Nahar's love for Vrinda

reading yesterday's update. It looks like Naahr and rest of the family is feeling closer to vrinda and care more for Vrinda.

Yes Saloni's actions are alientating her family from her . But then doesn't she need a break too. She is pregnnet and in that family every one behaved badly one time or other except bhabho.

So why Saloni shouldn't be spared.

Why should Nahar hug vrinda and comfort her. Our culture does not allow man to hug other women. Saloni is right Vrinda is not related to Singh parivar.

She was rescued and brought home to give a shelter. How can she be a member of the family.

Agree saloni is nasty is is possible that Naahr is more and more drawn to vrinda and saloni is crying outloud with jealosy. Seeing Vrinda's caring to wards Nahar and Nahar showing same caring.

what say?

mmmm. you are right Di....I was thinking the same thing. Weren't we all saying that Saloni needs to speak up, everytime she tried to help and was always right she got insulted and humilated....so now when she is answering back....why all the fuss about her attitude and behaviour?

I don't totally blame Saloni, but she is wrong if she wants to unite Nahar and Vrinda. If there is complication and its possible that only she or the baby can be saved or she has a major illness......and she wants to give the heir to the family...that's her wish, but to unite Nahar and Vrinda so he can continue his life its totally wrong. Its his life if he wants to remarry or not...why to decide for him.

I was thinking the same way. There were a few things that Nahar said/did yesterday that I do not agree with even thought Saloni is behaving in a strange way.
- He hugged Vrinda
- He wanted saloni to come back from her work ( as if it is not important) and cook so that his work does not suffer
- Then he said Vrinda made food all by herself. HAsn't Saloni done that so many times. Why couldn't Tara,Bhabho and Aditi help her. The business deal would help all of them right.
- And Saloni's question about relationship was perfect. She is becoming a real woman now, no more ideal & perfect unjealous one.I love her for that.

Nahar can accept her as a sister, if they really have to give it a name, but no, it always has to go to the romantic route

oke coming to nahars rescue...
agreed that married man can't go around hugging woman... but are we not jumping to conclusions now....

he didn't meant harm with the hug...
it would be wrong if his intention where wrong.... but that isn't the case....
so leave him...

sec... the way saloni is behaving I wouldn't blame him if at some point he will fall for vrinda...( god I so hope we will be saved form that)

but he is being pushed away... mistreated and so is his fly... how long is he gone accepted everything....

saloni and baby...
if saloni is sick and doing this to walk out off nahars life....dont be surprised if one off these day's she will walk in and announce that she aborted the baby... ( oke , knowing saloni... she will be lying....)
but this will end saloni and nahars relation....

if nahar is going to falling for vrinda then this will be end of saat phere.if not nahar and saloni then not saat phere.and maybe nahar doing this to jealous of saloni.because she is not carring for him and his family and maybe he thought that if i go close to vrinda maybe saloni fill jealouse and she once again come to her sense.

Originally posted by: simran20

mmmm. you are right Di....I was thinking the same thing. Weren't we all saying that Saloni needs to speak up, everytime she tried to help and was always right she got insulted and humilated....so now when she is answering back....why all the fuss about her attitude and behaviour?

I don't totally blame Saloni, but she is wrong if she wants to unite Nahar and Vrinda. If there is complication and its possible that only she or the baby can be saved or she has a major illness......and she wants to give the heir to the family...that's her wish, but to unite Nahar and Vrinda so he can continue his life its totally wrong. Its his life if he wants to remarry or not...why to decide for him.

i agree let Nahar decide rather than making him so unhappy. at this point i am not sure in which direction story is headed and why saloni is doing waht she is doing?

May be SP makers are confused too. I am not sure.

Originally posted by: 7387_nidhi

I was thinking the same way. There were a few things that Nahar said/did yesterday that I do not agree with even thought Saloni is behaving in a strange way.
- He hugged Vrinda
- He wanted saloni to come back from her work ( as if it is not important) and cook so that his work does not suffer
- Then he said Vrinda made food all by herself. HAsn't Saloni done that so many times. Why couldn't Tara,Bhabho and Aditi help her. The business deal would help all of them right.
- And Saloni's question about relationship was perfect. She is becoming a real woman now, no more ideal & perfect unjealous one.I love her for that.

Nahar can accept her as a sister, if they really have to give it a name, but no, it always has to go to the romantic route

I agree why is not accepting her as sister or a good friend. yes saloni did that upto now does not account to anything. besides there are otehr memebers in house too who can cook. They have servants too. So why all this fuss if saloni did not make it in time andVrinda cooking one time.

Originally posted by: shali

oke coming to nahars rescue...
agreed that married man can't go around hugging woman... but are we not jumping to conclusions now....

he didn't meant harm with the hug...
it would be wrong if his intention where wrong.... but that isn't the case....
so leave him...

sec... the way saloni is behaving I wouldn't blame him if at some point he will fall for vrinda...( god I so hope we will be saved form that)

but he is being pushed away... mistreated and so is his fly... how long is he gone accepted everything....

saloni and baby...
if saloni is sick and doing this to walk out off nahars life....dont be surprised if one off these day's she will walk in and announce that she aborted the baby... ( oke , knowing saloni... she will be lying....)
but this will end saloni and nahars relation....

shali our society does not accept married man hugging other woman and especially Nahar and parivar so much caring for culture and asking or rather demanding for wifely duties as if her work is less important and cooking is more imp. What is so big deal If vrinda cook . she lives there for free and she is counted as family member. So why so much fuss whether she cooks of vrinda cooks?

Originally posted by: sharona_bha

if nahar is going to falling for vrinda then this will be end of saat phere.if not nahar and saloni then not saat phere.and maybe nahar doing this to jealous of saloni.because she is not carring for him and his family and maybe he thought that if i go close to vrinda maybe saloni fill jealouse and she once again come to her sense.

i too feel very much that Saloni is feeling jealous towards vrinda because Nahar brought her home. Intially she accepted but seeing Vrinda's Nahar bhakti she is now regretting may be.

After reading the update today
i think Saloni has every reason to mistrust Nahar.
What business he has going to Vrinda's room in the middle of night.
Whch wife would not be suspicious if her husband goes to some ohter woman in the middle of night. we all know how Vrinda feels about Nahar. Is is possible Nahar is falling for her too.

what if dheer did the same thing. Would any one spare him?
Nahar should have waited till next morning.

saloni is being bad but there is a logic behind what she says.