Originally posted by: blushing
Anandi though get all in platter but she also lost many things its fact
Just because she had emotional support time to time that does not mean she suffer less or it impact less
Each time Anandi face hurdle she raise herself try overcome at end she is sucessful
Each tragedy made her strong & strong ... Of course support was there but you yourself also needs to try be strong ... Other person can guide you show you path but journey is yours only
With all tragedy Anandi did not ended up being bitter or weak ... This us exactly Shiv saw in her ... He himself said all bitter experience makes person bitter but Anandi is different... No wonder while parting away from her he said Anandi you are always been strong just don't loose yourself I am always there for you ... Somewhere Shiv is Anandi's weak & strong point ...hence at last Shiv made her strong from his side too
Anandi Nimboli/Nandini equation as mothef daughter yet to be seen ...right now two person who lost someone close to them searching for them find some peace with each other unknowningly ...
CV Writers showing Nimboli has same zeal of gelping others like Anandi... Lets see how both eventually develop their relation after truth revealed
Don't think Anandi got everything on a platter. She has earned them.
She did have very loving parents but in their ignorance they caused a lot of damage to her life by not listening to Sandhya teacherjee
Then little Anandi when she was given an opportunity to save herself from child marriage in front of the police out of fear for her parents safety she lied - but we can't blame her because she is just a child then.
Then she was sent off to BH.Sumi and Bhairon did love her very much but would they have cared for the way they did if she behaved like a spoilt brat the only child of much loving parents?No.
Her relationship with Sumi and Bhairon was a two way street
Then came Jagya - Even his friendship she has earned it.She was told by Sumi that J is her husband and looking after him taking care of her needs is her duty and that's how she earned his friendship and trust.
Coming to the support Singhs gave her in her fight against social evils - They did not support her because she was their Beendini but they supported her because of the good deeds she has been doing. Even if Singhs didn't support her she would have continued to do them and some likeminded villagers would have supported her even if Singhs didn't.
Dsa supported her simply because she realised that she had been wrong and Anandi had been right all along
Then Shiv came into her life. It was not just luck but it was mostly the good work that brought the attention to her. It is her good work which made him take notice of her even before he met her. After he met her what he did is another story altogether 😛 😉 😆 😳❤️
The support didn't come to her because of her it came because Sumi Bhairon later on Dsa then villagers and of course Shiv all supported her because they all wanted to be part of the good work she had been doing. Without their support she would have found it difficult but the fact is lack of support would not have stopped her opposition to her work would not have stopped her.
She was not handed all these things on a platter.
She lost a few things too
Education - because she was too scared of Dsa
Career took a back seat because she was too busy taking care of her husband's family
She lost her baby because she couldn't strike a proper balance between a mother and social activist.
But for all the things that she lost she never blamed anybody but blamed only herself and that's the reason why she was able to gather herself and come back much stronger.
Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago
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