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Aphrodite272

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Posted: 11 years ago

I really want to know all your opinions about this.

If you were in Gautam's place what would hurt you the most?

The constant nominations and punishments
The isolation and victimization
The sly mocking smiles and vampish expressions
The backstabbing
People calling you names like psycho, negative etc.

Gautam seems to have made peace with all of them except No. 4 which is the backstabbing.

But if I was in his I would be most hurt with the 3rd one, the sly mocking smiles and expressions. Everytime he's punished, or Salman talks to him in WKW or if Gautam is even saying something, Diandra, Sushant and Karishma have the weirdest and bitchiest expressions. Even Praneet is becoming like that slowly. They don't even straight out laugh. They just make faces. Soni and Deepshika were a little like that too. I'm sure he sees that and it must really sting him on the inside. It hurts me just to see them make those vampish faces. So condescending!

Can't the rest of the HMs see it as negative behavior? Or do they think that they are positive and pleasant expressions?

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Posted: 11 years ago

If I were Gautam I would sit and think why is everyone against me. Is it possible that maybe the problem is me and not others?

This should solve his "woh toh hai akela" crap

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PehliBaarish

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: hippopotamus
If I were Gautam I would sit and think why is everyone against me. Is it possible that maybe the problem is me and not others?

This should solve his "woh toh hai akela" crap

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same. aur i would make sure I work on not giving others to make me victim. Make it my responsibility to make people like me. not cry all the time as I would annoy my own self with that crap.

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Aphrodite272

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: hippopotamus
If I were Gautam I would sit and think why is everyone against me. Is it possible that maybe the problem is me and not others?

This should solve his "woh toh hai akela" crap

Hahahaha. I kinda agree. He really needs to relax and think about why the HMs hate him. He may understand how to direct his energies instead of coming in people's way. He might also see the jealousy overflowing from others more clearly then and just steer clear of them.

But my question was quite clear. It's not what would you do. It's how would you 'feel'. Most of us would obviously be hurt but what would hurt us the most?

The actions you want to take or whether you would change yourself is of no consequence to the question.

P.S. This question is meant for only those with feelings so if you want to say I won't feel anything blah blah then don't even bother.

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Khan

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: hippopotamus
If I were Gautam I would sit and think why is everyone against me. Is it possible that maybe the problem is me and not others?

This should solve his "woh toh hai akela" crap

He got isolated from week one because of the fight with Karishma. Yes it Gautams mistake but he never got any chance after that. When he tried to apologize everone tought he was faking it. But i agree that he should keep his cool.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Seriously, another post on the same old topic... But love all the responses! Someone quoted gandhiji on another post for hero.

Heres what i'd say.. "Be the change you want to see in others"

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honestyfirst

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Posted: 11 years ago

I think backstabbing from the person u love is more hurting ...
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Komal

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Posted: 11 years ago

^^^ If question is about feelings .. then you have to accept if ppl say they wont feel anythg for so & so reasons .. isn't it???

on one hand your asking a question to others but same time you forcefully setting standards on which to answer by!

isnt gautam same dude who goes around harping he has no friends in house ... so why should he feel anythg about what others do/say to him, when the persons doing so dont even matter to him! & if their words, behaviour actions/punishments etc, does impact him, then isn't it obvious that somewhere he does give importance to those ppl??

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Aphrodite272

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: vibg
Seriously, another post on the same old topic... But love all the responses! Someone quoted gandhiji on another post for hero.

Heres what i'd say.. "Be the change you want to see in others"

Ummm.. What should he change himself into? The unpopular HMs who are thrashed by public, panelists and Salman alike? LOL! BAD ADVICE!

Hahahaha.. This seriously sounds like a joke.

BB is a voting based popularity contest where he's getting the maximum number of votes & tremendous support and he knows it. Why would he want to rock a steady boat?

This is the most unfitting advice I've heard for Gautam. 😆

P.S. It's not the same old topic. It was an opinion I asked. More than about Gautam it is about the circumstances he's facing. A lot of members may have gone through one or more of such things in their life, I sure have. I just wanted to know how people think about it or have reacted to it.

If there are so many such posts as you claim please do link just a few of them here so that we all can go through it. If not the next time please do Read, Comprehend and then Type 😉

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GkKgKklover

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: vibg
Seriously, another post on the same old topic... But love all the responses! Someone quoted gandhiji on another post for hero.

Heres what i'd say.. "Be the change you want to see in others"

when did he tell someone to even change????? ITs the HM who wants him to change God knows what and never happy with anything he does...🤔

ps: if you call this an old topic what are those people are opening one after one bashing gautam?? 😕

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