Over protective mother, selfish mother and a balanced mother

Aap samajhdaar kabse ban gai :P Lol agreee !!

Originally posted by: _Bidzie_

Aap samajhdaar kabse ban gai :P Lol agreee !!

Totally Agreed...
Harbaar baccho ki ghalti nahin hoti hain,,Bade bhi aksar jadbaazi mein overprotective banke rather oversmart banke ghalat decisions le lete hain...
Isiliye kehte hain "Sikhne ki koi umar nahi hoti"
Bacche jaise bachpan se apne bado se shikshaa praapt karte hain,,thik usi tarah jeevan ke har ek mod pe har ek insaan ko bohot kuch sikhneko milta hain,,chaahe woh insaan kitna bhi badaa kyon na ho gayaa ho,,Bacche bhi aksar bohot sahi cheezein sikhaa jate hain Bado ko...
Enough said,,I am tired...

Originally posted by: anuramesh26

After today's Ranvi's reaction one thing came to my mind - Veera ki anokhi maa has changed to the "typical papaji". An over doting fatheralso tends to beover protective.

Ladies/ girlsyou all would have seen or heard of dads doing this. No I'am not saying all dads or all men are like this. But a majority of them are like this. Men

1. (over)protecting your child thinking like no can take care of her like you do (my hubby wld actually bring the whole house dwn if any ofmy girls got hurt while playing).

2. trying to find fault with the man she loves (or for that matter her husband too- zyaada tar sasur ji aur damaad ka khaas banta nahin hai)

3. Controlling her - (like you will not even meet Baldev from today)

4. making decisions on her behalf assuming you know her very well, and she is your perfect daughter she wont break your heart.

And lastly, if things don't work in their will they dump the blame on the mothers.😡 It would be interesting to see whom Ranvi would blame, khudh jo veera ki anokhi maa bana tha. 😆

Ummm... here is where I would like to see Ratan finally taking Veera's side, cos veera needs a 'mother' right now. Because mostly the mother can relate with the daughters feelings being the same gender. But due to pressurefrom the men, to keep the family's honor they remain silent.

Cant agree more ranvi going though same that typical girls father wala feeling ke how can she love someone else more .
How can she rebel against me for him.
Uss main kuch to faults hoge even though he is good person.
Hota hain every father feels that way .he jusy eant to remain sole hero for her when it chnges he feel insecure.
In ranvi case its obvious ke this is baldev for whom she is doing all this.
It kind shocked him

Originally posted by: anuramesh26

After today's Ranvi's reaction one thing came to my mind - Veera ki anokhi maa has changed to the "typical papaji". An over doting father also tends to be over protective.

Ladies/ girls you all would have seen or heard of dads doing this. No I'am not saying all dads or all men are like this. But a majority of them are like this. Men

1. (over) protecting your child thinking like no can take care of her like you do (my hubby wld actually bring the whole house dwn if any of my girls got hurt while playing).

2. trying to find fault with the man she loves (or for that matter her husband too- zyaada tar sasur ji aur damaad ka khaas banta nahin hai)

3. Controlling her - (like you will not even meet Baldev from today)

4. making decisions on her behalf assuming you know her very well, and she is your perfect daughter she wont break your heart.

And lastly, if things don't work in their will they dump the blame on the mothers.😡 It would be interesting to see whom Ranvi would blame, khudh jo veera ki anokhi maa bana tha. 😆

Ummm... here is where I would like to see Ratan finally taking Veera's side, cos veera needs a 'mother' right now. Because mostly the mother can relate with the daughters feelings being the same gender. But due to pressure from the men, to keep the family's honor they remain silent.

i wont agree that ratan is a balanced mother .. , rest 👍🏼

Ratan didnt take control of the situation - chota Ranvi doing all sacrifices for Veera , she must have stopped him and made sure both of them get equal opportunities ... and made sure Ranvi also take care of his education

Originally posted by: overactor

yup a typical pind papaji like amresh puri of ddlj..obey me my daughter or i disown u🤪 mothers r always mothers they support their kids and help them but what if a mother is like bansuri

You already gave the answer! she is the reason that both her kids lives are a disaster