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The way our television serial makers make the story and character lose all the spark is absolutely commendable...its shows how much capable they are to write a story and character beautifully but yet destroy it with their own greed.
if we look at the surface of Anandi's life, it quiet heart touching and a good way to make a story of a girl who started from being an lively and innocent character but matured into a responsible selfless anf independent woman due to hardships of her life.
They had shown the effects of broken marriage on Anandi's psychology quiet well...specially her fear and low self-esteem by marrying a man much higher in education and other aspects of life, trusting him with her life and dreams. Now after making her widow they have absolutely lost the story. Even if they had to make her a independent woman who will have to struggle in life alone then they could have done more realistically. After losing her husband, a strong mind woman tends to get more tough and strong because now her kids have her as a sole protector and parent. The makers could have shown Anandi trying to motherly soft for her kids and strong protector for them against the world. The current track is absolutely weird way to show Anandi's greatness and her strong belief. Its not wrong to think about your kids more specially if you are a sole parent. People and their ways to handle situation tends to change according to present scenario. Normally a woman living Anandi's life will never had taken her daughter to such dangerous venue. She would have rather tried some way to get her daughter out of the way even if it delays her. This act of Anandi does not make her unique but an absolute disconnected character for viewers who are mothers as they will be unable to understand how Anandi could even take Nandini in such place. Its not important to show how great a character is but its more important to make her connect with viewers even if it happens at the cost of her greatness. Anandi needs to be more strong with her approach because now she is a single woman who has three (might be two now thanks to her latest act of goodness) kids who are very much dependent on her. Many viewers are missing Shiv's tough ways to act in such situation, shouldn't Anandi feel the same void and know that if somethings goes wrong Shiv won't be there to back her up? Was it really so difficult to foresee all the dangerous events that can take place with her daughter being there. I feel any other woman with as much experiences of stopping child marriages or involving in any such dangerous situations as Anandi would have done a better job to safeguard her daughter before helping the lady knowing she is sole parent and has recently lost an strong support of her life.
And no Anandi does not reminde of my inadequencies but rather it reminds me of how incapable our writers are to come up with a good direction of story thanks to being stuck with usual insensible formula for tracks...kidnap or kill someone close to lead character, make her cry buckets and yet show her unrealistically good an helpful as if past experiences taught her nothing
Ye Hai Mohabbatein
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Dr Aarambhi
