2 more marriages ended !! - Page 6

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

I'm not very surprised when celebrity marriages end. Nor am I disappointed or have my faith in relationships shaken. Marriage is not easy. No matter how much you love and care for someone, it requires a tremendous amount of effort to find the right balance of expectations and sacrifice. When you are a public figure the task becomes harder. Lots of travel and tight schedules makes it difficult to get quality time with family. It prevents you from knowing your family as they change with time. Forget celebrities, all people with demanding jobs struggle to have fulfilling relationships.

Add to that the constant media speculation, it fosters a lot of insecurity and trust issues. Media can be that factor that stretches a relationship to breaking point. A lot of us get insecure when our significant others spend a lot of time with coworkers, but we have the ability to work it out. However, with a media that is constantly making allegations it is difficult to find trust. It works the other way too. Media can play that constant egging on factor that pushes a friendly relationship into questionable territory. Media exaggerates fights too, taking sides and making things tense. Celebrities don't often have the luxury of keeping marital discord private and personal to work through slowly.

In the end we have to stop believing fairy tales. Marriages can be beautiful, loving, relationships that last forever. But marriages can be ugly too. It can demand sacrifice, trust, understanding well beyond the emotional capacity of people. It isn't always that people don't love each other or don't want to put an effort. Sometimes you find yourself going in opposite directions in life and it is healthier to let go. Nothing in life comes with forever guarantees. We would be happier as people if we accepted relationships on a day to day basis, rather than try to picture a permanent happily ever after.

Originally posted by: swati1975us

WTH? Was everyone and their mausaji a Roadies contestant at some point? When you guys first discussed Shaleen's Roadies appearance I thought you confused him with the other Shaleen - the khargosh daant wala Shaleen.

But then I googled and found that he was a Roadies contestant the same year that Vicky Donor Khuarana was a contestant too.

Dhanya ho Raghu-Rajeev for unleashing these fukre on the entertainment scene.

Edit to add: Feel terrible for Daljeet - how much of a jerk do you have to be to assault the mother of a small child like this.

Originally posted by: -Rashi

Guys...it is not "Roadies wala Shaleen"

That's Shaleen Malhotra.. He had a show named Arjun.

Originally posted by: GundayVedant

Shocked to know about Daljeet and Shaleen

Their story seems to be straight from IPKKND... like one that happened to Anjali :(

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

I'm not very surprised when celebrity marriages end. Nor am I disappointed or have my faith in relationships shaken. Marriage is not easy. No matter how much you love and care for someone, it requires a tremendous amount of effort to find the right balance of expectations and sacrifice. When you are a public figure the task becomes harder. Lots of travel and tight schedules makes it difficult to get quality time with family. It prevents you from knowing your family as they change with time. Forget celebrities, all people with demanding jobs struggle to have fulfilling relationships.

Add to that the constant media speculation, it fosters a lot of insecurity and trust issues. Media can be that factor that stretches a relationship to breaking point. A lot of us get insecure when our significant others spend a lot of time with coworkers, but we have the ability to work it out. However, with a media that is constantly making allegations it is difficult to find trust. It works the other way too. Media can play that constant egging on factor that pushes a friendly relationship into questionable territory. Media exaggerates fights too, taking sides and making things tense. Celebrities don't often have the luxury of keeping marital discord private and personal to work through slowly.

In the end we have to stop believing fairy tales. Marriages can be beautiful, loving, relationships that last forever. But marriages can be ugly too. It can demand sacrifice, trust, understanding well beyond the emotional capacity of people. It isn't always that people don't love each other or don't want to put an effort. Sometimes you find yourself going in opposite directions in life and it is healthier to let go. Nothing in life comes with forever guarantees. We would be happier as people if we accepted relationships on a day to day basis, rather than try to picture a permanent happily ever after.