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Hii YMHians!! 😊
Most of you'll might not know me as i am a silent reader in this forum but thought of making this post. 😉
I have seen posts where they have compared Raman's pain with Ishita's or comparing Ishita's past with Raman's or saying that Raman has suffered more that Ishita, etc etc etc
I want to make one thing clear that Raman's and Ishita's pain and their past is NOT COMPARABLE. They have suffered but we cannot compare them.
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There are so many types of heartbreak, so many types of pain. It can be in any situation and the level of pain can vary from different type of situation or from people to people.
For Example : A person who has lost their parent after they have aged, i mean to say is after the parent have seen the person's children etc etc and a child/teen who has lost a parent.
Here the situation is same but we cannot compare them because we might feel that child's pain is more greater as they have lost a parent at their early age as compared to the person who have lost a parent when the parent have seen He/she grow up, get married, having children. But we can't compare them because both have lost their loved ones and both are in pain..
Now lets come to our Ishra's past.
Remember i am not comparing, i am just stating the facts.
RAMAN
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Raman's wife cheated him with his boss when his second child was just 6months baby and lost his first child also. He has two heartbreaks , 1. Wife cheating, 2. Losing of his son.
He handled the pain by turning into emotionless person but when he sees his Ex with ashok and his son calling someone else Papa, he feels the pain occasionaly and his wounds are reopened. Because no matter how much he turned emotionless, he is traumatized by his past, getting flashbacks of her leaving him and their daughter with his son.
But now he doesn't really mind seeing shagun with ashok but he minds about Adi, his son. So seeing him with them pains him, so still he is in Pain.
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ISHITA
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Ishita lost her bf of 12years on her engagement and on the same day got to know she is infertile. Here also two heartbreaks, 1. Longterm bf breaking up , 2. Getting to know she's infertile.
She handled the pain by hiding her pain, smilling as if she's alright. The pain she felt about being infertile over shadowed the pain of her bf leaving her when she needed him the most.
You saw in initial episodes, she agrees to marry not because she wants to marry but because she wants to make her Amma happy and not worry her, you saw how she got stuck by seeing subbu with his pregnent wife, how her wounds reopened by seeing them, not only that, the pain she felt when bala's mom taunted her of being infertile was more than seeing subbu with his wife.
Now she really doesn't mind of subbu, she has accepted the fact that he was not the right man and it was not true love, she has moved on in that manner.But she's constantly reminded she can't be pregnant by seeing pregnant ladies or being taunted of being infertile. For a while She forgets her condition by seeing ruhi but when people taunt her occasionaly she's remembers and wounds are reopened. So still she is in Pain.
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So both are in pain. Both of them have experienced heartbreak whether its big or small. Some say ishita didn't experience what raman experienced but she has experienced the PAIN of a heartbreak, didn't she? She knows what it feels to be in pain emotionally, she knows what is a heartbreak.
Both situation are not comparable but we can say BOTH know the meaning of being in pain emotionally whether its small o big.
So pain is pain, a heartbreak is heartbreak no mattar how big or small it is.
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I know its a long post, sorry i just got carried away *sheepish smile*
but i hope i made sense 😛, hope you'll understood what i was trying to say 😊...
p.s i wanted to post this three days before but was not able to do so. Some spam problem. 😔
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UNTIL NEXT TIME
CHIO
HASANA 😉
Most of you'll might not know me as i am a silent reader in this forum but thought of making this post. 😉
I have seen posts where they have compared Raman's pain with Ishita's or comparing Ishita's past with Raman's or saying that Raman has suffered more that Ishita, etc etc etc
I want to make one thing clear that Raman's and Ishita's pain and their past is NOT COMPARABLE. They have suffered but we cannot compare them.
______________________________
There are so many types of heartbreak, so many types of pain. It can be in any situation and the level of pain can vary from different type of situation or from people to people.
For Example : A person who has lost their parent after they have aged, i mean to say is after the parent have seen the person's children etc etc and a child/teen who has lost a parent.
Here the situation is same but we cannot compare them because we might feel that child's pain is more greater as they have lost a parent at their early age as compared to the person who have lost a parent when the parent have seen He/she grow up, get married, having children. But we can't compare them because both have lost their loved ones and both are in pain..
Now lets come to our Ishra's past.
Remember i am not comparing, i am just stating the facts.
RAMAN
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Raman's wife cheated him with his boss when his second child was just 6months baby and lost his first child also. He has two heartbreaks , 1. Wife cheating, 2. Losing of his son.
He handled the pain by turning into emotionless person but when he sees his Ex with ashok and his son calling someone else Papa, he feels the pain occasionaly and his wounds are reopened. Because no matter how much he turned emotionless, he is traumatized by his past, getting flashbacks of her leaving him and their daughter with his son.
But now he doesn't really mind seeing shagun with ashok but he minds about Adi, his son. So seeing him with them pains him, so still he is in Pain.
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ISHITA
--------
Ishita lost her bf of 12years on her engagement and on the same day got to know she is infertile. Here also two heartbreaks, 1. Longterm bf breaking up , 2. Getting to know she's infertile.
She handled the pain by hiding her pain, smilling as if she's alright. The pain she felt about being infertile over shadowed the pain of her bf leaving her when she needed him the most.
You saw in initial episodes, she agrees to marry not because she wants to marry but because she wants to make her Amma happy and not worry her, you saw how she got stuck by seeing subbu with his pregnent wife, how her wounds reopened by seeing them, not only that, the pain she felt when bala's mom taunted her of being infertile was more than seeing subbu with his wife.
Now she really doesn't mind of subbu, she has accepted the fact that he was not the right man and it was not true love, she has moved on in that manner.But she's constantly reminded she can't be pregnant by seeing pregnant ladies or being taunted of being infertile. For a while She forgets her condition by seeing ruhi but when people taunt her occasionaly she's remembers and wounds are reopened. So still she is in Pain.
________________________________________
So both are in pain. Both of them have experienced heartbreak whether its big or small. Some say ishita didn't experience what raman experienced but she has experienced the PAIN of a heartbreak, didn't she? She knows what it feels to be in pain emotionally, she knows what is a heartbreak.
Both situation are not comparable but we can say BOTH know the meaning of being in pain emotionally whether its small o big.
So pain is pain, a heartbreak is heartbreak no mattar how big or small it is.
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I know its a long post, sorry i just got carried away *sheepish smile*
but i hope i made sense 😛, hope you'll understood what i was trying to say 😊...
p.s i wanted to post this three days before but was not able to do so. Some spam problem. 😔
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UNTIL NEXT TIME
CHIO
HASANA 😉
CID
