Urvashi's new blog on nasty tweets she received from gautam fans

• Bigg Boss Tadka With...
• Bigg Boss Season-8
• Bigg Boss 8
• Urvashi Dholakia
• Gautam Gulati

I never knew anything about writing blogs so when I was asked to contribute speciality content on Bigg Boss for a leading website, I was pleasantly surprised. They said some very encouraging words and I decided to give it a shot. I had no clue about what, how or where to begin from, so I decided to sit back and think that how am I going to connect with, if not everyone, but a few people in the simplest way.

To my surprise when I wrote my first blog on Bigg Boss 8, I got very positive feedback as it wasn't revolving around A particular contestant. I've always made sure I write about those people who particularly stand out in that specific episode or probably in the week.

Be it good or bad, I have never feared of writing my mind and heart out. But at the same time, I have always kept it in mind to never go personal and always look at the contestants keeping the show in mind and their performances being shown to the outside world.

Sadly enough in an era where social media is a platform for people from various walks of life to connect...sometimes on different discussions and sometimes on same topics, some people use it for rather personal and gruesome attacks, which at times, go beyond limits.

I want people to understand that BIGG BOSS is a "reality entertainment show" where we see various people come under one roof and showcase themselves and their TRUE personalities.

What we don't realise is that some tend to remain true to themselves while others put on a mask to make the show more entertaining (that's what they think). Hence I make it a point not judge them as people but to "assess their behaviour" whilst they are locked up with each other in that controversial house.

I have written on almost all the contestants since my entry into the world of Blogging. But am truly hurt with responses of certain FANATICS who didn't take it in a sporting way... They seem to be using social platforms like Twitter in the pretext of doing PR in the form of abusive texts especially of one such controversial contestantGAUTAM GULATI.

This particular contestant has been both good and bad... I have praised him when he deserved it, and didn't shy away from condemning him when he is wrong.

And as a matter of fact, I have done that with other contestants too, including Puneet, Upen, Karishma, Ali, Dimpy, Renee. (Please do re-read all my blogs) But never once have I ever got such horrendous feedback from these above mentioned folks, their social media teams or admirers.

But Gautam fans, you have crossed all lines and let me tell you - it doesn't show your supposed hero in good light either. So wake up and smell the coffee!

I think it's time I make people realise that the pen can sometimes be mightier than the sword. If I wanted to stoop to levels such as these, I wouldn't be where I am today. Also yes I'm not an INDIAN "ABLA" NAARI who will take suchFILTH...

I'm a mature human being and I'm LITERATE and STRONG enough to put such people in their place! FILTH deserves to be TRASHED, hence people start throwing filth out of your lives... I DONT NEED IT & NOR DO YOU DESERVE IT!!! I rest my case!

Oh by the way, here are snapshots of some of the bashing I received on twitter after my blogs...