What is more important for a woman?

We don't know yet what happened in past, or why everyone thinks Rishi a criminal .

But we do know that It was Chaubeyji who forced Sneha's mom to break relationship with her.

It was sad the way Sneha rushed to meet her and she just turned her face , when she remembered what she promised to her husband.

But after seeing that scene a question came in to my mind. The way they always show in serials------husband told to forget about the son/daughter and a mother follow that-----------whether the son/daughter was right or wrong. Is this right for a woman.

Does this mean she is more caring about the relationship with her hubby than the relationship with those she gave birth to?

Or she is worried about what will happen to her if her husband throw her out of house too?( Sorry to say---------but sometimes a wife and mother has to stand up. If not ---why? Is this the reason----------self security?)

Or she is afraid of her husband and left her own kids?

I mean why she is doing that? She went to char dham. She is distributing "prasad" to everyone. Looks like she is a pious lady. Then how come a mother forgets the "main rule"-----------forgiveness? Why she couldn't give that prasad to her own daughter-------who just lost her husband, alone-----with no money ---------with three daughters.

I'm just shocked. How can a mother be such heartless?
Is her husband so important to her that she can forget about the love for her daughter, or the laws of religion or the humanity and duty for others? Then why did she went to chard dham? To do what? "Prayashchitya"? To show other that she is pious and please her hubby ? Seriously I'm hurt. Specially the way poor Sneha rushed to the door-------touched her footsteps on the sindoor. It broke my heart.

Is this how the relationship of mother and daughter should be?
Is this how a woman should be----------without her own brain to decide what is right and what is wrong?
Is this what a wife should be--------------sahi or galad----------husband told so sacrifice the daughter?
I'm completely shocked and upset.

Beautifully laid all the points..

Nice post.

Even today there is a lot of taboo over love marriages and in most cases only some parents give up for their son/daughter's sake. Sneha's parents are understandable given the scenario 25 years ago. Being a traditional and well-known family of Banaras, it should be related to out of caste marriage as well as their failure as parents to control or convince their daughter.

Pushpa seems to know about Sneha and her family though she might not have met them. She must have been contempt to know that Sneha is doing well.

We are yet to know other details as whether Sneha tried to reconcile with them. Phone convo is very much possible.

Mr. Chaubey and his son knew the haveli opposite to them has been owned by Rishi.

I liked Pushpa's character here that she wants to change Mr. Chaubey's perspective now and meet her daughter and granddaughters, in their difficult time.

We are yet to find out what transpired for Sneha's father to severe his ties with Sneha. It could be related to caste as well, which someone said was the case in the beginning.

Wohoo, my hard work paid off, finally the blue envelope of this thread changed to pink 🤣.

Good point!!

If the mother herself is angry with her daughter and wants to severe ties with her then its ok. But if she wants to meet her daughter she should go ahead and not feel duty-bound to her husband to follow his reasonings and his reactions. She has her own feelings and emotions and she should decide whether she wants to console her daughter or not. But unfortunately, she does come from the 'abide by one's husband's words always' school of thought and hence, her conflict.

Good post. Loved reading the feelings posted by the others on the forum. We don't really know the past and day by day, more information is being revealed. This show is getting interesting.

Awesome post...and I agree poor Sneha the way she wants a chance to set things right is amazing...