Why the jealousy? - Page 2

Aw I love this thread. Everyone's posts are so sensible 😊

Nice post.

Very well said.
You know, why people compare this? Cos, they want Ishita to do exactly what Raman does for her..I mean materialistic things like gifting, helping etc. In real life, how many wives do all these things like a husband does? For woman, being at home, taking care of everything and loving intensely are what can make a man special. Raman dint expect such things or not even anything more from Shagun, now he expects Ishita to do everything? He calls her jagat mata, he himself wants her to be like that😆.
It's like measurement of love and effort in relationship are to be visible by gifting, helping and making specially special.
In Ruhi's case, Ishita's first priority is Ruhi cos she became mother cos of Ruhi, she got Raman cos of Ruhi. Ruhi is special for her. I saw someone saying so Adi is Raman's 1st priority. Why? He has two kids, then how come one kid become his 1st priority? No kid should be compared. But, for him Adi is everything. Ishita has only one kid..Ruhi, she at least isn't comparing b/w kids. Here's the difference b/w Raman's priority for Adi and Ishita's priority for Ruhi. But, when it comes to the couple, both keep their spouse at first before everyone else. Love for a kid and love for a spouse is not the same. These two shouldn't even be compared. It's funny to see such comparisons. People have problem with Adi's jhaap from Raman, cos he chooses Adi first, Ruhi 2nd, not because he chooses Adi over Ishita.

Originally posted by: DiyaRathore

For a parent, his/her kid is always the first priority. I'm perfectly fine with the arrangement that Ruhi is Ishita's first priority. Similarly some people should be okay with the notion that Adi is Raman's first priority.

well said 👏

adi is his first kid who has made him father and I really dun mind his love for adi , i have never called his adi jaap as his obsession , if ishita has got mother tag because of ruhi she puts her above everyone
raman has just blamed her burst on her in frustration and internally he knew ishita can never do that.

but if in future if ruhi complains ishita about raman with wrong accusations just for fun , ishtia will not think twice to fight with him 😆

Originally posted by: DiyaRathore

For a parent, his/her kid is always the first priority. I'm perfectly fine with the arrangement that Ruhi is Ishita's first priority. Similarly some people should be okay with the notion that Adi is Raman's first priority.

Originally posted by: mayu1982

Like to give answer is : The entire calculation so of Raman and Ishita parents love is calculated like this:

Ishita	Raman
First priority- kid- Ruhi	First Priority Kid- Adi and then ruhi ( don't know the exact answer so far) Most probably order will be like this only.
Pure, Selfless , Beautiful	Obsessed , Blind-love
Ruhi is good	Adi is bad
Good Ruhi + Good Ishita = Picture Perfect scene	Evil Adi + Bad Raman= Evilish picture ..

Since raman and adi picture is evilish so Raman's love towards Adi can;t be considered as right.

First time- I came to know - parents love towards kids is right or wrong on the basis of kids nature( good or evil)

Above all if your are not bilological mother and still love the kid - then your love and place is more than biological parents.. As if biological mother love less than step mom. Strange rule na😉( next time will see explain with graph )

P.S. Just pov.. No intentions to hurt anyone feeling..

Arre mayu aapne apni balance sheet tathya vachan hi kaha hain

@ Jaya: you interpret it very well. 👏 Good Job Jaya..👍🏼

Originally posted by: mayu1982

@ Jaya: you interpret it very well. 👏 Good Job Jaya..👍🏼

Raman is always with baggage. Aab kare baache hai toh hai.. so it is liability .Above all when baggage is Adi so it is gore paap to put him in asset side.. Na baba na main ne kabhi ye karo😉

Ruhi is like Ishima always right no matter what 😉😃😕

All your points about Ishita-Ruhi & Ishita Raman relation are right. Ruhi came first in ishita life..not only that she made her mother of a child..which according to her medical reports she would have never happened...not becoming a mother is the biggest pain for any women...Her marriage to Raman was only for Ruhi..later they started falling in love..but still Ruhi is the bond that unites them.
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But i also have problem with Raman haters when he is shown emotional towards Adi.. people should remember Adi was raman's first child...a first child is always special for any Father...i gives him realization of father hood...not that raman doesn't love ruhi..he equally loves her but he has got ruhi's love as a father now he wants Adi's acceptance as a father...People should not bash Raman/Ishita for loving their children...we will never differentiate between children ...until 1 turns out be a really criminal (like rape/murderer/terrorist like that)

Adi is bad still Raman loves him so much its seems strange for a TV serial but in real life too even if kids do not behave properly and may be evilish too but you can not separate yourself from them. Its human nature. I have seen many cases they know their kid is not good person but still can not stop loving them. Raman has has not got chance to grow up Adi so he can not change what Shagun has put inside Adi but he is trying to change him with his love and family bonding.