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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Abusing is bad .. but stereotying all fans into one category is equally bad Urvashi ... why retweet all abusive tweets to grab eyeballs ?

I hv been a moderator on IF for 7 yrs now and hv received enough number of abusive pms .. in fact a hate page on my name was opened on FB too where I was asked to die ... This is the price one pays when u r given some sort of responsibility and u cannot please both parties ... All I did was quietly report the FB page and the ID which did it .. Matter solved .. I dint go around crying foul on IF to gain sympathy ...

Similarly as celebrities u should b ready for both praise as well as abuse .. she is not the only celebrity to go through all this .. biggest of stars and cinema critics go through worst of abuses on twitter .. she should simply block such IDs or report it ... matter over

Writing a blog will only invite more wrath but mayb she wants such attention ...



OMG Jyo really this happened to you 😲
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: --SH7_Sunny--


OMG Jyo really this happened to you 😲



Its a old chapter Sunny .. yrs back .. hum DTs ko aadat hai 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: jyoti06



Its a old chapter Sunny .. yrs back .. hum DTs ko aadat hai 😆


But phir bhi to say anyone die and all those things is not good 🤔
Still this happens to you DTs or it is over now 😃
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: jyoti06



Dint she say these r PR acts of Gautam .. next moment why say its done by fans then ? its either PR or fans .. and if she means all his fans r PR then isn't that stereotyping ?

Dale too did the whole act of Diandra is pregnent .. he is PR of Sonali if I m not wrong .. isn't that demeaning to write such a big thing about a woman ... Did Di create any hue and cry over it ... all she did was clarify no she is not pregnent .. I will call that dignified


Yes its Urvashi's personal chocie to handle it in whichever means she wants ... but stereotyping all into one category because of 10-15 Odd fans/PR is wrong on her part ... and the irony is those 10-15 fans r not even blocked by Urvashi yet .. she still continues to reply them in this way

rvashi Dholakia @urvashi9 5h 5 hours ago

"@pranav_bodani: @s_brownie @urvashi9 @sweeetstarr1 abe gautam se itni mirchi kyo lag rahi hai sab ko??" .. people pls explain this to him


I do see her enjoying it all ..






and people yaha defend her 🤣 she got her 2 min fame jo wo chahati thi

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Abusing is bad .. but stereotying all fans into one category is equally bad Urvashi ... why retweet all abusive tweets to grab eyeballs ?

I hv been a moderator on IF for 7 yrs now and hv received enough number of abusive pms .. in fact a hate page on my name was opened on FB too where I was asked to die ... This is the price one pays when u r given some sort of responsibility and u cannot please both parties ... All I did was quietly report the FB page and the ID which did it .. Matter solved .. I dint go around crying foul on IF to gain sympathy ...

Similarly as celebrities u should b ready for both praise as well as abuse .. she is not the only celebrity to go through all this .. biggest of stars and cinema critics go through worst of abuses on twitter .. she should simply block such IDs or report it ... matter over

Writing a blog will only invite more wrath but mayb she wants such attention ...



Red - are you assuming or it can be proved conslusively ?

Blue - she has mentioned Fanatics behavior in general ...highlighting "especially Gautam fans" ...i havent done a statistical analysis of her tweets to justify either way ...so I leave the judgement to her ...its her account...she knows best

Celebrities are as much Humans as we are...born through the womb and end up in a tomb... they too have a heart and feeling too...and blog is as good as a post here...just a platform to express opinion ...She used it to express hers on fan behavior

Status is just a cosmetic tag ...not a entitlement to invite wrath...because most stars and critics go through the ritual of abuse on social media (given the advantage of anonimity)... it is no defence for making a mass wrong behavior sound right. ..we are all aware this is a social issue concern post the social media invasion...and constantly reviewed in terms of regulation ...considering it normal is a way of ignoring the reality or worse justifying it ...for analogy sake...over 60% indians evade tax ...and 20% pay ...should the 20% stop paying ??

Drawing a parallel...As a moderator...are you endorsing the behavior of fans who abuse co-members who have differing opinions under the guise of "its normal" ? ...are you saying popular opinions givers on the forum will have to be ready for abuses to be hurled at them ...just because they are popular ?? ...instead have to be mentally prepared.??
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Posted: 10 years ago
Urvashi can have her own opinion regarding any contestant...its her choice whom she support and whom she criticize...If CG admirers are too confident that CG will be the winner then they should ignore the criticism...Actually they fear that more ppl will start seeing "The Real Gautam"...abusing a woman who is not supporting ur favorite is beyond repulsive...shows influence of saaf dil..
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: jyoti06



Dint she say these r PR acts of Gautam .. next moment why say its done by fans then ? its either PR or fans .. and if she means all his fans r PR then isn't that stereotyping ?

Dale too did the whole act of Diandra is pregnent .. he is PR of Sonali if I m not wrong .. isn't that demeaning to write such a big thing about a woman ... Did Di create any hue and cry over it ... all she did was clarify no she is not pregnent .. I will call that dignified


Yes its Urvashi's personal chocie to handle it in whichever means she wants ... but stereotyping all into one category because of 10-15 Odd fans/PR is wrong on her part ... and the irony is those 10-15 fans r not even blocked by Urvashi yet .. she still continues to reply them in this way

rvashi Dholakia @urvashi9 5h 5 hours ago

"@pranav_bodani: @s_brownie @urvashi9 @sweeetstarr1 abe gautam se itni mirchi kyo lag rahi hai sab ko??" .. people pls explain this to him


I do see her enjoying it all ..

@bold - why can't it be both PR and Fans?

regarding stereotyping, its Gautam's fans themselves who are stereotyping THEMSELVES by giving excuse for cyber bullying by Gautam Fans... if some Gautam fans supported Urvashi saying that whatever be the diffrenece of opinions, but we condemn such abuses hurled at you...then may be Urvashi wd get some reasons for saying that not all Guatam fans are alike! u can start that by condemning those actions yourself! 😉

I think we are going round and round abt the same facts...so last time...like I said everyone is different and everyone has a certain way of approaching situations...soething which looks dignified to some people may look cowardly or sheepish to certain other people (not that I'm saying Diandra wasn't dignified in her approach)

the same thing abt replying... she is fighting back in whatever way she thinks is appropriate...that is no excuse for saying that those cyber bullies are right free to troll on twitter spreading their hatred and one must only report them rather than replying! some people try to make others understand their mistake before resorting to extreme measures! what's wrong in that?



Edited by NathuPyare - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: SIR.MEOWINGTON



Respect to many supporters who are not defending such ridiculous tweets and justifying the actions.

And for the rest...keep enlightening...the posts are making an interesting read.


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Posted: 10 years ago
While Urvashi is a past contestant and her blog post was allowed, sharing the tweets or comments which she receives aren't the concern of this forum and discussing fanbase, sharing & discussing tweets of common people/members are NOT allowed.

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