Shaadi, Shaadi, Shaadi....

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Does these writers think anything apart from marriage topic?. I know it s a trp -garner for them. But still the way its shown is like a game to them. The almost bride,might become the almost groom's sister-in-law and vice-versa. This beautiful bonding is made into a circus game by these writers. Anything they do is directly or indirectly related to Shaadi. I just wonder how? 😲

This show had potential to showcase the relation between sisters. Not entangle them to a forced marriage track, with two sisters trying to reveal each others secrets. One about the fake marriage, Other about the facade of her half sister.

I am a huge SwaSan fan.I want to see them get married and make Swara fall in love with Sanskaar. She deserves a guy with a backbone and most importantly who trusts her .However, the way the show is progressing, is not to my liking. One main point is, the way the writers trying to show, how difficult is to Swara and Sankaar is to reveal Ragini's truth. Why cant Swara record , what Ragini says to her? Or even better, make the truth come out of Ragini's mouth , and everyone is secretly hiding and then come out when Ragini accepts her sins.? Is that so difficult? The writers make the lead girl become genius in one scenario where her 'husband' is involved, but she still cant defeat the evil sister whom she was the victim herself.Unbelievable!

Secondly, the dragging of this simple track is just going nowhere.One tries to reveal and the other tries to commit another sin and then cycle continues. Its never ending chaos.


I am just disappointed what the writers are trying to portray. Kidnapping, Drugging, Trying to frame an innocent man to molest his younger brothers wife etc. The same old disgusting acts being recycled all over again. The quality of these shows are degrading day by day.

I want a SwaSan marriage, where Swara marries Sanskaar wholeheartedly and in a light- hearted , delightful ,grand ceremony. Swara deserves her share of happiness. Its what i want.


This is my opinion.feel free to comment and leave your views.


Just a note to those people who come saying that ' if you dont like it , dont watch, or dont come to the forum '. The forum, itself is a place to raise their opinions and have healthy discussion over the conflict of the opinions. The forum doesn't have a sign board restricting the entries of the people who doesnt like the content of the show. .( This is because,i have come across such comments when i criticized some characters/makers of the show and i have seen such comments in similar type of posts made by other members)

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Posted: 10 years ago
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i 100% accept you dear.. i liked the sisters bonding in beginning too but cv's successfully butchered it too..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tigress.meenu

i 100% accept you dear.. i liked the sisters bonding in beginning too but cv's successfully butchered it too..



thanks for the veiws.😳 I actually wanted to watch this show for them. I love their bonding. Its just sad,that these writers didnt know to utilize this potential show, and just made it to same saas bahu drama type The character sketching is so weak.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pieryrose

Does these writers think anything apart from marriage topic?. I know it s a trp -garner for them. But still the way its shown is like a game to them. The almost bride,might become the almost groom's sister-in-law and vice-versa. This beautiful bonding is made into a circus game by these writers. Anything they do is directly or indirectly related to Shaadi. I just wonder how? 😲


This show had potential to showcase the relation between sisters. Not entangle them to a forced marriage track, with two sisters trying to reveal each others secrets. One about the fake marriage, Other about the facade of her half sister.

I am a huge SwaSan fan.I want to see them get married and make Swara fall in love with Sanskaar. She deserves a guy with a backbone and most importantly who trusts her .However, the way the show is progressing, is not to my liking. One main point is, the way the writers trying to show, how difficult is to Swara and Sankaar is to reveal Ragini's truth. Why cant Swara record , what Ragini says to her? Or even better, make the truth come out of Ragini's mouth , and everyone is secretly hiding and then come out when Ragini accepts her sins.? Is that so difficult? The writers make the lead girl become genius in one scenario where her 'husband' is involved, but she still cant defeat the evil sister whom she was the victim herself.Unbelievable!

About the record part-I felt the same. Why can't swara just record what ragini says. But after seeing the way ragini is being one step ahead in every plans i think swara won't be able to prove anything. Main thing here is family thinks ragini is innocent and her fake tears atomatically melts her lux ji's heart so, recording is not an option. Eveyone hiding when ragini is accepting her crimes looks copied from IPK same thing happened when shyam truth was out. Since Mr.hedge was creative head of Ipk too i don't think he will again do the same thing here as he is creative head of swaragini too.

Secondly, the dragging of this simple track is just going nowhere.One tries to reveal and the other tries to commit another sin and then cycle continues. Its never ending chaos.

This really is never ending. Let's see Durga puja is comming soon so maybe at that time truth will be out.

I just disappointed what the writers are trying to portray. Kidnapping, Drugging, Trying to frame an innocent man to molest his younger brothers wife etc. The same old disgusting acts being recycled all over again. The quality of these shows are degrading day by day.



I want a SwaSan marriage, where Swara marries Sanskaar wholeheartedly and in a light- hearted , delightful ,grand ceremony. Swara deserves her share of happiness. Its what i want.
I too wanted this but i am still happy with how they married, Because i still have hopes that we will get more beautiful and intense scene after marriage. Just give it a try. 😳

This is my opinion.feel free to comment and leave your views.


Just a note to those people who come saying that ' if you dont like it , dont watch, or dont come to the forum '. The forum, itself is a place to raise their opinions and have healthy discussion over the conflict of the opinions. The forum doesn't have a sign board restricting the entries of the people who doesnt like the content of the show.

😆 No one will say, you don't watch if you don't like.This a public forum and everyone has rights to raise their opinion.
Pieryrose: JaaNu thread. Remember? Are you the same person 🤪

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Posted: 10 years ago
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@breezy, yh, i am the same person from JaNu thread... i think i saw you in that AT/😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pieryrose

@breezy, yh, i am the same person from JaNu thread... i think i saw you in that AT/😆

Yes. I am Upama 😆 I miss those days. My jammy and tannu </3 🤣
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Originally posted by: Breezy-

Yes. I am Upama 😆 I miss those days. My jammy and tannu </3 🤣



OMG..Upama.. 😲iong time..🤗.you changed the UN? yh.. miss those days... golden days they were... need another AT like that...but the gang is too busy with other commitments..😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pieryrose



OMG..Upama.. 😲iong time..🤗.you changed the UN? yh.. miss those days... golden days they were... need another AT like that...but the gang is too busy with other commitments..😆

Yes i changed the UN/ Sometimes i just read the old convo and start laughing. I even got warning for promoting Janu AT in JDJ forum 😳 🤣
I miss everyone.Good memories <3
Busy with commitments,matlab? 😆 And you still have the same SaRun DP 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Really sensible post! And in reverse order, why should anyone ask you not to come to the Forum? I totally agree with you- the Forum is a place to voice our opinion in a respectful manner and I for one, really enjoy the healthy debates so please do carry on 😃
Ok back to your post. This is a common theme/ issue with most of our shows. Its a vicious circle. Writers don't work to fixed scripts and plots from the start- the story is hostage to TRPs and herein lies the frustration. Our audiences are so used to watch the same type of formulas that we get a catch 22- if only the cycle could be broken and something truly different could be shown AND appreciated by audiences, it would really help us get sensible scripting, less bloopers and totally ridiculous characterisation.

I have never liked forced marriage tracks especially when they get recycled in different guises in almost every show. I am a HUGE SwaSan admirer as most who know me on this Forum know. Like you, I totally want to see a beautiful relationship develop between them and how I wish it could be shown without the inconsistency on logical grounds I have with why they need to make them "officially" married. The reason for that is mass audience appeasement as (apparently) majority of TV viewers have such odd standards, the only way we are told an epic pairing will be accepted is by pushing the girl into a married state as not only wife but ideal, self sacrificing "bahu" etc etc.

Do I love watching the show at the moment? Yes, totally. Why? Firstly, the real glue for me is Sanskaar, his character, the nuances he brings and how he acts (VK has a big role to play in this but I also mean Sanskaar as the character, apart from the top class actor). Then there's SwaSan- I see so much potential in this pair. It's been ages since I got so excited about an on screen pair. Thirdly, I actually like the concept of having a Ragini type character- there are clear psychological/ mental issues here for me and I like interesting villains (although I wish we could show these things sensibly instead of mindless drama mode). There are other reasons too but these are the main ones at the moment. So I do watch and love it but am I blind as a viewer to not spot the errors in plot, thinking, characterisation etc? Definitely not!

The issue with our shows is that logic just goes out of the window for the sake of drama quotient. See the writers get trapped in their own conundrum. There isn't a fixed plot from day 1. It changes as per fickle audience demands only judged through the artificial medium of dratted TRPs and so they plan a track, then when they need to move from it to another one, its often not possible to do this sensibly. Eg- now that Swara is in MM (and I had no issue with her pretending to be married to Sanskaar- a good way to enter the house), then they have to show them married as otherwise (apparently) audiences won't accept it so we have a sindoor scene. Then thats not enough so now a full fledged forced shaadi! Why was a shaadi necessary? Who decides to plan a wedding for a couple apparently married in the mandir, then told by Lux to prove marriage with sindoor as a final test, now asked again by Lux to marry to prove marriage?! 😕.
Now if Ragini's truth is out asap, they don't have a legitimate excuse for keeping Swara in the house and letting SwaSan grow as of course after this we have to see the Swara- Sanskaar-Lakshya triangle with confusion about that too so ... on and on it goes, if you get my drift?!

I am watching and enjoying at the moment but I always have in the back of my mind that if it gets totally ridiculous I won't be able to stomach it. However I see it in the way that Ragini is shown to be gradually weakening and in actual fact she isn't "winning". Swara is getting an amazing guy who stood by her, thick and thin, she will find true love and is gradually getting the trust of everyone, whereas Ragini will lose it all and then we will get to see her redemption.

Edited by tootiefrootie11 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Breezy-

Yes i changed the UN/ Sometimes i just read the old convo and start laughing. I even got warning for promoting Janu AT in JDJ forum 😳 🤣
I miss everyone.Good memories <3
Busy with commitments,matlab? 😆 And you still have the same SaRun DP 😆


i too did get warning, while we were trolling in Saraswatichandra forum..That was hilarious😆🤣
Other commitments meaning, all are getting married and too busy with their careers..😆

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