Planning to Leave?

Been looking quite a few titles with members announcing they are leaving the forum. So maybe it is time, time to let go of our fight to keep this forum active and alive. Rather than seeing this forum dying a slow and painful death, and then the announcement of forum closure I suggest we may as well fix a date. The date to request the Mods to close the forum, that is when we know any alternative forum can be ready after that. Killing once and for all is much better than slow death.

Second thing, I thought we were a family- RagNa family. Regardless of any difference in cultures of families, I guess one thing is common in most families. Everyone know that value of mutual love in each heart of family. When all of us live under one roof, at one place, do we need to ask or tell our family members that we miss you? Is it not understandable that we all love each other? It is when distances are created, physical or otherwise words, Miss You are required. So yes, to all those members who have left or are thinking of leaving We Do Miss You Now, because you no longer live under the same roof.

One thing more in a family: Even if loads of differences are there between us, or our thinking doesn't match, or even if one of us hurt some other family member, family still sticks together. Even if a rough patch comes, we sort it out do not break relation. Analysing this I would think either the members who are leaving never considered themselves a part of this family; or their love for family wasn't strong enough. And if any of us hurt them, I would like to say sorry on behalf of all the members because, first attempt should always be to save family. If after this anyone goes, I won't stop her because I would respect her wishes, even if I'll be sad for my family.

We all love each other and that is implicit. Everyone experiences low phases, I have also felt low sometimes. I would pray for God to give us all strength of love in such times.

ONE MORE THING: Can anyone make a thread for members who have left; and who feel ignored or low otherwise? By rotation we can post "Missing You", "love you notes" & messages for such ignored-feeling wale members! Just to let them know we remember them. Maybe then they'll feel they're a part of family! Anyone who can improvise on this idea?

Lastly For All Members Who Are Leaving: -

You were a part of me and I was a part of you I'd thought,

Maybe I failed to assess it was something else you sought.

You're hurt and you want to leave me forever it seems,

But trust me, when I look at your name my heart still beams.

We Love You and Shall Love You Forever.

every word of your post is correct.,

Awesome post Charuu... each n every word wat u said is correct.. I'm not much active here bt I read all ffs I just can't stop coming here.. Ofcours no one notices me here 😆 bt do I feel ignored nah WE ARE ONE FAMILY.. love always remains forever..Hope those who left will come back soon ..Ragna family s not WEAK ..

Wonderful post Charu
I really don't get why people leaving
But I for once is not leaving
Being a part of a family means staying with them through good and bad times

your each and every word is correct charu,leaving family only by feeling ignored is realy painful. Here i feel, if called dis is ur family then how can you feel ignore.
We love everyone, then where dis ignorance cum. I agree, everytym it is nt posible to give comment on post or we just comment late on post tht doesnt mean ur being ignored.
And its true, its painful to see leaving post. So its bter nah, instead of having slow death we wl tell close forum wl cry for it once.

Please stop saying u r leaving.

Ps. After reading my cment if any1 thought me too said leaving, then m nt leaving, n i clearly said m taking just break n also in break i wl be active when i wl get tym.

m not going Dida.. Bas gussa thi sabse.. M going m leaving post se.. Nd Ishu is also not going

I m not leaving and those making those posts are hurting others in the forum. We are a family family sticks together 😛 🤗

Nice post di.but I am not going

@charu 👏👏