(What do you think, even in marriages dont we need a personal space, its not always about paremeshwar or his family or your family, sometimes it is about you too, what you want too?)
Very true. But if u see in KS, it is Bani who has denied herself her own private space and private life. If you look at JW (b4 his butchering began) he was one of the most liberal hubbies you cud imagine. His wife was cavorting around at all odd hours with the man who backstabbed him brutally and yet he never asked her any questions. In fact he has never objected to her jasoosi, banigiri or asked her for explanations, whether she was dallying with Tarun, Pooch or St. Pia. Nor did he ever ask her to do silly things like risking her kid for Pia's surgery or saving his empire.
Now whose fault is it if Bani has decided that her late Mom St. Kdbhoot, St. Billo, her beloved sister St. Pia or Adbhoot's Moti Mom 's wishes and desires are more important than her own happiness. Take PR raaz, yes if she cud not forgive him or go back to him, it was perfectly fair on her part. But her heart had already forgiven JW for his role in her Mom's death and yet she wud not go back to him. Why? 'Cos St. Kdbhoot wud be upset. Then again after ONS she wanted to forgive JW and accept him back in her life something which we have to give her the right to. She has the absolute right to either forgive or not to. But she wud not 'cos St. Billo and Tarun did not want that. Then again, she got Pia back into WM and allow her to run amok, why? Because she had to fulfill an obligation to St. Kdbhoot. Now again, I do not know whether she really luvs Adbhoot enuff to marry him but she will. Why? For Moti Mom's happiness.
Rgds,
Pri