity on Twinkles end.. Both are being immature in their own ways but I dont think either are wrong.

At the end of all this this misunderstanding has to grow for it to reach its fruition. And Thatll only happen if theres lack of communication. So im going with the track as is.. lets see what the outcome is.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Superb post.

Kunj conveniently forgot how much trust she showed on him in the past even before marriage n after marriage also

If Twinkle did not trust Kunj.She would have not called him in the first place.When Yuvi kidnapped Twinkle.During sangeet ceremony.She in-spite of FH MU.She felt Kunj is the person she should call at her crisis situation n the hug.She felt safe in his embrace.That showed Twinkle's trust in Kunj.Also she was in dilemma.When they both left in car.Twinkle said in her mind.Kunj is the person who always helped me in my crisis,supported me ,protected me n always there for me.But how can I ignore what my eyes saw[Reg FH MU.That time also Twinkle tried to believe Kunj with FH MU]

After marriage all the hugs were initiated by Twinkle.If she thinks Kunj as a person who took advantage of her.She would have never went so close to him.Allow him to come near her.This shows Twinkle never felt Kunj as a person who can take advantage of any women.When Kunj wen to Goa.She missed him n said if he was there he would have made me feel SAFE.This one dialogue shows her immense trust on him.She feel safe with him.Twinkle brought the FH issue.Because he was upset seeing Kunj supporting RT n raised his hand on him.That made her trigger her anger so much.So she brought the issue.Kunj never tried to clear it.Only after Twinkle brought up he cleared it.

After marriage when Anita accused of Kunj stealing.Twinkle believed him n stood for him.Even took the blame for him.She did not ask proof from Kunj.This shows her trust in Kunj.Which Kunj forgot.

In spite of him slapping her on her birthday.Yet when Anita accused him of trying to kill bebe.She did not bring her ego.She again trusted him.That to without proof.She made effort to prove him innocent n she succeeded in it.That shows what kind of high level trust Twinkle had in him.But Kunj forgot that also.

When he apologized to her.She tried to understand.Why he raised hand on her.She forgive him easily.She even put medicine on his wound.[Honestly I wanted Twinkle to blast on him]this shows he understand him.

Many said Kunj slapping Twinkle was heat of the moment.Twinkle also understood it.

Why can't Kuj understand Twinkle bringing the FH MU was heat of the moment.He promised not to raise hand on her.Yet he raised hand on her.What made Twinkle upset was for a 3rd person again Kunj raised hand on me.In that disappointment n anger.She blamed him.Once Kunj told that it was Yuvi who did it.She did not ask proof from Kunj.Like he asked her proof in Yuvi track.This speak volumes how much Trust she have in him.She apologized wholeheartedly.Why Kunj could not forgive her in a normal way then hiding it n then saying in his mind he has moved on from FH Mu.If he had said this to Twinkle.The situation now would not been arised.

Twinkle in-spite of knowing Kunj hided the truth reg FH MU.She understand his situation n dilemma.Why he did not want to say it to her.If it was some other women in Twinkle's.She would have slapped Kunj so hardly.For making her share the same roof with the man who tried to rape her n also for emotionally blackmailing to apply medicine to that guy who tried to rape her.Also because of his guilt he believed that guy who tried to rape her.Then her.She would have left him.But Twinkle understood Kunj n she apologized to him.But Kunj should have also apologized for no trusting her n make her share same roof with Yuvi.But Kunj did not do it.

In this track Twinkle does not have trust issue on Kunj.She wants Kunj to open up n say the truth.If at all he is having affair.Why cant he say to me.He is very casual about it.

Coming to precap Twinkle could have asked Maya differently whether she n Kunj love each other.Instead of using stealing word.But Twinkle did not accuse Kunj or her question did not show lack of trust on Kunj.Kunj getting angry for the question is understandable.But accusing Twinkle of not trusting n walking away from the cafe is irrational.I don't justify his actions.

Before accusing Twinkle for lack of trust n not understanding him.Kunj need to sit n think.In past how many times Twinkle believed him,have trust in him and understand his situation.How many times he believed Twinkle,trusted her n understand her situation.Then he will act maturely n will speak with her properly.

Edited by VIMAL.M - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -WalkThatWay-


Straight to the point, love it..I'm gonna head first into my view on precap..Twinkle is in the right, yes her manner of doing it may be wrong..but how many times has she confided in Kunj on what she feels..he doesn't seem to care or understand her one bit..so for Twinkle it is a means as a last straw to explode in front of the cause which she sees as Maya

Communication is vital in a relationship and these two are doing everything else but that..I wish I could just enter the screen and lock them into one room until they talk it all out

Haha thank you! Yesss! So many times she's tried but to no avail so Maya was the next option. LOL if you find a way to do that, let us know, I for one would love to join you because they need to have a serious conversation.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SiyapaaQueen

Ill reiterate my voice throughout other posts.. mainly cause im sad the posts are so less commented and viewed on. Activity in forum is like dead. šŸ˜†

Anyways, I dont think kunj is wrong but I do agree there is some immaturity on his end with the Maya stuff. Just as I think theres some immaturity on Twinkles end.. Both are being immature in their own ways but I dont think either are wrong.

At the end of all this this misunderstanding has to grow for it to reach its fruition. And Thatll only happen if theres lack of communication. So im going with the track as is.. lets see what the outcome is.

There's so many posts and not that many comments, you're right 🄱 I see where you're coming from, that was my standing point two days ago but now I'm beginning to lean towards Kunj being wrong in his actions because it's getting a little off the hook with the Maya thingy.

I don't mind misunderstanding tracks, love angst but rn there's just so much confusion! Hope it gets better 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Superb post.

Kunj conveniently forgot how much trust she showed on him in the past even before marriage n after marriage also

If Twinkle did not trust Kunj.She would have not called him in the first place.When Yuvi kidnapped Twinkle.During sangeet ceremony.She in-spite of FH MU.She felt Kunj is the person she should call at her crisis situation n the hug.She felt safe in his embrace.That showed Twinkle's trust in Kunj.Also she was in dilemma.When they both left in car.Twinkle said in her mind.Kunj is the person who always helped me in my crisis,supported me ,protected me n always there for me.But how can I ignore what my eyes saw[Reg FH MU.That time also Twinkle tried to believe Kunj with FH MU]

After marriage all the hugs were initiated by Twinkle.If she thinks Kunj as a person who took advantage of her.She would have never went so close to him.Allow him to come near her.This shows Twinkle never felt Kunj as a person who can take advantage of any women.When Kunj wen to Goa.She missed him n said if he was there he would have made me feel SAFE.This one dialogue shows her immense trust on him.She feel safe with him.Twinkle brought the FH issue.Because he was upset seeing Kunj supporting RT n raised his hand on him.That made her trigger her anger so much.So she brought the issue.Kunj never tried to clear it.Only after Twinkle brought up he cleared it.

After marriage when Anita accused of Kunj stealing.Twinkle believed him n stood for him.Even took the blame for him.She did not ask proof from Kunj.This shows her trust in Kunj.Which Kunj forgot.

In spite of him slapping her on her birthday.Yet when Anita accused him of trying to kill bebe.She did not bring her ego.She again trusted him.That to without proof.She made effort to prove him innocent n she succeeded in it.That shows what kind of high level trust Twinkle had in him.But Kunj forgot that also.

When he apologized to her.She tried to understand.Why he raised hand on her.She forgive him easily.She even put medicine on his wound.[Honestly I wanted Twinkle to blast on him]this shows he understand him.

Many said Kunj slapping Twinkle was heat of the moment.Twinkle also understood it.

Why can't Kuj understand Twinkle bringing the FH MU was heat of the moment.He promised not to raise hand on her.Yet he raised hand on her.What made Twinkle upset was for a 3rd person again Kunj raised hand on me.In that disappointment n anger.She blamed him.Once Kunj told that it was Yuvi who did it.She did not ask proof from Kunj.Like he asked her proof in Yuvi track.This speak volumes how much Trust she have in him.She apologized wholeheartedly.Why Kunj could not forgive her in a normal way then hiding it n then saying in his mind he has moved on from FH Mu.If he had said this to Twinkle.The situation now would not been arised.

Twinkle in-spite of knowing Kunj hided the truth reg FH MU.She understand his situation n dilemma.Why he did not want to say it to her.If it was some other women in Twinkle's.She would have slapped Kunj so hardly.For making her share the same roof with the man who tried to rape her n also for emotionally blackmailing to apply medicine to that guy who tried to rape her.Also because of his guilt he believed that guy who tried to rape her.Then her.She would have left him.But Twinkle understood Kunj n she apologized to him.But Kunj should have also apologized for no trusting her n make her share same roof with Yuvi.But Kunj did not do it.

In this track Twinkle does not have trust issue on Kunj.She wants Kunj to open up n say the truth.If at all he is having affair.Why cant he say to me.He is very casual about it.

Coming to precap Twinkle could have asked Maya differently whether she n Kunj love each other.Instead of using stealing word.But Twinkle did not accuse Kunj or her question did not show lack of trust on Kunj.Kunj getting angry for the question is understandable.But accusing Twinkle of not trusting n walking away from the cafe is irrational.I don't justify his actions.

Before accusing Twinkle for lack of trust n not understanding him.Kunj need to sit n think.In past how many times Twinkle believed him,have trust in him and understand his situation.How many times he believed Twinkle,trusted her n understand her situation.Then he will act maturely n will speak with her properly.

Superb post or superb reply? šŸ‘ I gotta hand it to you Vimal, this was exceptional to read! Every instance you spoke of was so important. Twinkle has shown her trust in all the little and big things. The FH MU cropped up out of hurt, other than that everything she's done has been out of her trust for him.

@bold: My favorite part of the response omg. I never thought about how she never asked for proof like is it that difficult to understand her after that?

And yess Twinkle just wants to know, she needs to know what's going on.

As for the recap, you're right Twinkle was wrong in her word choice but Kunj was not justified either.

@blue: your reply was so perfect and this was a great summary hehe.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Superb post.

Kunj conveniently forgot how much trust she showed on him in the past even before marriage n after marriage also

If Twinkle did not trust Kunj.She would have not called him in the first place.When Yuvi kidnapped Twinkle.During sangeet ceremony.She in-spite of FH MU.She felt Kunj is the person she should call at her crisis situation n the hug.She felt safe in his embrace.That showed Twinkle's trust in Kunj.Also she was in dilemma.When they both left in car.Twinkle said in her mind.Kunj is the person who always helped me in my crisis,supported me ,protected me n always there for me.But how can I ignore what my eyes saw[Reg FH MU.That time also Twinkle tried to believe Kunj with FH MU]

After marriage all the hugs were initiated by Twinkle.If she thinks Kunj as a person who took advantage of her.She would have never went so close to him.Allow him to come near her.This shows Twinkle never felt Kunj as a person who can take advantage of any women.When Kunj wen to Goa.She missed him n said if he was there he would have made me feel SAFE.This one dialogue shows her immense trust on him.She feel safe with him.Twinkle brought the FH issue.Because he was upset seeing Kunj supporting RT n raised his hand on him.That made her trigger her anger so much.So she brought the issue.Kunj never tried to clear it.Only after Twinkle brought up he cleared it.

After marriage when Anita accused of Kunj stealing.Twinkle believed him n stood for him.Even took the blame for him.She did not ask proof from Kunj.This shows her trust in Kunj.Which Kunj forgot.

In spite of him slapping her on her birthday.Yet when Anita accused him of trying to kill bebe.She did not bring her ego.She again trusted him.That to without proof.She made effort to prove him innocent n she succeeded in it.That shows what kind of high level trust Twinkle had in him.But Kunj forgot that also.

When he apologized to her.She tried to understand.Why he raised hand on her.She forgive him easily.She even put medicine on his wound.[Honestly I wanted Twinkle to blast on him]this shows he understand him.

Many said Kunj slapping Twinkle was heat of the moment.Twinkle also understood it.

Why can't Kuj understand Twinkle bringing the FH MU was heat of the moment.He promised not to raise hand on her.Yet he raised hand on her.What made Twinkle upset was for a 3rd person again Kunj raised hand on me.In that disappointment n anger.She blamed him.Once Kunj told that it was Yuvi who did it.She did not ask proof from Kunj.Like he asked her proof in Yuvi track.This speak volumes how much Trust she have in him.She apologized wholeheartedly.Why Kunj could not forgive her in a normal way then hiding it n then saying in his mind he has moved on from FH Mu.If he had said this to Twinkle.The situation now would not been arised.

Twinkle in-spite of knowing Kunj hided the truth reg FH MU.She understand his situation n dilemma.Why he did not want to say it to her.If it was some other women in Twinkle's.She would have slapped Kunj so hardly.For making her share the same roof with the man who tried to rape her n also for emotionally blackmailing to apply medicine to that guy who tried to rape her.Also because of his guilt he believed that guy who tried to rape her.Then her.She would have left him.But Twinkle understood Kunj n she apologized to him.But Kunj should have also apologized for no trusting her n make her share same roof with Yuvi.But Kunj did not do it.

In this track Twinkle does not have trust issue on Kunj.She wants Kunj to open up n say the truth.If at all he is having affair.Why cant he say to me.He is very casual about it.

Coming to precap Twinkle could have asked Maya differently whether she n Kunj love each other.Instead of using stealing word.But Twinkle did not accuse Kunj or her question did not show lack of trust on Kunj.Kunj getting angry for the question is understandable.But accusing Twinkle of not trusting n walking away from the cafe is irrational.I don't justify his actions.

Before accusing Twinkle for lack of trust n not understanding him.Kunj need to sit n think.In past how many times Twinkle believed him,have trust in him and understand his situation.How many times he believed Twinkle,trusted her n understand her situation.Then he will act maturely n will speak with her properly.

wow ... great analysis 😊
totally agree with u
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Superb post.

Kunj conveniently forgot how much trust she showed on him in the past even before marriage n after marriage also

If Twinkle did not trust Kunj.She would have not called him in the first place.When Yuvi kidnapped Twinkle.During sangeet ceremony.She in-spite of FH MU.She felt Kunj is the person she should call at her crisis situation n the hug.She felt safe in his embrace.That showed Twinkle's trust in Kunj.Also she was in dilemma.When they both left in car.Twinkle said in her mind.Kunj is the person who always helped me in my crisis,supported me ,protected me n always there for me.But how can I ignore what my eyes saw[Reg FH MU.That time also Twinkle tried to believe Kunj with FH MU]

After marriage all the hugs were initiated by Twinkle.If she thinks Kunj as a person who took advantage of her.She would have never went so close to him.Allow him to come near her.This shows Twinkle never felt Kunj as a person who can take advantage of any women.When Kunj wen to Goa.She missed him n said if he was there he would have made me feel SAFE.This one dialogue shows her immense trust on him.She feel safe with him.Twinkle brought the FH issue.Because he was upset seeing Kunj supporting RT n raised his hand on him.That made her trigger her anger so much.So she brought the issue.Kunj never tried to clear it.Only after Twinkle brought up he cleared it.

After marriage when Anita accused of Kunj stealing.Twinkle believed him n stood for him.Even took the blame for him.She did not ask proof from Kunj.This shows her trust in Kunj.Which Kunj forgot.

In spite of him slapping her on her birthday.Yet when Anita accused him of trying to kill bebe.She did not bring her ego.She again trusted him.That to without proof.She made effort to prove him innocent n she succeeded in it.That shows what kind of high level trust Twinkle had in him.But Kunj forgot that also.

When he apologized to her.She tried to understand.Why he raised hand on her.She forgive him easily.She even put medicine on his wound.[Honestly I wanted Twinkle to blast on him]this shows he understand him.

Many said Kunj slapping Twinkle was heat of the moment.Twinkle also understood it.

Why can't Kuj understand Twinkle bringing the FH MU was heat of the moment.He promised not to raise hand on her.Yet he raised hand on her.What made Twinkle upset was for a 3rd person again Kunj raised hand on me.In that disappointment n anger.She blamed him.Once Kunj told that it was Yuvi who did it.She did not ask proof from Kunj.Like he asked her proof in Yuvi track.This speak volumes how much Trust she have in him.She apologized wholeheartedly.Why Kunj could not forgive her in a normal way then hiding it n then saying in his mind he has moved on from FH Mu.If he had said this to Twinkle.The situation now would not been arised.

Twinkle in-spite of knowing Kunj hided the truth reg FH MU.She understand his situation n dilemma.Why he did not want to say it to her.If it was some other women in Twinkle's.She would have slapped Kunj so hardly.For making her share the same roof with the man who tried to rape her n also for emotionally blackmailing to apply medicine to that guy who tried to rape her.Also because of his guilt he believed that guy who tried to rape her.Then her.She would have left him.But Twinkle understood Kunj n she apologized to him.But Kunj should have also apologized for no trusting her n make her share same roof with Yuvi.But Kunj did not do it.

In this track Twinkle does not have trust issue on Kunj.She wants Kunj to open up n say the truth.If at all he is having affair.Why cant he say to me.He is very casual about it.

Coming to precap Twinkle could have asked Maya differently whether she n Kunj love each other.Instead of using stealing word.But Twinkle did not accuse Kunj or her question did not show lack of trust on Kunj.Kunj getting angry for the question is understandable.But accusing Twinkle of not trusting n walking away from the cafe is irrational.I don't justify his actions.

Before accusing Twinkle for lack of trust n not understanding him.Kunj need to sit n think.In past how many times Twinkle believed him,have trust in him and understand his situation.How many times he believed Twinkle,trusted her n understand her situation.Then he will act maturely n will speak with her properly.

well saidšŸ‘šŸ‘i love reading your post you say it as it is you dont favor T over K or K over T you say it as it is thank you for that.
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teddyyy n vimal so truly said...

vimal sach mey awesome points of her showing trust.


he needs to remember all that instead of wasting time

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