Does love makes someone bold?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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This is an anaysis of yesterday's episode (16 july), i am really sorry for posting it late.

Dare a situation we are in when we feel the need to stand for our principles, the right thing and our precious persons. Some of us are bold and some are not .They didn't face someone once in their life.But for everything there's always first time.And once we will find ourselves standing for someone or something .It all happens suddenly . And this is what happened with Reehan.
He has stood for the first time in front of Begum Sahiba and Aahil and talked to them that way only because of his love.
Love a feeling that everyone live it but it differs many things in our personality,it makes some of us begin to love theirselves as Aahil.He loves Sanam but he didn't even make a step and defend her ,stand by her side in front of the humiliation she has been through. He has just felt sorry for her ,frustrated and can't do anyting.Was it because he's engaged? Can't he stop his fiance from insulting Sanam?
No , he is not bold,courageous enough to go and tells his Ammi about his feelings .He didn't even stand by Sanam's side. It is true that he is obedient to his Ammi but sometimes we have to stand for the right thing and stop the wrong that happens in front of our eyes. Reehan just wants to see Sanam happy ,to be part of her little world, to make her dreams all true.He can't bear a harsh word against her.He wants to protect her and that's why he made a step and went to ask Bade Ammi for her hand.This shows that he is sincere in his intentions and a good guy. I find the best scene was Reehan talking to Bade Ammi.
love differs from person to another. Some love without demanding something in return and this is how Reehan loves Sanam .He is just happy loving her , protecting her and wants to see her happy.His love is selfless. And some don't accept the fact they love someone who doesn't love them in return and wish their wait will end and be loved by him or her.And this is how feels Aahil everytime he sees Sanam.He doesn't express, show his feelings .He is a reserved person.Though he has saved her life twice but he couldn't make the distance between him and Sanam shorter.She has found the friend in Reehan and not in Aahil.He didn't open up a little and tried to be a friend.Sanam doesn't know him and that is why she can't understand him.
Nida resembles Tanveer a lot, nothing stops them from their desires. They use all the ways to reach their goal.Maybe that's why Zoya couldn't do something to Tanveer.Begum Sahiba needs someone like her to make her plans fail . Do you remember Tanveer's first victim? It was a chicken and Nida's first victim is a cat. Both has begun their crimes by killing animals.
Begum Sahiba is aware now of Nida's intentions and that'why she can't let her reach her goal and take all the heritage from her.She decided to make Aahil marry someone else than Nida.After that scene i must say that i really felt sorry for Reehan though i like Saahil. His dreams would be chattered.
Once again I am sorry that i post the analysis late, i hope you liked it.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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But it is much easier for Rahan to go against his Ammi. As Rehan knows her true colors, whereas Aahil does not and she's done a huge, huge number on him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Aahil knows one fact from his childhood which is the big sacrifice his Ammi "Begum Sahiba" has made it for him. According to him she is his mother and he can't repay her favor all his life that is why he is so obedient. Reehan didn't receive the love and warm from his mother when he was a child .He knew her as Begum Sahiba.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: oldooz

Aahil knows one fact from his childhood which is the big sacrifice his Ammi "Begum Sahiba" has made it for him. According to him she is his mother and he can't repay her favor all his life that is why he is so obedient. Reehan didn't receive the love and warm from his mother when he was a child .He knew her as Begum Sahiba.


Yes, but he's told many times that she is like a mother to him, even to Sanam herself when she insulted Aahil's parents.

He held the utmost respect for her and didn't call her Ammi despite her always wanting him to because he was always grateful. Then after the reveal he calls her Ammi in private though he has lost some respect and reverence he had for her.

Aahil's not speaking up during Mehndi and during Soup drama is due to the situation he found himself in.

Rehan spoke up yes, but his courage in speaking up and standing up in front of Begun Sahiba, then telling her with conviction today of his decision to marry Sanam no matter what. That cannot be juxtaposed with Aahil not telling Tanveer about his feelings for Sanam. Firstly, the situation played out in a way where there was never a chance for Aahil to talk to Tanveer about Sanam. Why? When he thinks there's something in the air between her and Rehan? Secondly, Rehan is able to do what he did today because he knows firsthand from Tanveer herself how manipulative she is, and he wasn't going to stand for that when it came to his love and life with Sanam.
Edited by KhatamKahani - 11 years ago
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Gratitude towards Tanvir makes Aahil weak in every way whereas Rehaan doesn't have that problem. He cannot just deny Nida for Sanam. One reason is Tanvir and another his proposal to Nida.Rehaan is a free bird with so many options but Aahil is a caged bird without any option.
No doubt Rehaan loves Sanam but why did he go to Dilshad before asking Sanam? How can he be so sure about Sanam. Asking Dilshad looks very sweet but for me it is a selfish act by not asking Sanam first. If you don't know Dilshad you can easily presume that Sanam can be pressurized by her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sylvia99

Gratitude towards Tanvir makes Aahil weak in every way whereas Rehaan doesn't have that problem. He cannot just deny Nida for Sanam. One reason is Tanvir and another his proposal to Nida.Rehaan is a free bird with so many options but Aahil is a caged bird without any option.

No doubt Rehaan loves Sanam but why did he go to Dilshad before asking Sanam? How can he be so sure about Sanam. Asking Dilshad looks very sweet but for me it is a selfish act by not asking Sanam first. If you don't know Dilshad you can easily presume that Sanam can be pressurized by her.


I agree that deciding to marry Sanam and going to Dilshad does come off as manipulative. While watching initially, as I realized what he was going to do and who was on the other side when Dilshad opened the door, I did become momentarily enraged. But that quickly died down because he did it sincerely and did what was 'proper.' And truth be told, I don't think Sanam would have refused. Surprised, yes. Some time to think, yes. But she would have agreed without pressure. Her Badi Ammi has given permission. He is a good man who understands and supports her goals and dreams. So why not?

Only thing which would've made her refuse is if she were aware of Aahil's feelings. She somewhat is slightly, but never acknowledges it. I feel that if she were aware that either one had feelings for her, she would not agree to the other. She's not in love with either so why get into that situation?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: KhatamKahani


I agree that deciding to marry Sanam and going to Dilshad does come off as manipulative. While watching initially, as I realized what he was going to do and who was on the other side of the door when Dilshad opened the door, I did become momentarily enraged. But that quickly died down because he did it sincerely and did what was 'proper.' And truth be told, I don't think Sanam would have refused. Surprised, yes. Some time to think, yes. But she would have agreed without pressure. Her Badi Ammi has given permission. He is a good man who understands and supports her goals and dreams. So why not?

Only thing which would've made her refuse is if she were aware of Aahil's feelings. She somewhat is slightly, but never acknowledges it. I feel that if she were aware that either one had feelings for her, she would not agree to other. She's not in love with either so why get into that situation?


I agree with you KhatamKahani
Lots of real life marriages happen this way. Rehan loves her, took pains to understand her and her life goals, found that he wanted to be part of it. He knows she doesn't 'love' him as yet, but wants to get to know her better, as Sanam said too.
He acknowledged to Dilshad that he hasn't declared himself to Sanam yet, but wanted her permission to do so. It's very polite and respectful. This totally happens in real life where a man doesn't want his parents to do the talking for him.
It's so sad that he's going to have his heart broken to bits. Losing her to Aahil is probably his worst nightmare, worst than her saying no to him.

Fabulous post oldooz !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: oldooz

Aahil knows one fact from his childhood which is the big sacrifice his Ammi "Begum Sahiba" has made it for him. According to him she is his mother and he can't repay her favor all his life that is why he is so obedient. Reehan didn't receive the love and warm from his mother when he was a child .He knew her as Begum Sahiba.


agree😊

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