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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

One cannot play forever. Either Mangala or Anandi. A child is a child. Vulnerable. She could take Harki's beatings but not mental torture she is being subjected to. Now she developed fever too. It is like killing the goose that is laying golden eggs forever. Now both will run to imprison Nandini inside a golden cage. Hope she will be away until these two ladies sort things out. Let anandi become strong enough and let Mangala become sensible enough.

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kase

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Posted: 10 years ago

Even at this stage , what stops Anandi or DS from telling her that A is her mother ? What is Anandi waiting for ??? High time one of Jagya, Ganga or DS exposed Mangala ...all of them are not as gullible as Anandi ..

Now it's clear CVs have dragged this to bring in fusion episodes..but want Mangala to be caught soon

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: kase
Even at this stage , what stops Anandi or DS from telling her that A is her mother ? What is Anandi waiting for ??? High time one of Jagya, Ganga or DS exposed Mangala ...all of them are not as gullible as Anandi ..
Now it's clear CVs have dragged this to bring in fusion episodes..but want Mangala to be caught soon

Anandi is preventing DS from spilling the beans by repeating what Jagya says about Mangala. That but for Mangala, Nandini would not have been alive. DS has to listen to this EB just like others did when she was EBing them. I thought Anandi has become stronger. She is capable of living without disclosing the truth for the rest of her life. Mangala taking advantage of Anandi's insecurities. Sometimes I feel Nandini should never come back and lead a nomadic life. Let Mangala go back to Jhalra. Let Anandi take care of SN and Shivam. Let both of them be punished like this for their sins of omission and commission.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

What stops Anandi from telling the truth?

It is the assumption that the child doesn't want anything to do with her mother.

They have seen for themselves what the mere word mother does to that child.

That is obstacle no 1

Obstacle no 2 is Anandi believing Mangala's assurances which is the most foolish thing that Anandi is doing now

Obstacle no 3 Anandi's inability to overcome the obstacle called Mangala and establish communication channel with the child with the help of her own alter ego CC

Obstacle no 4 Misinformation or the communication channels blocked. Anandi is still under the impression that the child is not ready for a dialogue with her mother.Nandini still believes that her mother dumped in garbage bin If Anandi knew that the child is ready for a dialogue with her mother she would convince the child all by herself how much she loves her and how she searched fro her and how she will try and make up for the lost years even if she can't give them back to her.She doesn't need anyone to remove the zeher from her daughter's mind.

The most important thing - Anandi not believing in her own capabilities to remove the zeher from her daughter's mind.

High time Anandi believed in her love and the bond her alter ego CC shares with the child and went ahead and told the child that she is her mother.

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kase

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Anandi is preventing DS from spilling the beans by repeating what Jagya says about Mangala. That but for Mangala, Nandini would not have been alive. DS has to listen to this EB just like others did when she was EBing them. I thought Anandi has become stronger. She is capable of living without disclosing the truth for the rest of her life. Mangala taking advantage of Anandi's insecurities. Sometimes I feel Nandini should never come back and lead a nomadic life. Let Mangala go back to Jhalra. Let Anandi take care of SN and Shivam. Let both of them be punished like this for their sins of omission and commission.

Had exactly the same thoughts yesterday... Both of them should get punished and good if Nimboli runs away and they realize their mistakes

Can't understand how Anandi's mind works ...rather how CVs make her act like this

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Anandi is preventing DS from spilling the beans by repeating what Jagya says about Mangala. That but for Mangala, Nandini would not have been alive. DS has to listen to this EB just like others did when she was EBing them. I thought Anandi has become stronger. She is capable of living without disclosing the truth for the rest of her life. Mangala taking advantage of Anandi's insecurities. Sometimes I feel Nandini should never come back and lead a nomadic life. Let Mangala go back to Jhalra. Let Anandi take care of SN and Shivam. Let both of them be punished like this for their sins of omission and commission.

What is right now the most essential thing is that Anandi believe in her love for her child and her bond with the girl as CC and go ahead instead of believing Mangala.

Anandi needs her child just as much the child needs her.

Akheraj took advantage of Mangala's insecurities illiteracy weakness and her fears now Mangala is doing the same thing with Nandini and Anandi.When Nandini was growing up in Jhalra at that time Akheraj and his acts dictated the child's life and that took her closer to Mangala rather than her yearning for her mother. Now with Akheraj and family removed from the child's life the lady is using the child's anger to bring her closer and make her stay with her.

She saw Anandi's insecurities and fear of losing her child all over again so she is using it.

Anandi needs to overcome her own fears.She lost so much before and she fought back every time now it's time she listened to her heart and proceeded.

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kase

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: aparnauma

What is right now the most essential thing is that Anandi believe in her love for her child and her bond with the girl as CC and go ahead instead of believing Mangala.

Anandi needs her child just as much the child needs her.

Akheraj took advantage of Mangala's insecurities illiteracy weakness and her fears now Mangala is doing the same thing with Nandini and Anandi.When Nandini was growing up in Jhalra at that time Akheraj and his acts dictated the child's life and that took her closer to Mangala rather than her yearning for her mother. Now with Akheraj and family removed from the child's life the lady is using the child's anger to bring her closer and make her stay with her.
She saw Anandi's insecurities and fear of losing her child all over again so she is using it.

Anandi needs to overcome her own fears.She lost so much before and she fought back every time now it's time she listened to her heart and proceeded.

Feel like shaking Anandi hard to make her take some action. She is giving these helpless looks. She is the lead and has to show some strength.

Pathetic to see Mn manipulating them all so easily and Anandi is still not taking a stand

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Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

What stops Anandi from telling the truth? - Well She lives in imaginary fear of rejection. - That's extremely selfish.

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There is a reason why adults / parents have the responsibility of their child's welfare, and not the child having its own responsibility.

It is a very lame excuse to say that the girl doesn't want to do anything with her mother and that's why Anandi is holding on. This girl is only a child who doesn't understand everything yet, and this is where the mother needs to step and take a decision that is the child's interest.

Should the mother not have better thinking abilities than to just sail with what the girl wants?Don't parents ever take harsh decisions for their children, if that's what in child's best interest?

Anandi depending on Mangala to bridge the gap is also another lame theory followed by Anandi. This woman first loses her daughter, relies on others to find her and now still continues to rely on others to bridge the gap. What is her contribution as a mother in her daughter's life?

Even if Mangala was a positive woman, why should Anandi not make any efforts to improve the communication stream between herself and her child. Its more than 2 months since A and N live under the same roof and still Anandi failed to return this girl her identity and belongingness?

It does not take FOREVER to create a sympathy in a child's heart.

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The reason why N didn't consider A, before wanting to go back to Jhalra, is because Anandi always treated her as a guest and this is why the girl only thinks of A as good woman / host. But not someone who is her own. Sadly, Anandi put all efforts in ensuring that N likes CC, but didn't put any effort in making the girl like her mother.

Anandi has never even tried to know what the girl wants. She was always busy in giving things that she wanted to give to the girl.

Anandi's actions are not comprehensive in any fashion. She is making no efforts to know her daughter, she is not making any efforts to bridge the gap but relies on others to do do. She can't give this girl her identity and as a mother, she is and has been playing with this girl's life and future.

Very sad to see portrayals of such weak mothers in the show.

Edited by Missesha - 10 years ago

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: kase

Feel like shaking Anandi hard to make her take some action. She is giving these helpless looks. She is the lead and has to show some strength.
Pathetic to see Mn manipulating them all so easily and Anandi is still not taking a stand

Anandi is the lead who doesn't get scared or live in fear of likes of Akheraj.

People like Akheraj Anandi can fix them very well even without any help.

But here the issue is not straight forward she cannot just announce that she is the mother because the child's emotions are involved.

So she has to approach with caution.

But what is irritating is that she is believing Mangala instead of trusting her own self and the girl's love for CC.

Anandi never sees hidden evil simply because she is not that type of person.She believes Mangala loves the child just like she does but what Anandi doesn't realise is that while her love is all about doing best for the child Mangala's love is all about posessing the child and claiming rights over that child.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Anandi's fear of rejection is very real.

She did not believe when Mangala told her that the child hates her mother

But she saw with her own eyes how the child reacted.

But slowly that started to change - soon after that Chhat pooja trip when Dsa told the child the course of conversation that her mother must be pining for her the child didn't react so negatively.

But Anandi Dsa were slow in reinforcing that thawing towards her mother. They should have put their foot down and insisted on spending more time with the child instead of letting Mangala had out the togetherness time like it is some ration.

They let Mangala dictate terms to them when they should have been the ones dictating terms to Mangala because she had no legal standing nor is she in a position to raise the child to top it all she lied to the child. All these things should have been used to get closer to the child.

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