Originally posted by: Hiphop_R
Oh please stop dis forgiveness jhaap...do you really think it matters anymore...im sayin neil was fully at fault in aarav's case..so why should ragini ever forgive or trust him again..but d point im tryin to make is completely different...if u say ragini is rite in aarav's case..from which angle..forget neil..as a mother...wat has she done for him..sum say dat she could not ask for help from neil becos of her self respect..fine...but den u have dr aman. Ok forget the help from dr aman also...could she not have kept a tab on his mental health and the stress dat aarav was goin thru..whatever aarav did dat day was at the spur of the moment..he had not planned it..so u just cant leave him to dogs. Common if you had problems with neil den sort the same matter with dr aman rather than getting engaged...Till date ragini keeps sayin dat dr aman has done lots for her...wat is dat lot...i really want to know..just by crying on his shoulders does not mean he has done anythng great. Infact ragini also says dat she has brought up her children on her own..so where was dr aman..why dese kind of statements.
Sorry boss if neil messed up the matter...ragini has done no good
@bold -- TM I think that's exactly what most people in this thread are trying to argue. It isn't just Ragini who is at fault, but also Neil. BOTH of them have made mistakes which have contributed to the breakdown of their relationship.
In terms of the Arav situation, you're completely right in saying that Neil was an fault. He was -- he should've told Ragini everything and not sent Arav alone. But I'd also have to agree with you on Ragini's fault. Yes she was heartbroken, but she should've still made some sort of effort to contact Arav or see him. I can totally see why Arav would be angry at his mom -- he probably thinks she's disowned him (note -- Arav is also completely wrong to think like that as he's the one who made the mistake in the first place but he's always been egoistical so whatever).
In Ragini's defense, she is at least attempting to fix her mistake and see Arav and how he's doing in jail. Neil, on the other hand, seemingly refuses to see where he went wrong in the entire situation. Neil has yet to acknowledge his many mistakes imo while Ragini has acknowledged her mistakes (its another thing that she makes them again 😆).
In regards to Ragini defending Aman -- well I think a lot of it stems from Ragini's ego in regards to Neil. Neil constantly taunts Aman just because he's Ragini's friend/ fiancee. And so Ragini wants to prove to Neil that his taunts are wrong as Aman is a great person/ she has made the right decision to marry him/ keep him in her life. Secondly, I think we really do have to acknowledge that Aman has done quite a bit for Ragini and her family. He may not have been extremely involved in the direct taking-care of the children (for that matter, Neil wasn't either -- in both sets of kids) but I think he definitely helped out a lot indirectly. Ragini mentioned stuff like doctor's appointments and we've already seen how Aman is always ready to give her time off. So whenever the kids were sick/ needed her, Aman probably let her go from work without penalizing her. He also seems to have become an emotional support for her which itself is a lot as well. I think we can just use the current example of the Arav situation to display what a support Aman has been to Ragini. He listened to her cry and attempted to console her. And then he also went ahead and made an appointment to see Arav with Ragini. Aman has been a great friend and support to Ragini -- that much is undeniable (I'm not trying to justify Ragini's decision to marry Aman, merely attempting to explain why/ how Aman has helped her a lot as Ragini always claims).
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