Balika Vadhu 23 March 2015 Written Update

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The episode starts with Harki devi and Kundan having dinner.Kundan finishes his food and leaves.Nimboli comes and says to Harki that her washing dishes is done.Harki asks her who will take the remaining utensils.Nimboli blabbers 'her Mom'.Harki gets angry and scolds her. Nandini says sorry.Harki reminds Nimboli about Ghangaur Fast.She says to Nimboli that she will not be allowed to eat or drink anything.Nimboli questions her whether husbands also keep fast for their wives.Harki scolds her saying how can she think of equating herself with men.Harki leaves and Chagani comes there.Nimboli says she will do her work otherwise Maasa will taunt her.She immitates Harki and within a moment Harki scolds her in the the same manner.Both Nimboli and Chagani laughs.

Ganga comes to talk to Jagya.Ganga says she knows that Abhi was wrong.But they need to understand Abhi.She thinks Jagya should talk to Anandi about Shivam.Jagya says to Ganga that she loves her son so much that she thinks whatever happened Shivam is also at fault in all this.Ganga says if Shivam stops poking Abhi,Abhi will also stop poking Shivam.Jagya disagrees and says all the three kids get equal love and scolding.Mannu and Shivam both are ok with each other then why can't Abhi be the same.He also says he has seen Shivam spending time with DS but he never saw Abhi doing the same.Ganga says they will have to understand Abhi's situation,how he thinks nobody loves him.If he is not talking to his father then there is a reason in that.Jagya gets upset and says neither Abhi nor Ganga is at fault.All are his fault and leaves the place.

Mannu and Abhi are in their room.Mannu initiates conversation with Abhi.He says its good that Shivam was found at the right time otherwise worse could have happened.Abhi says his intention was not hurting Shivam,he just wanted to trouble Shivam.Mannu says its not necessary that what one thinks will happen always.Worse things might happen.Mannu advices him to say sorry.On the other hand Shivam is in deep thought and Anandi comes there and asks him what he is thinking.Shivam says he thinks Abhi should get punishment for what he did.Anandi disagrees and says Abhi is scolded a lot for what he did.Mannu and Abhi comes there.Anandi says to Abhi that both Shivam and he is not anymore kids so they should stop fighting.She says that she knows Abhi has come to ask forgiveness but sorry is not needed.They should hug each other.Both of them hugs reluctantly.While hugging Abhi thinks Shivam can never be his friend as he was thinking of punishing him.

Disa asks Nimboli to eat.But she says she can't as their is no food.Disa asks her to eat Misri.Nimboli says she doesn't like Kundan so she doesn't want to keep fast for him.She also asks if she will not keep fast will Kundan die.Disa asks her not to say all this.Nimboli says how Kundan always gets her punished.Disa asks her to keep quite and wants to help her.But Nimboli says she will do her work.

Mannu is ready for school and calls Abhi.Pooja calls and asks him about the previous call.She asks him why he seemed disturbed that day.She asks whether all is ok.Mannu says everything is fine and he has handled Shivam and Abhi as Jagya has gave him the responsibilty.Pooja says as he is the Bade Bhaisaa so he will surely handle them well.Anandi calls Mannu and he leaves.Shivam enters there and thinks of playing a prank of changing the books in Abhi's bag.

Mannu comes to dining hall.Jagya is already there.Dadisa is scolding someone on phone.Jagya asks what happened.Dadisa tells him that the man is not working without her permission.Jagya says he can understand as Dadisa is such a strict admin.Anandi comes and wonders why Shivam and Abhi are still not there.She asks them to start and goes to call Shivam-Abhi.

Jagya asks about Ganga.Dadisa says Ganga left for hospital already as she has the responsibility of the whole hospital.Jagya says he can't do much as he has huge load of work and his works never finishes.He tells Dadisa that he has joined politics because Dadisa has asked her to join politics.Dadisa says she knows that he has done a lot for the district but he should spend some time with Gnaga also.He reminds him of Ghangaur puja and Jagya says he will try his best to come back home early.Shivam and Abhi joins them.Both of them starts eating.Shivam looks at Abhi's bag mischievously.

Anandi is sitting in her cabin and Sarita comes there.She gives her some files and asks her the reason of calling Pooja.She asks her whether everything is fine or not.Pooja comes.Anandi gives Suji Halwa to Pooja.Pooja thanks her as she loves Anandi's Suji Halwa.Anandi receives a call and inspector says a girl is found and they think she might be Anandi's daughter.


Precap:Anandi informs DS about the call she received.She comes to an orphanage in Jhalra.They take her to a girl.Anandi touches the girl lovingly and looks at her with teary eyes.



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HK calls nandni who comes and says all work is completed . HK asks who will lift these utensils ? Nandni says my mother , HK is furious , nandni apologizes and HK warns her not to repeat it . She instructs her to keep fast as tom is Fargo (maybe) and says she should not even drink a drop of water . Nandni asks what husbands do for their wolves in return ? HK is mad and says her not to compare woman with man otherwise she will go to hell .

HK goes , mangla comes and offers to help nandni but she says she will do it herself . at bh g talkss to j about how an hi was wrong but at the same time shivm should be told to not irritate abhi as then he will not do these things .j says g that her love is blind for abhi so she is unable to differentiate b/w right and wrong . J says all the 3 have received equal love and care . he says manu n shuvm r fyn theny abhi cant be lyk that , infact shivm is seen more closer to ds .

G says thats y they should understand abhi as he feels there is a lack of parents love in his lyf . j then acusses g that she thinks he doesn't have the capacity to love his own son . many says that it was good that j found shivm safe in the jungle otherwise anything coiuldve happened at night . abui says he never thought that the matter will go so far , he only wanted to trouble shivm .

M says at tyms we don't have control over our own actions and jokes take the form of accidents , so we shouldn't have this type of fun and asks a hi why did he wanted to trouble shivm . abhi says I dont lyk him at all , m says but he is always behaving well wid yoiu and dewcribes how ,many times shivm helped a hi . shivm says but dad is always mad at me and supports shivm all the tym.

M says he sHUD say sorry to abhi to get in M's good books .shivm says a that abji shud b punished for what he did to me . a says you shidnt speak lyk this and abhi cried a lot and got scolded as well . m says she's right and brings abhi inside . abhi tries saying sorry but a stops and says that she knows y he's here and says to both of them that they shed stop behaving like small kids and says there's no need to tell sorry as he realizing his mistake is great itself .

A encourages both to be friends n tells him to hug . they hug and a hi thinks that shivim can nvr be his frnd as he was thinking that he shed be punished more . nandni washes utensils , she's hungry , mangala gives her misri to eat . nandni fears as HK will scold her , mangla says no one will find out and even if they , no one will scold her . Tisa says she knows her hunger won't lessen much but at least smthng will go in her tummy , nandni eats the misri.

She adds that she doesn't lyk Kundan at all and wants him to die as he always troubles her and makes here to get beaten by his friends , so she doesn't want to keep the gangro fast . mangla tells her not to think in this way . nandni tells Tisa to go n sleep as she will cmplet the work , then nandni completed the work .

M is ready m he receives a call from puja who asks about shivm , m says now everything's fine and j has given him the duty of handling the boys , a calls the trio for breakfast , m ends the talk and goes . shivm comes and does mischief with his bag by replacing the books of his bag according to wrong tym table .

D's is v angry at sm1 on phone , j tells her that she could be reacted in a cooler way . j asks abt g , D's says she left for hospital , j asks this early ? D's says that she told that now she will have to handle the hospital , j says yeah he knows as now he's v busy as a mla . D's advices him to spend smtym with g , j obeys .

A brings breakfast , abhinh shivm cm n have breakfast .at office (maybe) a is busy in sm work , sarita cms n asks a did she call puja ? Did she do anything wrong ? Puja cms , a says she just cold her to givehalwa to her . then a receives a call from police inspector who says in jalra they found a girl who could be nandni . A is surprised n shocked

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Sorry for the mess of update 'Have-a-dream'...😳

I was told by viewbie to update as a backup if no update is there for four hours of show's airing when I asked the timeline I should wait before updating as a backup.Once there was no update and I didn't get any PM also and I skipped updating that day as I thought of waiting.Also my timing of watching the show and updating was not matching so I needed to clarify.I hope its ok to share it here.

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Originally posted by: aparnauma

This lack of proper communication between Abhi and Jagya seems to be the centre of the problem

Anandi was only half right so was Ganga

Anandi is just seeing this thing as one upmanship which kids indulge in and trying to prevent Shivam from doing that and she also needs to realise that Shivam's behaviour gives an impression thta he is stepping into Abhi's territory and that is what is provoking Abhi. Shivam may be comfortable in his own territory and he doesn't seem to wish into Abhi's territory so there is no deep seated insecurity and resentment from Shivam's side. But all the same he needs to be restrained.

Ganga - sees there is a communication gap between Abhi and J but when it comes to Abhi she doesn't realise that Abhi's behaviour with Shivam is only a manifestation of the problem and not the root of the problem.

Jagya needs to realise the fact that he is not responsibile for Shivam his responsibility is towards his children and wife. He can only step in if Anandi is in need of help like the time when Shivam went missing.Even if he feels responsible towards Shivam he should make it clear to Abhi that his place is his and no one takes his place in his life.

Beg to differ You are only busy counting faults in Jagya Ganga and Abhi while here it is actually Anandi who is failing to control Shivam and that is causing problems Shivam like she once accepted also makes mess with Abh since others don't scold him because he is nothing to them and Anandi's son , an orphan kid in their house Shivam is taking wrong advantage of it He seems to be growing over confident i am the best i can do anything since don't say much to me Now who should clear this misunderstanding of shivam ?Shivam does not have insecurity in his heart regarding Abhi is only because when Abhi makes mess with him His parents control him Abhi has problem with shivam because when he makes mess with him He seems to go scott free ?Jagya Ganga politely asks him Anandi's saying to him have mostly no effect on him just like in sandwiches Even here she did not tick off shivam's mistake for leaving school

Lack of proper Communication is no problem here between Jagya and Abhi Problem is two kids having a fuss with each other where one is being asked to behave politely firmly both ways and other one? is so called checked by his mom yet boasts around in the house i am never at fault

Abhi like i said before does not resent shivam because he is so great It is only Abhi is misunderstanding that if his parents don't scold shivam for his messing with him than he does not know why its only because he is not their son which he does not know They leave him to Anandi but what Anandi do ? Her so called ticking off his mistakes is not affecting him anyway Jagya knows his responsibilities pretty well You are accusing him he is failing to complete his responsibilities towards his wife and son if that would be case Ganga would be insecure now which she is not Mannu would also be feeling same like Abhi which he is not ? He only needs to be extra careful towards Abhi because there is a random kid in his house who makes mess with his son He does not scold him because he is forced not to Situation is like this He can only firmly asks his son to behave and he only does that The other kid is taking wrong advantage of it and spreading misinformation around and creating misunderstandings in Abhi i am the best , i am the best , i am never at fault ,i am everyone's favorite High time Anandi realize her responsibilities and control her shivam

Communication gap is not the center of problem here which is causing problems in Abhi Center of Problem is shivam's behavior and Anandi's failure to control him in proper way that is why Shivam even after committing enough mistakes boasts around i am a good boy i am never at fault , its always Abhi who messes with me which is not true but his this attitude is making Abhi feel bad because he thinks all think its always my fault

Shivam is not the extremely good kid He makes quite a lot of mess with Abhi this Anandi too accepted that shivam always is at equal fault with Abhi Not innocent victim of his so why Anandi does not control him in proper way Shivam steps into Abhi's place and takes up his stuff without asking permission from anyone ? now who is suppose to control him ? If Jagya and Ganga starts doing then will Anandi like it ? Won't Anandi and her kid feel like strangers in the house Won't world blame Jagya and Ganga since he is not their kid thats why they are doing this so Its up to Anandi to control him If she starts doing so Abhi's most problem will be solved

Shivam does not have same problems with Abhi because when Abhi messes with him There are people who control him Ask him to behave while same shivam messes with him what happens Anandi's way to control him is so poor that he tells his own mother i am very good boy do you want me to turn bad so that i get scolding from others ?

If Jagya is faultering in his responsibilities the way someone is blaming him towards his wife and son then wife would be insecure of Anandi and son Mannu would be feeling same if Jagya is being biased towards Anandi and shivam but thats not the case How much strict he is towards his son this much strict every parent in the world is towards their children to control them but the point is when siblings have rivalry then parents ask both to behave in same way but here since shivam is nothing to Jagya If he starts saying him then it will start causing problems to Anandi and shivam so shouldnt Anandi sense it on her own and starts controlling her son ?

Jagya needs to be extra careful towards his son after realizing the misunderstanding he has developed in him but this problem can entirely be solved only when other kid is shown mirror by his mother which only she can do If Abhi is suppose to respect shivam as his brother then shivam should also learn how to respect Abhi

Abhi what I have analyzed was never jealous of shivam because he is so good He only feels bad seeing the behavior of people like Dadisaa just like the way she does Anandi jaap in front of Ganga but Ganga is mature woman she even if feels bad with Dadisaa's comparisons of Anandi with her she let it go but Abhi is a kid who feels bad if Dadisaa tells story to shivam and asks Abhi to hear remaining story ? Shivam tells in front of her i am your fav i wonder if she is not biased then what stopped her from saying All three Abhi , Mannu and you are my favorites but she let shivam boasts around i am your fav then when she saw Abhi feeling bad then she stepped in and told him i love you equally Now how Abhi will not feel like she is faking praising and love for me after she saw me feeling bad

If Anandi starts controlling shivam Most of this problem of Abhi will be solved as he will get the point who is there to control him