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Awfulggt

@Awfulggt

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Posted: 10 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

And Jagya rescuing her and anandi hugging him and having eyelocks with him?😆

Don't think this will repeat. Anandi is no more in the shock of abandonment by her first cheater husband. Now she's got more maturity along with age and she's got other real big problems to solve too. So she'll probably start off with a plan of action saying a simple thanks. While Jagya may not be able to do high jumps at this age, rescuing her all by himself might not be that easy and he might not be able to give eyelocks either to anandi with that insecure wife at home.

Edited by The_Alchemist. - 10 years ago

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: SPuja

A woman will run away only when she has some sort of support - we know about such cases in real life also and from well-to-do and even celebrities cases also. Love is never the reason for the woman to continue in such relationships - society's constraints are main reason. What the serial presented in case of DS/Ganga/DB is like fairy tale - we don't get such examples in real life.

What Kamli did (running away when her marriage was fixed with some other guy and the groom's family was there for function) is looked upon very seriously in the society. Such killings are not unknown and the mother is always an accomplice - mainly for fear of society and not because she loves the husband even if he kills her own daughter.

I agree with most of your points. But a woman can still love a monster. The more powerful he looks, the more attraction some women feel towards such men. And there is this syndrome of falling for the bad guy. Have you read or seen 50 shades of Grey? Westerners are more open about these things.

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RTee

@RTee

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Posted: 10 years ago

#53

The Stockholm Syndrome defined as:

a psychological phenomenon in which hostages express empathy and sympathy and have positive feelings toward their captors, sometimes to the point of defending and identifying with the captors.

Stockholm syndrome can be seen as a form of traumatic bonding, which does not necessarily require a hostage scenario, but which describes "strong emotional ties that develop between two persons where one person intermittently harasses, beats, threatens, abuses, or intimidates the other." One commonly used hypothesis to explain the effect of Stockholm syndrome is based on Freudian theory. It suggests that the bonding is the individual's response to trauma in becoming a victim. Identifying with the aggressor is one way that the ego defends itself. When a victim believes the same values as the aggressor, they cease to be perceived as a threat.

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SPuja

@SPuja

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Posted: 10 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I agree with most of your points. But a woman can still love a monster. The more powerful he looks, the more attraction some women feel towards such men. And there is this syndrome of falling for the bad guy. Have you read or seen 50 shades of Grey? Westerners are more open about these things.

I read review/gist of 50 shades of Grey and did not find it worth reading - I would rather read Harry Potter 😆.

I agree, some women can love a monster - but seeing Harki - it does not appear to me that she loves Akhera (traces of love do appear in her eyes for her children though, and surprisingly no love/compassion for Nimboli). Harki seems to just going with the flow - traditions of society inspite of being ill treated by her husband. She does not protest but her eyes speak against some injustices (like when Akhera was pampering his sister). Somehow they got good actors as Harki, Akhera, Mangala - even Chhagni.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Harki and Kundan love Akheraj unconditionally. But for how long?

Kundan idolises his father and wants to be like him.He is in awe of his father and also he has seen how is father goes out of his way to get what he wants and treats him like a prince.

But don't know whether his feelings for his father are love or not.

Currently he is in *my dad is my hero*mode. Don't know if this feeling for his father persists even if his father and his methods fail to get him what he wants.If he still thinks that his father his best then I guess we can say he loves his father.

Harki - Has love only for her children.She treats Kamili and Kundan in a different way but her love is same for them. She only wants what is best for her children under given circumstances.

As for that woman Harki - she takes sh*t from her husband without questioning him but takes out her frustrations and anger on people who can't fight back or helpless - namely Nimboli/Nanndin.

She wanted Kamili to get married and move away from this place because she liked Pushkar's family.Good husband is something that is beyond her imagination.As long as the sasrewale look like human beings that is enough for her.

Harki supported this marriage because she thought it was good for her daughter.

Don't know when she will turn against her husband.But I think she will

Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago