beautiful friendship and justified dislike

So finally suhani and souyma meet post marriage and it was bitter sweet to watch. Really Rajshri was amazing to watch her every expression was beautiful and perfect (except for the pathetic makeup). She showed the happiness of meeting her friend yet the tentativeness of being a little awkward not knowing what happened to her and what was the reason for her absence. I loved the look she had when she saw soumya the tenderness and love she feels for her is really beautiful. Its too bad souyma doesn't really deserve such a good friend and their r/ship is 1 sided with her knowing everything about suhani bt suhani knowing nothing about her. And I loved how their mangalsutra's got intertwined together when they moved away from each another. This was the reason they separated their marriages. Souyma's inability to share anything with suhani be it her marriage and using suhani so that no1 finds out that yuvraj liked her so she wnt have to get married to him and reveal her feelings for krishna to the world. And than there is yuvraj and Sharad what a contrast btw them and the 2 girls friendship. They know each another so well and share their every joy and pain with each another true friendship. I loved hw like a good friend sharad dissed souyma and said the truth even though it was bitter. Hw can souyma be happy in her life she lied and deceived to get what she wanted. She made her marriage something to be ashamed of by making it a secret and hiding the fact that she was married even if it was for a little while. I liked hw yuvraj had stayed silent when sharad had said this about souyma's life coz a true lover can never wish ill for some1 he loved. I did feel a little bad at sharad's words though about souyma. So not sure whether it was justified or not coz she was already in love with some1 else. I dnt think that yuvraj will tell suhani about what truly happened coz he will see hw scattered she is.

The girl who plays Suhani is really very good in her expressions. I liked how she emotes.

Soumya is still very immature maybe partly because of her sheltered upbringing. Her relationship with Suhani is more from Suhani than from Soumya. I have a feeling that Suhani was the more mature of the two.

Soumya's fear about her relationship with Krishna before and after marriage was fueled by Krishna too. I find him as immature in his relationship with Soumya as she is with others. Both are impulsive and both do not understand what they have gotten themselves into. Krishna's lifestyle and habits are so very different than Soumya's that at one point it will become a barrier between them. Krishna's stubbornness, his anger and his need to keep Soumya away from her near and dear ones while he keeps his own relations close will surely lead to issues. Today when Krishna belittled Soumya when she was crying it was obvious where this relationship is going.

Suhani and Yuvraj on the other hand are kind of kindred souls. Yuvraj is slowly understanding Suhani and her ways while Suhani, while at times very rash and stupid, is also going all out to fit herself in Yuvraj's world. They talk about their issues and do see from each others perspective. I like the fact that Yuvraj is kind enough to understand Suhani's emotions while Suhani has the attitude to apologize when she is wrong.

Sharad knows only Yuvraj's story. So he is angry as a friend but Soumya does not deserve his curse for Yuvraj.. While she certainly mislead Suhani after sometime, she genuinely thought he loved Suhani at first and hence fueled the relationship..
Soumya's suffering probably is not for trusting her mother and Suhani enough to let them know about her lover and later about her marriage.

@Justlikethat1 very well put and couldn't agree more with the way souyma and krishna are as well as yuvani.

totally agree with "justlikethat1". i do think that 'S' girls frienship is genuine. and hope that creative doesnt portrait soumya as a selfish girl. only thing soumya didnt do is sharing her afair with suhani she also thought that yuvraj was in love with suhani. soumya did leave a letter to suhani. yuvraj is the one throw that letter.

I don't think that friendship was more from the Suhani's side...they both cared for each other equally. Suamya hid her love life from suhani due to the circumstances of it...in each individual's life there is something personal and his one space...so I don't think Suhani was cheated. Suhani-yuvi marriage happened more due to blackmailing of Suhani's father rather than Saumya opting out. Yuvi is handsome , rich , so it doesn't means he will get whatever he aims and any girl cannot say no to him...plus Saumya had valid reason to say no.

I agree.. I think Yuvraj has shades of grey in him that may or may not lead to more trouble. While Yuvraj genuinely does things for Suhani sometimes, him showing off to Soumya now will only lead to Suhani thinking that Yuvraj loves her dearly. Isn't this something Yuvraj wanted to avoid?

Soumya I am afraid will keep seeing the difference between her life after marriage and Suhani's life which is exactly what Yuvraj wants. When Suhani left in the car, there was a longing in Soumya's eyes. Soumya should remember that she chose to give up such things when she decided to marry Krishna.

I agree with the post above that Soumya knew about Krishna and his ways before marriage too and steps back every time. But what I think will tip the balance is her SIL and probably MIL (if she enters the show that is). Now Krishna's insensitivity will only hurt more as he also insists on keeping Soumya away from her dear ones.. It is a battle between Krishna's insecurity and Soumya's.

In case of Suhani and Yuvraj, it is because of Suhani's ignorance and Yuvraj's need for revenge.

Originally posted by: piyualka

I don't think that friendship was more from the Suhani's side...they both cared for each other equally. Suamya hid her love life from suhani due to the circumstances of it...in each individual's life there is something personal and his one space...so I don't think Suhani was cheated. Suhani-yuvi marriage happened more due to blackmailing of Suhani's father rather than Saumya opting out. Yuvi is handsome , rich , so it doesn't means he will get whatever he aims and any girl cannot say no to him...plus Saumya had valid reason to say no.

Soumya was not at fault when she said no to Yuvraj. But she was wrong to continue fanning Suhani's illusion that Yuvraj was in love with her even after coming to know the truth. While Suhani's father was certainly idiotic in blackmailing Yuvraj to marry his daughter, Soumya was also at fault for building SUhani's hopes when she knew there was none. It is ok to opt out of a relationship but it is not ok to lead another into one when they are blindsided.

But I do agree that Soumya seems very genuine in her relationship with Suhani. I do not fault her for keeping her relationship with Krishna a secret. She had valid reasons and even among best friends there are things that one considers very personal to share.. Suhani's expectation that she be told of everything in Soumya's life is really unreasonable.

@justlikethat1: may be my ignorance...as I am not a regular follower of the show and I have missed almost two weeks of the show before Suhani's wedding.