Inferiority complex? Or hurt feelings? - Page 7

Sanchi prioratised her marriage over her career. Will Vivek find fault with it too saying that she is trying to do sacrificing act? Instead of running to Anandi, Sanchi is trying to solve the problem in her own way. Now the ball is in Vivek's court.

There is no right or wrong in this kind of scenario.

Vivek has hurt her where the pain is the sharpest. Character assassination. While Sanchi's mistakes are one of not knowing how to be an understanding wife. Here I will give benefit of doubt to Sanchi while the lawyer needs to stop assassinating wife's character even if he is justifiably angry.

In a more or less similar situation, Shiv did not say these things though he had enough reasons to say and hurt. When anandi supported Jagya during Sanchi's obsession phase. Shiv showed his displeasure by being aloof.

Vivek is now on a fault finding spree while Sanchi is trying her best to give priority to her marriage. I think resignation is the best option for her. It will make Vivek realise that Sanchi is not greedy for fame and career. Now it is time for Sanchi to get pregnant.😆

That was one more not so wise move by Saanchi. She never tried to understand what is the reason for this rift between her and Vivek. She just took it at surface level and acted in haste.

Originally posted by: Missesha

That was one more not so wise move by Saanchi. She never tried to understand what is the reason for this rift between her and Vivek. She just took it at surface level and acted in haste.

Like some members have said: Vivek doesn't care for her money, success or fame. He is happy for her to have all that but not at the cost of neglecting him or showing off her success or just being dedicated to her work.

Her resignation is one more step to make him feel guilty. This is no way a solution, but will give birth to more problems.

Saanchi could have taken some leave and suggested to Vivek that let's spend time together. They could have talked it out. It is not that big a deal. She doesn't have to quit career over marriage or vice versa, she just needs to balance.

He is now on a fault finding spree and even if she takes leave, he will think it is patronising behaviour on her part. By the way in private sector jobs one cannot take leave on a whim. Each hour means business for them.

I am surprised that people are okay if husband says something about wife's character twice because the girl had a bad past. Vivek's outbursts are minimised while Sanchi's decisions are faulted and magnified. No balance?

Nobody is supporting Vivek over his allegations against his wife.There is no doubt that he was way out of line when he accused his wife of taking shortcuts.However hurt and angry he is that allegation should not have been made.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Nobody is supporting Vivek over his allegations against his wife.There is no doubt that he was way out of line when he accused his wife of taking shortcuts.However hurt and angry he is that allegation should not have been made.

Vivek is no Shiv and Sanchi is no Anandi.Shiv and Anandi would behave way differently if they are in this situation where Shiv is going through low phase in life and Anandi's life is going well.

After failing to make Sanchi and Vivek into another Anandi and Shiv they are bringing out Sanchi and Vivek in their original colors😛

I am not referring to you aparna. You have acknowledged Vivek's fault.

I am not comparing Sanchi with anandi. Here some are comparing Vivek to Shiv. Thats why I brought up Shiv's behaviour during that phase.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

He is now on a fault finding spree and even if she takes leave, he will think it is patronising behaviour on her part. By the way in private sector jobs one cannot take leave on a whim. Each hour means business for them.

I am surprised that people are okay if husband says something about wife's character twice because the girl had a bad past.

@bold: No one has said that just because Saanchi had a bad past, she is characterless. Or that is why doubting on her character is appropriate. It would be nice if you could write a non-biased post, without dumping your assumption on to my thought process.

I am referring to the general feeling not to your particular post.So I am not targetting you.

I know you supported Sanchi as a city based girl and you opposed anandi. I dont forget that easily.

Here the problem is some people change and some people dont. anandi will not change while others are prone to change for good or bad.

I love this topic! I haven't read through the responses yet and intend to savour them with a hot cup of coffee later on. But off the top of my head, I feel that yes, while Vivek is being an ass, Sanchi too is being a bit of an ass herself.