Zain Aaliya: PS I LOVE YOU
Phase one of love is when a man and women fall in love at first they don't see anything beyond each other. They become number 1 priority from both sides. That love feeling is so odd you cant point a finger on your heart racing, you get Goosebumps thinking about each other. You are constantly on the phone with each other. You talk non- stop like you have so much to say that you haven't said though you have known each other forever. You crave physical intimacy as an expression of love. The first kiss is anything but great but will be always memorable. Heart skips a beat and nothing else matter but you. Food does not taste good you dont understand why and then comes phase two you get used to love you start taking each other for granted you go back to your old habits and assume the other one will understand. You meet your friends again make plans individually coz now you know he/she is there to stay for a long long time. Here's the dangerous phase your lack luster towards your relation becomes point of contention of YOU DON'T LOVE ME when it's the opposite you love each other so much that now your part of each others life your not introducing life to each other you are each others life. Phase three is getting friends and family to accept your love, it does not matter what the world thinks but what matter can they see our love. Blinded by their love towards you they miss the point that you are in love. Your family sees every fault that you see as he/she completing you as capturing a fort and getting closer to winning the battle of separating you. But Alas comes phase 4 when love sees no boundaries of expression and everyone has to accept you are in LOVE. So far its dream land what comes next is phase five sustaining love- the most difficult phase coz its life long, surprising your spouse with her/his favorite thing out of the blue. Calling in the middle of the day to see if all is fine coz I'm just thinking of you, rushing home early after a meeting is cancelled to see that smile, going to a friends birthday party hand in hand, enjoying the rains, eating corn even if you hate it just to make her smile, watching a movie together even after being so tired that you fall sleep on the couch together in each others arms...phase five is the longest coz only death can do my love apart from you...PS I Love you