Tumhari Pakhi, Pkahi sift aur sirf Ansuman se pyaar kerti hai, Ansuman's Pakhi, Pakhi's zindagi sirf Ansuman ke liya hai,
These are the statements that Pakhi has been saying all of her life. As an Individual Pakhi is a positive, caring, strong willed person. But she has tendency to believe that she is the only one who is right/understands everything. She has been brought up in a loving home. The family tried to convince her to get on with her life but respected her views/sentiments and supported her decision.
Most people with any Asian heritage understand and respect the sanctity of marriage and family. Pakhi is no different. Like any girl she did everything she could to make her marriage work and respected her new family, overlooking their mistakes/faults and focusing on the strengths. She dealt with all that was thrown at her with dignity, never losing her self-respect. And her reward was the love of the man she had loved all her life. But unfortunately fate had other plans for Pakhi and he was snatched away from her. And that has left her feeling cheated and angry and therefore subconsciously she is challenging fate - I accept your decision that I cannot be with Ansuman then you accept my decision that I will not accept anyone else. It is that mindset that has her saying... Pakhi Ansuman ke bena kisi aur ke bare mein soch bhi nehi sakti hai, Har janam mein Pakhi toh Ansuman ke hogi. But she has not yet realised/is unwilling to accept that a person cannot change their fate!!!! A person can choose the path by which they meet their fate but they cannot their fate. Her life's journey started with Ansuman but it will not end with Ansuman.
If all the spoiler alerts are correct than yet again Pakhi will use the children as an excuse to keep Veer in her life.
I would love to see Veer:
1. give Lavenya a piece of his mind and tell Girish that he needs to keep his wife in check
2. after Pakhi tells him that he lost Kirti because he did not love her, walk away and show Pakhi that he can fulfil his promise to always make sure that she and Aayan have everything they need, no harm comes to them and complete Ansuman's dream project (from the dialogue last Friday its almost coming to an end) with minimal interaction with Pakhi; and
3. Veer's family keeping themselves to themselves and leaving Pakhi alone after delivering the ultimatum.
When Pakhi married Veer she was highly emotional, under pressure and cornered. Since then things have settled, Pakhi is calm and she knows Veer. She knows he is a very clever businessman, quirky, self-sufficient and sensitive, who cares about people, has strong values and principles but also behind that easy going calm exterior is strength to protect his own. She clearly trusts him - She has handed over management of Rathod empire and completing Ansuman's dream project to him. She thinks he is a good role model for Aayan and knows that he loves Aayan and will always be "Aayan's ND".
I think time has come for Pakhi to stop hiding behind Ayaan and decide whether she wants to spend the rest of her life existing in that mausoleum with Ayaan, memories of Ansuman and deal with his selfish relatives or whether she wants to live as part of a family which will grow, evolve and brings its own joys and challenges.
I am not saying that she can at this stage say she can ever love Veer or have a normal martial relationship with him but she can say that she cares for him and the children, trusts him and thinks they can be life partners and together can raise 2 wonderful children and be happy if that is enough for him.
Let's see how she handles this.
Edited by payal7 - 10 years ago