Male Ego and the Right of Women

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I don't know if this topic was posted before but...

What do you think about men "ruling the house"?

Do you agree that it is the womens responsibility to do all the house chores and cook food?

Do you think that women who work, have a harder life than men who work, due to them having to fulfil the household duties?

How far do you agree on the statement that "men and women have equal rights"?

Why do you think men are more dominant then women?

Why is it that it is mostly men that are in power, when it is proven that women have more brainpower and have the ability to multi-task better then men?

Do you think it is fair that when married, it is traditional that the girl has to leave her house?

Do you think the reason for all of this is male ego and that men don't want to be overshadowed by women, due to their pride, so they show that they are in charge by making the female fear them?

Do you agree with the monarchy system, of men before women, no matter what the age to ability?

Do you believe in the statement "Women will on day rule the world"?

P.S-this topic is not made to ofend anyone, so i'm sorry if any of you got offended, i just wanted to know your opinions😳

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Nitisha😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Ok Im first one to comment. In many aspects men stlll dominate women. Like all the women do the house work whereas men sit around, watch T.V or do other outside house stuff. Like buying groceries. But they dont work around the house because they have this thing stick in their mind that it is female job to do. And Plus they dont want girls to go out that often than the boys do. So obviously Men still dominate women and the world and will continue until girls dont rebel.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: crazymystery

I don't know if this topic was posted before but...

What do you think about men "ruling the house"?

-- i think it is wrong. woman ruling it is equally wrong too. why should anyone rule the house? there are some decisions the man can take with better ease, while some can be dealt with more efficiently by the woman of the house :) makes life easy for both. The important ones can be taken together. Nothing should rule the house except LOVE imo :)

Do you agree that it is the womens responsibility to do all the house chores and cook food?

- lol.. Mushy idiots like myself pamper their love with such threatrical romantic over-doings. It is easy in the beginning, but begins to take serious toll later. So, I don't recommend that to anyone! 😳 No I disagree. Responsibility at home should be shared ( I don't know what the percentage should be for stay-home-moms)

Do you think that women who work, have a harder life than men who work, due to them having to fulfil the household duties?

- absofrickenlutely.. w/o a doubt! ever heard a man complaining about difficulty juggling career and personal life? that says it all.. 😆

How far do you agree on the statement that "men and women have equal rights"?

- well.. as humans, they do. If one lacks certain judgments / tactics, then they should back off taking certain decisions.. Again, this should not be a forced decision, but a mutual one :)

Why do you think men are more dominant then women?

- cos women allow that :)

Why is it that it is mostly men that are in power, when it is proven that women have more brainpower and have the ability to multi-task better then men?

- cos we haven't reached our goals yet and we stand in each other's way on the corporate ladder, making the stampede easier for men 😆

Do you think it is fair that when married, it is traditional that the girl has to leave her house?

- i think it is fair for BOTH to heave the house. I am serious:) Oldies need their freedom too. Take care of them in every way, but need not share anything that could suffocate JR / SR couple.

Do you think the reason for all of this is male ego and that men don't want to be overshadowed by women, due to their pride, so they show that they are in charge by making the female fear them?

- nah, several reasons and several scenarios should be considered here!
Secure men don't behave this way at all,
Several sissy don't even know they can speak up for themselves,
Several charmers will walk their way into woman's heart ad play her 😳, Several arrogant ones could get their behind kicked for showing this attitude,
Several women with no sense of independence and pride / idenity will PROMOTE this behaviour🤢.. (reminds me of a recent debate)

Do you agree with the monarchy system, of men before women, no matter what the age to ability?

- both together and sometime one followng the other given the capacity, age, experience, and BIOLOGICAL constraints

Do you believe in the statement "Women will on day rule the world"?

- helllllll no! hope not! i refuse to even have a woman boss here after 😆

Love from Nitisha😳
Love right back from QT.. nice topic Nishita! Sorry for delayed response :(

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Posted: 18 years ago
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What do you think about men "ruling the house"?

Actuly women ruling inside house....😊 all says men rules, the fact women rules rules rules rules...they fed up then give blame to men😆😉

Do you agree that it is the womens responsibility to do all the house chores and cook food?

Noooooooo never........If you check star hotels n other places 80%cooks are men, at home also they can cook.

Do you think that women who work, have a harder life than men who work, due to them having to fulfil the household duties?

Women work hard no doubt, 😃it not mean that men not do hardworks. About household duties.....now a days both doing...but Naturaly men lazy to do that its not their probs😉aadat se majbooor poor mens😳

How far do you agree on the statement that "men and women have equal rights"?

Men never disagree with that.....take and use it...😃

Why do you think men are more dominant then women?

I dont think so....i always feel women are metaly strong ppls...if any competition happen inside mind may be some ppl think like that..

Why is it that it is mostly men that are in power, when it is proven that women have more brainpower and have the ability to multi-task better then men?

Men itself encoraging women to come frontline.....Brainpower n multi task better or not better its all know...😊😉

Do you think it is fair that when married, it is traditional that the girl has to leave her house?

Nothing bad in it........Untraditional girls also leave her house after marriage...😊

Do you think the reason for all of this is male ego and that men don't want to be overshadowed by women, due to their pride, so they show that they are in charge by making the female fear them?

lol...The fact is 90% men dont have ego over women.... fear happen diff ways, If you love a person deeply a kind of fear happen it not cal ego or emotionaly blackmailing people is there its diff matter.

Do you agree with the monarchy system, of men before women, no matter what the age to ability?

ladies first....pretty ladies sooner..😉

Do you believe in the statement "Women will on day rule the world"?

whos said that funny statement...i just love it...😃

P.S-this topic is not made to ofend anyone, so i'm sorry if any of you got offended, i just wanted to know your opinions😳

ya bit feel 😕😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mermaid_QT


woman ruling it is equally wrong too. why should anyone rule the house? there are some decisions the man can take with better ease, while some can be dealt with more efficiently by the woman of the house :) makes life easy for both. The important ones can be taken together. Nothing should rule the house except LOVE imo :)



i agree with you here, there are times we just joke about women ruling the world but its just a joke, i agree with your statement, both men and women can share the chores at which they are better and can manage well. if the women can pay bills and men can wash dishes or vice versa no problem, every thing must end up in harmony after all 😛 . there are times when we have debated about women taking her stand here and there. when it comes to couples i think they can share the tasks 😃
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Believe

If you check star hotels n other places 80%cooks are men, at home also they can cook



so why in 80% of the house( just a guess, it can be 90% also 😆 😆 😆 ), women seem to be toiling in the kitchen 🤔
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: raunaq



so why in 80% of the house( just a guess, it can be 90% also 😆 😆 😆 ) of the houses, women seem to be toiling in the kitchen 🤔

☢️...i just give that example yaar....Actuly what woment want???

They have all freedom to work,talk,dress,marry,divorce,love,cook,Deliver,fight,irrita te,insult,consult etc etc....did any men complaint?😃😉😛

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Believe


☢️...i just give that example yaar....Actuly what woment want???


They have all freedom to work,talk,dress,marry,divorce,love,cook,Deliver,fight,irrita te,insult,consult etc etc....did any men complaint?😃😉😛




i dont know how women can dominate by being irritated but looks like i rubbed someone the wrong way 😉 i was kidding believe 😆 😆 😆

lol @ the icon
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: raunaq



i dont know how women can dominate by being irritated but looks like i rubbed someone the wrong way 😉 i was kidding believe 😆 😆 😆

lol @ the icon

No yaaar its ok, am not a Man chavnist ....so i can understand.....its ok😃

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Posted: 18 years ago
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What do you think about men "ruling the house"?

I hate the fact that 2 people get married to start a family, but only 1 (the male) rules the house. I thought marriage was supposed to be a commitment that makes 2 people 1, then why is the male making all of the decisions himself?

Do you agree that it is the womens responsibility to do all the house chores and cook food?

Not really, although, in our culture, a woman is taught how to prepare food for the dinner table after the age of 13 or 14 as well as clean. I don't think women should be the ONLY one who should be cooking and cleaning, unless they don't have a job. Then I think it's their duty since they aren't earning money, they might as well keep the house tidy. I'm not trying be sexist, but why would you want a woman sitting in the house ALL DAY, not doing anything at all but watching TV, maybe (if they prefer to watch it)?

Do you think that women who work, have a harder life than men who work, due to them having to fulfil the household duties?

At this point, yes, because they are earning money by working, and when they get home, they have to do more work, and that's without pay... Their job doesn't exactly end when they come home, but neither is the husband's, but the women aren't meant to work 24/7 just because they're women and it's what our culture has written...

How far do you agree on the statement that "men and women have equal rights"?

I don't agree with it at all because I'm looking at the statement literally. As much as we would like women to have equal rights, it's their preference to using those rights, but they aren't exactly offered in front of their face to I can't say that they have a choice of choosing.

Why do you think men are more dominant then women?

It's the masculinity. I'm pretty sure women are as much capable as men when it comes to running a house or making hard decisions which might change their lives forever.

Why is it that it is mostly men that are in power, when it is proven that women have more brainpower and have the ability to multi-task better then men?

That's because the world isn't happy with the fact that a woman is beating another man for power, also, everyone believes that a woman might be too emotional for power and doesn't realize what can come out of it.

Do you think it is fair that when married, it is traditional that the girl has to leave her house?

I'm not sure... But it's not only the woman leaving her house. In the modernized world, the man too leaves his house to start his own life without his parents and the modern-thinking is overpowering the traditions.

Do you think the reason for all of this is male ego and that men don't want to be overshadowed by women, due to their pride, so they show that they are in charge by making the female fear them?

Yes. Before you women start gloating about that, take under consideration the fact that that's what we, men, learned in our childhood.

Do you agree with the monarchy system, of men before women, no matter what the age to ability?

I'm not sure. I do think it's more sensible to put a 30 year-old woman as the queen than a 10 year-old boy who has yet to finish potty training.

Do you believe in the statement "Women will on day rule the world"?

I do actually, but it won't happen anytime soon. Women are still discriminated against so it'll take a while...

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