why do they stereotype the characters?

I agree with you .

Alas this is what hindi serials r all about. One tooo good n one tooo bad.
In Pallavi's support I can only say, that since Sharda was the 1st one to insult her n tell her doosri aurat n that she has no right to break a marriage made by God, Pallavi felt insulted n she is doing all this to show Sharda her place n some where she feels that since Suresh set up his palace by her father's money, she has a right over all these things.
I think later on Pallavi will get back to her former self.

I agree with you
she's just a scorned woman she'd been wrong just as sharda
But they portrait her as a vamp
An another thing is I don't get why they blaming her and acting like she's a home wrecker
I'm in support of both women to punish Suresh and move on in life
I doubt it will happen I'll bet sharda will take him back

when the secret open to pallavi and sharda i aspect-ed they will unite together and show modi his way that is called new pahechan of woman,not to tolerate man's betrayal
even after so much thing happend she wants suresh to be there and expecting somthing from her iligmate husbund who had cheated on her for so many years,i was wanted sharda should being strong should have given care a hang to modi,that is called her nayi pahechan
palavi was right bt instead of punishing suresh she is punishing sharda which is specially wrong in the situation where they show her charecter
all goodi goodi with her mean strong woman.
but i think pallavi loves him too much but wants to give him pain by throwing out his second family and may be wants to see sharda how much tolerance she have or may be inspiring sharda by speaking rude word to her that its time to change and she should make her own pahechan and she very well aware of that sharda got talent but it needs bitter medicine to come out -or she in real become -ve in jealousy over her love was shared by other woman.

Honestly the entire show has become so stereotypical esp after Suresh Modi's second wife. I still don't understand why did they have to show that he had a second wife, they could've made this more realistic and not show it like men are all bad and etc. Sharda could be making her own identity without this second wife drama. The show started on noble intentions but went haywire. And now with Sharda doing her new pechaan, it seems like the creatives are only trying to clean up their own mess

There was such a nice balance between Pallavi and Sharda but after the raaz came out they both went to other extremes.

Pallavi has become a pain in the neck. Her attitude and illogical behaviour was unneeded. She is turned into a cheap vamp. She wants his money but she does not want him but she does not want him to speak to Sharda. Make up your mind lady! Why are you out to bite Sharda every time you see/hear about her? Honestly you remind of a poodle who has to bark every time a stranger walks by.

Sharda left her home because of her atma samman and started her new life. What was the need to invite her husband for the pooja? Why are you even speaking to him? He is not your husband anymore so why such a weakling dependency? How are you going to make your nayi pehchan?

Both these women have disappointed me. Rather then unite (you had a beautiful friendship going) and punish the creep, you both are competing for his attention. Get a life ladies and while at it, please send Shanaya back to the haunted house to her bhoot family. She can't be a human, lol