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Posted: 10 years ago
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Guys good news!! I have found out who this so called "source" thing is. You want to know? It's our own MIND. Yes , you heard it right.. Our mind generates millions of thoughts in a day. And most of them are delusional ones. When going through emotional turmoil or strong emotions like sad, angry, ego all the negative thoughts, our mind weakens and tend to create more delusions connecting all the thing we read, feel or experience. And we all tend to fall for it.

We today live in such a society where we have learned that what we say and do is always right. We listen less, and whatever we listen we tend to interpret it according to our own comfort. We mold things according to our comfort cause we can't accept change and we don't like negations.. and u know change is the only constant thing. NO matter what, change will make sure it is accepted.. whether you go against it, or accept it peacefully by accepting it or by changing your line. But in the end CHANGE will only win.

And best medicine for it is TIME and PATIENCE. Give time to yourself and everyone around you. Have patience to understand change. everything will make sense in the end.😊

Today, We have become so fragile that we can't handle a truthful word or action against us or to be precise "our own delusional world created by us". And this results in all this upheaval.

Why doing so much of bhashan baaji.. cause I'm feeling everyone here(fans , actors, makers) is going through this stress.

Kyy S2 cast: -Niti, the girl was being strong till now. But as human nature is she is not able to handle all this pressure now. Her (though not only hers' every casts members) photos and videos make everyone think they are so happy together, but they are feeling the pressure, creating mental agony and her new twitter statement clarifies it.

Yuvi retweeting all positive responses to tackle all the pressure.

Vebha stating positive quotes to make her calm down..

karan making a friendly atmosphere to help reduce stress.

Utkarsh karan and yuvraj making videos to enjoy themselves and make a way away from the entire negative atmosphere.

Charlie reacted to negativity cause of all pressure. But after her bashing she's now keeping mum.

Krissan is being less active.

They all are happy working but are also in lot of stress feeling pressurized.. Each day when their new episode is telecasted it creates more of the negativity then positive post. Each day is a exam for them.

Parth:- I felt he really got overconfident with all the appreciation he got.. He was not able to handle all this. But don't we all, at some stage get egoistic and overconfident when we get praised a lot. It happens to everyone.. but one bad setback from life and we all get to know what's our place in this world. Yes we are talented in our own way but we get to know there are many other talented people outside. And the only thing we can do to survive in this competition is to stay grounded have patience and keep working towards our goal. That's it... we can't do anything else apart from it.

I too have gone thru that phase. My parents words made me change my perspective. A correct guidance and support is must at this stage.

He is at this stage now, he has lost his projects, he misses his lost love, .he's also facing all the pressure... man buck up this is just a phase and this setback will make you learn how life works in real. And how only you have to adjust and compromise with the change. World will not change for one person.

Learn the lesson. And again start working like a beginner.. just keep on learning and work hard. Don't compromise in case of your goals and dreams, but do adjust with people around you. In the end they only will be around you in your hard times.😊

Fans:-

lead actor : - yes I miss lead person..

Fans :- aww they are in love.

co actors: - I miss that person.

Fans: -aww they are great friends.

lead actor: - takes stand for someone.

Fans :- ohh he/she is writing it in someone's influence.

Actor: - It's just my decision

Fans: - he/ she's taking all their blame.. oh man so great are they.

Please don't let sources' play games on you. We people really carve for masala is everything.

But we forget For a character we are fighting with the real people and making them hurt.

A fan's responsibility is not only to praise the actor but to also pinpoint the wrong path they are following (in polite manner). And we don't know anything going behind the scene.. so please stop judging each and every person. Half truth or half lie.. anything is completely dangerous.

How could you do this? You have no right to leave a show? A show cannot continue without this person? They never understand our perspective only we understand them? Because of us only this show is running? Fans make a show successful.. But they completely have no idea what's going behind the show. The actors, producers, directors all have to work under which circumstances we are really clueless about it.

Media shows only one part of the truth and we shape that news according to our comfort.. which is all in all FAKE, and as I said half truth is more dangerous.

Fans are feeling stress cause they feel they are not being heard.. but in real everyone is familiar with the situation fans are in but in . but we don't know the actual circumstances they are dealing with.

just Don't use freedom for speech in wrong way.. You don't like something say you don't like.. But there's a way to say everything.. Atleast Be polite.

Have patience. And give time. Time will mend everything.. till then learn, discover and grow.😊

Stay positive. God bless you all.😊

P.S.: - OMG kitna saara likh diya😆saari baate jo bolni thi bol di.. 😆😆 but now I'm feeling relaxed.. 😃

State your opinion (in favour or against).. we all will peacefully discuss it. 😊


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Applaud to this post and it's author👏👏
You have penned it down beautifully and from any angle it's not spreading any negativity for any one and this is what we shall be like.

I truly truly agree to each and every point of yours..time is all we need and everyone needs it.

Stay positive because I love it :))
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Priyakna

Applaud to this post and it's author👏👏

You have penned it down beautifully and from any angle it's not spreading any negativity for any one and this is what we shall be like.

I truly truly agree to each and every point of yours..time is all we need and everyone needs it.

Stay positive because I love it :))


thank u for understanding..😊

really being positive in difficult situation is the only thing everyone can do.. 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nice post
lol the convo fans n actors statement
with time and patience will we get our manan back?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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What a looovely post, girl 👏 Every word of yours 👏 If IF allowed me I would have liked and shared it a billions of times! It is so heart-warming to see that there are still sensible people out there appreciating the work for a living human being and aren't deluded by their self-claimed "love for MaNan" and hences their demand of "HEA".
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: swaron19

Guys good news!! I have found out who this so called "source" thing is. You want to know? It's our own MIND. Yes , you heard it right.. Our mind generates millions of thoughts in a day. And most of them are delusional ones. When going through emotional turmoil or strong emotions like sad, angry, ego all the negative thoughts, our mind weakens and tend to create more delusions connecting all the thing we read, feel or experience. And we all tend to fall for it.

We today live in such a society where we have learned that what we say and do is always right. We listen less, and whatever we listen we tend to interpret it according to our own comfort. We mold things according to our comfort cause we can't accept change and we don't like negations.. and u know change is the only constant thing. NO matter what, change will make sure it is accepted.. whether you go against it, or accept it peacefully by accepting it or by changing your line. But in the end CHANGE will only win.

And best medicine for it is TIME and PATIENCE. Give time to yourself and everyone around you. Have patience to understand change. everything will make sense in the end.😊

Today, We have become so fragile that we can't handle a truthful word or action against us or to be precise "our own delusional world created by us". And this results in all this upheaval.

Why doing so much of bhashan baaji.. cause I'm feeling everyone here(fans , actors, makers) is going through this stress.

Kyy S2 cast: -Niti, the girl was being strong till now. But as human nature is she is not able to handle all this pressure now. Her (though not only hers' every casts members) photos and videos make everyone think they are so happy together, but they are feeling the pressure, creating mental agony and her new twitter statement clarifies it.

Yuvi retweeting all positive responses to tackle all the pressure.

Vebha stating positive quotes to make her calm down..

karan making a friendly atmosphere to help reduce stress.

Utkarsh karan and yuvraj making videos to enjoy themselves and make a way away from the entire negative atmosphere.

Charlie reacted to negativity cause of all pressure. But after her bashing she's now keeping mum.

Krissan is being less active.

They all are happy working but are also in lot of stress feeling pressurized.. Each day when their new episode is telecasted it creates more of the negativity then positive post. Each day is a exam for them.

Parth:- I felt he really got overconfident with all the appreciation he got.. He was not able to handle all this. But don't we all, at some stage get egoistic and overconfident when we get praised a lot. It happens to everyone.. but one bad setback from life and we all get to know what's our place in this world. Yes we are talented in our own way but we get to know there are many other talented people outside. And the only thing we can do to survive in this competition is to stay grounded have patience and keep working towards our goal. That's it... we can't do anything else apart from it.

I too have gone thru that phase. My parents words made me change my perspective. A correct guidance and support is must at this stage.

He is at this stage now, he has lost his projects, he misses his lost love, .he's also facing all the pressure... man buck up this is just a phase and this setback will make you learn how life works in real. And how only you have to adjust and compromise with the change. World will not change for one person.

Learn the lesson. And again start working like a beginner.. just keep on learning and work hard. Don't compromise in case of your goals and dreams, but do adjust with people around you. In the end they only will be around you in your hard times.😊

Fans:-

lead actor : - yes I miss lead person..

Fans :- aww they are in love.

co actors: - I miss that person.

Fans: -aww they are great friends.

lead actor: - takes stand for someone.

Fans :- ohh he/she is writing it in someone's influence.

Actor: - It's just my decision

Fans: - he/ she's taking all their blame.. oh man so great are they.

Please don't let sources' play games on you. We people really carve for masala is everything.

But we forget For a character we are fighting with the real people and making them hurt.

A fan's responsibility is not only to praise the actor but to also pinpoint the wrong path they are following (in polite manner). And we don't know anything going behind the scene.. so please stop judging each and every person. Half truth or half lie.. anything is completely dangerous.

How could you do this? You have no right to leave a show? A show cannot continue without this person? They never understand our perspective only we understand them? Because of us only this show is running? Fans make a show successful.. But they completely have no idea what's going behind the show. The actors, producers, directors all have to work under which circumstances we are really clueless about it.

Media shows only one part of the truth and we shape that news according to our comfort.. which is all in all FAKE, and as I said half truth is more dangerous.

Fans are feeling stress cause they feel they are not being heard.. but in real everyone is familiar with the situation fans are in but in . but we don't know the actual circumstances they are dealing with.

just Don't use freedom for speech in wrong way.. You don't like something say you don't like.. But there's a way to say everything.. Atleast Be polite.

Have patience. And give time. Time will mend everything.. till then learn, discover and grow.😊

Stay positive. God bless you all.😊

P.S.: - OMG kitna saara likh diya😆saari baate jo bolni thi bol di.. 😆😆 but now I'm feeling relaxed.. 😃

State your opinion (in favour or against).. we all will peacefully discuss it. 😊



Amazing post Swaron

It says all
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shindesweety

Nice post
lol the convo fans n actors statement
with time and patience will we get our manan back?



Thank u :)
Have u seen 3 idiots in it there was a scene between amir and Sherman
Amir: say all is well
Sherman : all is well kehne she prblm solve ho jayegi
Amir: nahi prblm face karne ki himmat aa jayegi
I don't know manan will be back or not but same is with time and Patience. We'll get strength to face d decision..

N waise bhi bashing se bhi manan milenge ki nai koi guarantee ni hai ..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: swaron19



Thank u :)
Have u seen 3 idiots in it there was a scene between amir and Sherman
Amir: say all is well
Sherman : all is well kehne she prblm solve ho jayegi
Amir: nahi prblm face karne ki himmat aa jayegi
I don't know manan will be back or not but same is with time and Patience. We'll get strength to face d decision..

N waise bhi bashing se bhi
manan milenge ki nai koi guarantee ni hai ..



oyii
maine bashing nhi kia 🥱
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shindesweety



oyii
maine bashing nhi kia 🥱



No dear u misunderstood!! I was saying in general for people who are bashing .

It was not directed to u..
Sry if u felt so..:)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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👏 👏
I agree to each and every word!
We ourselves are responsible for overthinking n creating mess
n one reach to the extent where you can't accept a thing you start finding reasons to deny it which exactly is happening nowadays in case of this fandom

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