Esha - There are people who keep calling me biased simply because I happen to like a character a lot more than other characters therefore for them every thing I say comes only from my liking for that character.
As for the show bringing message about child marriage is bad.Yes it is giving and still is giving the message.
Child marriage has taken away everything from Anandi Her parents Sumi Bhairon and Dsa are the offenders. Dsa is the worst of all.So she was used to rehabilitate a childbride whose life was ruined because of her blind belies it is not just child marriage Dsa did not believe in women's healthcare education her beliefs about status of women in the home as well as society - all this ruined the lives of Anandi Jamuna and Gehna.
What made Dsa reform? It is the underlying goodness in her that was buried deep in her it is her concern for the happiness of her loved ones that has changed her.It is the realisation that came after seeing her loved ones suffering that made her realise how wrong she had been.It is not the legislations that governemnt has made or the law enforcement that changed her.
It is the supportive progressive minded people made her change her perspectives.
Today with the help of her families she fights against the same evils which she stood for.
Anandi and Dsa together as one unit or as grandmother - daughter pair as far as the CVs are concerned are the symbols of change.They defy the society norms. they came to gether because of child marriage saw so much of unhappiness in their lives because of the society that puts women down anduopholds traditions one of them was an upholder those values and the other always questioned them and they bonded over the hardships they faced.They came out stronger.
They work together for what they believe in.
The so called society can frown at them but as one unit they send a strong message - humanity is far above the norms and beliefs of the society.
If the old lady considers Anandi as her grand daughter the so called society has no right to question it.
I am not talking about Jagya because - He is a combinantion of Sumi and Bhairon as well as Dsa he is an extension of Dsa.
Dsa with her beliefs has made him some what like her and Anandi's sufferings from him were more of a result of Dsa's influence on him.Today he is a man who beliefs in equality and sees nothing wrong in seeing his ex wife as his best friend.
They all know where they stand their hearts are clean therefore there isn't any need to answer the questions that society asks them. They are not doing any wrong.
From legal point of view they are not doing anything illegal by staying in the same house.
Society can question but why should anyone care for what society or people think as long as they are not doing any harm?
Child marriage affected them all Anandi's life was ruined Dsa has to live with a lot of regrets Jagya paid the price for following Dsa's foot steps but what saved them is not the laws legislatures or law enforcement agencies but their own inherent goodness.
Nandini Akheraj family relationship may not be this way because Harki Akheraj Kundan have not realised the error of their ways .
Moral - It is not laws that are needed to bring change in society it is the mindset.
Anandi Jagya don't see themselves as exes any more but people still see them from that perspective.
Anandi can dance very happily to celebrate Jagya's wedding anniversary with his third wife and that is because she has truly moved on from that part of life.
When she has forgotten the fact that she had been his wife once upon a time why people are so bent on remembering it?
Is her view of life wrong?
Why does it become a problem for on lookers when they want to remain as friends?
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