Why the jealousy?

This is probably the first and last topic I'll make in this forum but I was compelled today because I found it quite unsettling to see people genuinely getting annoyed at Ishita showing more concern at losing her daughter than her husband, or for better words showing possessiveness towards Ruhi and not Raman.

I think people are forgetting that Raman came in to her life because of Ruhi. If Raman today jokingly said he gets jealous it doesn't mean he would want it any other way. For any woman, their child would come first. It doesn't mean they love their partner any less but there is no greater pain than losing a child and anyone who has experienced all relationships can vouch for that. So why this unnecessary jealousy from fans? You're comparing a wife's love with a mother's love and to be frank that's just strange. In fact I'm sure one of the biggest reasons why Raman loves Ishita is because she has given his child the love and care she was deprived of for 6 years.

Ruhi is a child at the end of the day and can be manipulated, there's always a chance so Ishita fears that. Whilst Raman has always made it clear that he knows how cunning Shagun is. Why on earth would he go back to her? It's so clear and Ishita has seen Raman's hatred and annoyance towards Shagun. But Ruhi is a small kid! She's brilliant and smart but still a 6 year old at the end of the day. Of course Ishita, the woman who was insecure of being childless her entire life is going to fear losing the person who has made her life complete - Ruhi (and yes that includes bringing Raman with her).

My friends when they get married I mean newly wedding they keep talking about thier husband when they get children I never hear them talking husbands name only my daughter or my son do this do that all kids talke and kids problems husband ward disaper totally it is normal

I fully agree with you... also this show will always highlight ishu-ruhi relation above all other relations... it was like that from episode one itself.

I think people are forgetting that Raman came in to her life because of Ruhi. If Raman today jokingly said he gets jealous it doesn't mean he would want it any other way. For any woman, their child would come first. It doesn't mean they love their partner any less but there is no greater pain than losing a child and anyone who has experienced all relationships can vouch for that. So why this unnecessary jealousy from fans? You're comparing a wife's love with a mother's love and to be frank that's just strange. In fact I'm sure one of the biggest reasons why Raman loves Ishita is because she has given his child the love and care she was deprived of for 6 years.

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Ishita became a mother long before she was accepted by raman as his wife.it's different. How ppl can compare these two kinds of love. And i don't feel anything wrong if ishita gives priority first to ruhi.Their love is d purest and soulful that i hv ever experienced on tv.

What Raman want to say that he need ishita extra attention or more time to spend with him

For a parent, his/her kid is always the first priority. I'm perfectly fine with the arrangement that Ruhi is Ishita's first priority. Similarly some people should be okay with the notion that Adi is Raman's first priority.

I totally agree! Everything in life doesn't have to be a competition and this is one of those things. You can't pit a wife against a mother, it's just unfair. It's okay for Ishita to love Ruhi the most just like it's okay for Raman to be jealous of his own kid. No point in measuring the amount of love anyway- it's uncountable!

I agree 100%! Ishita's life revolves around Ruhi and Raman! But she is extremely attached to Ruhi and that makes total sense to me. Raman came after Ruhi, with Ruhi it was love at first sight for Ishita. ❤️