Sneha and her character

Sneha was reacting just like her father.

I was wondering why she didn't know what was going on in Rishi's life when he committed suicide? She loved him so much-------why she had never asked him how he became so rich in so little time? It was like Rishi loved her and his daughters so much that ----------the guy was ready to do anything, even crime for them. All these times Sneha stayed as a wife, not a soul mate------to which he can share his thoughts. That was the reason---------when he found out that he can never be the superman of Sneha or the three daughters----------he killed himself.

I was wondering when Chaubey ji told that Sneha's brother's wedding was cancelled because of her and Rishi. What crime did he done that the entire Banaras tuned furious against Rishi? Is there something truth in Cahubeyji's story? Girls and boys always runaway for love-------that is not a big deal . For that reason why the whole Banaras will start hating Chaubeyji? Looks like Sneha has no idea of that too. As a responsible daughter wouldn't this be her responsibility to find out ----------what happened when Rishi and she runaway? What crime did he committed that everyone blames him? Love sometimes makes us blind. But itna?

She suddenly got mad at Amaya. Well Amaya deserved that. But what about Rachita? For what she is getting blame? She is the oldest daughter----------she should be responsible. What about Sneha herself? She too did the same at Amays'a age. Left home with a stranger , putting her family in shame. Now what was her good reason -----------she didn't told. She never shared that even with her three daughters-----------how could she even expect maturity from any 3 girls? Is she herself responsible? Is she herself mature?
Then why didn't she knew what Rishi was doing? How Rishi got so much trouble in his life as to commit suicide? She is the wife, she is the lover, she is the mother of his 3daughters-----------how did she fulfilled her responsibility to blame on Rachita?
If I call her a daughter? Did she fulfilled her responsibility there? 25years is a long time. She didn't even introduced her daughters to their Grandma? Had no idea that her bro got married? How come? If Rishi wouldn't destroy his life-----------I guess she would never know anything about her parents and brother? Love for her mom?
Yes once I made a thread about it. How Pushpa and Chaubeyji reacted that way to Sneha. Now I know-------------beti bhi kaam nehi.

Is relationship like that or responsibility is like that?
At first Rishi kept the daughters in confusion. Sneha was the mother why didn't she control anything. Is life so easy? That husband will manage the family, earn money and --------------wife do nothing?
She is scolding Amaya for the bread toast. Why didn't she teach her? When those pandits came-----------it was Amaya who somehow managed a induction cooker and saved the family somehow.
I don't like Amaya ----------but now I am finding reasons -------------why she is like this? Because her mother. Never took responsibility in life.

Raised by a over protective parents----------thus over pampered. Fall in love with the guy whom her family doesn't like, nor the people of Banaras. Then she didn't thought about the reputation of her family and left. Rishi became her second "adopted parents". At that time she had no idea what happened in her family. What ? Parents don't matter?
Then she left all her daughters in the hand of money, luxury and Rishi. There are rich families, who teach their daughters. Then why not Sneha? What was she doing all this time? How could she left those girls to get so spoiled? Was she giving eye on her husband? No. She had no idea of that too. Husband brought bags of money, she spent it. Did Rishi got a "Aladin's lamp"? How impractical is she?

When Rishi is dead----------she again runaway from Mumbai to take shelter in Banaras. When bechara Hari phass gaya. She never thought how her 3idiot, spoiled girl will survive in a completely different environment? It's not only money. It's adjusting to everything. For her ---------it's her hometown. For those 3girls----------what is Banaras? It's an alien land.


She was from Banaras -------------but has no idea of how that place runs? She depends on Rudra? Why? Why she has no idea about any pandits? Didn't she went to any temple while she was growing up in Banaras? There must be someone who she can trust, depend. A friend may be, neighbor may be, may be an old priest.

But it looks like she was another Amaya once upon a time. Over pampered by Chaubeyji.

Now it is getting clear. Why Amaya with the other 2 idiots are like this. Got the brain and attitude from moma.

I liked Gautami's performance. Specially the sudden change in her mood was very expressive.

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Loved your post Jhalak. Lot of questions. We need answers. I am sure in the long run, everything will unfold.

@Jhalak: very apt summarization of Sneha's character and valid questions ( even I do think the same)

I think you're misunderstanding Sneha a bit. About Rishi getting rich over night: We don't know how that happened and from what we've seen and heard neither does Sneha's family. BUT Sneha seems to know something that she's not telling us right now. Do you remember how she was about to say something to her father in defense of Rishi, but stopped short? Then towards the end of the argument she said something along the lines of "forget it, if I say anything now, you won't believe me anyway." She also said "Rishi didn't disgrace this family, he saved it!" There's more to this story than we know, so you can't write Sneha off for not being a good wife and not questioning how Rishi became rich, because there's definitely more to the story that Sneha is not revealing right now.

About Rishi's recent troubles before his death: As far as I can tell from the story, for almost 25 years they were doing pretty well. Their company was doing well, their family was happy, all was well. But maybe because the company started to go downhill, Rishi took a loan from the bank that they were not able to pay back and so they had to claim bankruptcy (if i'm wrong about this someone please correct me!!! Bc this is how I understand it now). There might have been some fraud involved as well, leading to the arrest of Hari, etc. But for Sneha, she did sense that something was troubling Rishi. But bc their life had always been going well, I don't think she could have ever even guessed the scale of this problem. So we can't blame her for not doing her job as a wife, like she blames herself, bc she did the best she could. She had no reason to believe that Rishi's company was doing so badly.

About raising the kids to be spoiled: Any kid with multi millionaire parents will be, to an extent, spoiled. As I understand it, she did her part by teaching them to have good hearts, and know how to love. She might have figured that the kids will learn when they start earning their own money, or get married. Again, she could not have guessed that they'd be in such a difficult situation so she went with the flow, thinking there's not hurry in having to teach these kids life lessons right now at the point in time (ex. in Paris).

About her yelling at all the girls in today's ep: As we saw at the end of the ep, Sneha put that front up while yelling at her kids bc she needed to knock some sense into them. And bc they were not learning, or taking too long to learn, while she was being nice, she needed to give some tough love. It was a last resort sort of thing for her. She didn't mean what she said, but she needed to say it so that her kids would finally face reality.

About her not knowing her parent's troubles: we don't know if Sneha had any friends or kept in touch with anyone from Banaras while in Mumbai, so assuming she didn't. Her father disowned her. He refused to accept her and Rishi and basically kicked her out of the house. And from what we can tell, the rest of the family, Pushpa included, supported this decision. So 25 years ago, she had /no one/ with her standing by her side. As far as she knew they had all disowned her so she didn't have a reason to keep track, bc maybe she assumed they were living well without her, or maybe she didn't have anyone to ask.

This is only the beginning of the story so there are still mysteries that need to be solved, revelations to be made, so don't jump to conclusions too fast! I think given the situation, Sneha's going a fantastic job as a wife and mother, bc remember, along with the kids, she also had her perfect life, perfect husband ripped away from her.

I like what you said about Sneha being spoiled when she was a kid, that makes sense! that may be why she needs Rudra's help so much. (But hopefully this will shift and Mantu and Rama will start helping her instead lol)

About Sneha not knowing about Rishi's problems... I'm not sure whether Sneha didn't show much interest or whether Rishi didn't want to share what was going on in his career... but it seems more likely to be the latter.

I have always felt that Rishi did seem to have the upperhand when it came to taking decisions in their lives. For eg: Rishi buying that really expensive car for Amaya in Paris... he never thought it necessary to consult with his wife or inform her. He gave off a bit of 'my money, my choice' vibe. While Sneha did disapprove of such an expensive gift, she never took a strong stand against it... after all, Amaya is her daughter as well and she should have some say in it.

Rishi did come off as the one solely in-charge of taking decisions related to what has to be spent and how much, etc... and his spendthrift ways spoilt his children. While Sneha would weakly protest Rishi's ways, she never could do more than that and let Rishi do his will... sometimes I wonder whether Sneha not having the financial power in the relationship is the reason for this...

Reg Sneha being dependent on Rudra for getting things done in Benaras... she seems to have lived a very sheltered life with her parents... she probably never had to get gas connections or arrange for priests for death rites...

Loved your post and the posts made by other members. Lets wait and watch.😃

Originally posted by: Mahek_No1

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Originally posted by: Alia_Sehgal

lol @Mahek same situation😕😲🤪

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Originally posted by: Mahek_No1

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