Neil really lost it last night

Omg...i so luved dat neira convo last nite...neil was so offended and angry dat even ragini was taken aback for sumtyme. Whatever neil said yesterday was exactly the same thing dat i wrote in my post yesterday...whatever he does or says is always bad..so fine you have left him and moved on..why always throw things at his face..he was super duper angry yesterday..When we have decided that our partner was always wrong and i want 2 move on..den just go ahead and do it ..but if u keep bringing up d past..nobody will like it and what the big deal about karan talking to a girl..such kind of situations take place when a partner is over possessive about the other. Ive cum across males and females in my own Mba group whose partners are really insecure or possessive..I remember once we advised our male friend to introduce us to his wife to avoid future complications but all dat she does is only doubt him more whereas we all are only good friends. Even if you try to make them more comfortable...dey still doubt you becos dats their nature and u cant do much and dats the reason partners hide things. Im not sayin dat if same things happen to me i wont react but den u have to be open minded and there has to be freedom from both sides to avoid such a situation. As long as your partner doesnt cross his/her limits and is faithful and luvs u...it really doesnt matter. But in dis case ragini has been shown possessive and insecure...so dats where the problem lies. She herself admitted dat when dey were married..neil only luved her...den why insecurity and lack of trust. Agreed aarav's case was neil's mistake but most of the times...ragini brings out trust issues rgdg his relation with girls and not aarav's case...so she still considers him a cassonova and a cheap character which is really not done. Even the rupali case.has been sorted..so which is the other issue ragini is talking about...dat she keeps pointing fingers at him..we also would like to know

nachiket still has to realise that he also made mistakes. Period.

seems neil's priority is to keep on taunting aman, so forgets his own faults or do not want to admit his faults as to where he has gone wrong.

Yes.. He lost his temper but that doesn't mean he is right and Ragini is wrong... He says Ragini didn't trust him... But even he didn't trust her enough to tell her the truth... Had he trusted her, he wouldn't have hidden anything from her... No offence but I really feel it's not only Ragini who is wrong but also Nachiket...

So the mistake Neil made with arrive is he did not share with Ragini! If your son comes to you and say please please do not tell mom about an issue what would you do? How many times a child will comes to a parent if they are in trouble. It happens all the time and things are done without the other knowing of the issue. Considering their situation Neil was not wrong but he could have handled it a little differently. Ragini should take her Aman sirs advice and accept things and not try and change them according to her will. He her guru after all.

Originally posted by: Changa

So the mistake Neil made with arrive is he did not share with Ragini! If your son comes to you and say please please do not tell mom about an issue what would you do? How many times a child will comes to a parent if they are in trouble. It happens all the time and things are done without the other knowing of the issue. Considering their situation Neil was not wrong but he could have handled it a little differently. Ragini should take her Aman sirs advice and accept things and not try and change them according to her will. He her guru after all.

But that is how trust it broken. Of course the child would be scared and be like don't tell my mom but you being the adult has to understand that if your child's LIFE is in danger, the other parent has to know. Both have to know, even though it happens all around does not mean its correct, that is what we have to understand. Just because it's popular does not mean it's right and just because it's right does not mean it has to be popular. Now that whole thing about Aman, he is not her guru but he does give reasonable advice.

And there is more to it.

Originally posted by: poetic

And there is more to it.

N and R had separated years ago and had 2 of their own kids, plus N had Suhaani.

Aarav has always been Ragini's responsibility, so it's au naturel that she is involved in anything that involves Aarav. Wonder if N would have been happy if R had taken such monumental decision about Ranbir and Aagham, without informing him?

Also, Aarav was in a very sticky situation. He was being hunted down by a goon for money. N, knowing the same, sent him on a run, all alone. Absolutely not an ideal situation.

He faltered big time over there.

exactly, Neil would not like it if the same was done to him

Originally posted by: JB-US

exactly, Neil would not like it if the same was done to him