Why, Paro, why? - Page 7

Originally posted by: DiyaS

Thank you ... I agree, sometimes people forget this is fiction and the characters are not real people 😆 Kudos to the actors for making us feel this way.

@bold ... that is where I feel the show has failed hugely ... all the characters have not been well etched and the screenplay has been jumpy and very one sided. You can't run a show on one well etched character, and leave the rest to revolve only around him ... it makes for poor story telling and we can see the results.

Originally posted by: babyji

Bang on Diya...it's a pity that the track which was the crux of the show has been handled so poorly. I was very keen to see Mala in a positive light & I was SURE that we will get to see that ...get to see how she pined/wept for her son...how,though outwardly she looked happy but inwardly she was a devastated mother...how she tried her best to get him back etc etc ...but ...sigh...sigh...what did we get ?? Nothing ?? It's not just us, the IFians but everyone that I know , was very excited about this track but all are highly disappointed now because of the SAME reason that you mentioned...On a lighter note...I am glad we agreed on something ,finally 👏

Originally posted by: -Sush-

Nice post Diya...!

I take your point that Paros loss of her parents has not gotten as much focus recently as it did in the beginning of the serial...while Rudra's pain and loss has gotten more focus ...

Betrayal...by Varun...I don't put in the same category at all...because that bond was never built in the first place...Varun was a husband by a ritual...and their relationship had not built to any extent...than a mere small meeting...nothing compared to a bond that was shared by Paro and her parents or Rudy and his mom...

Coming back to both losses...they are different...one is a loss, the other is a willing abandonment...one you can understand as bad fate...that they did not choose...you are still sure and never have any doubts that your parents LOVED you...no such explanation suffices for abandonment...

The only time Rudy has referred to Paros loss...when she drew a parallel...between the two...and he said...it is not the same...I do not think he belittled her loss by saying so...he just didn't want them to be compared because they are different...

Regarding Paro pushing Rudy...I like it that she is trying...I like it that she cares...what I had issue with is not the intention but the expectation of speed...and then Thursdays episode was over the top for me...This is a sensitive issue...and should be handled with sensitivity on all sides...I do really believe that one should be allowed to take time to feel what they feel...you can't make people feel something...It takes time for people to come to terms with new realities...one should be more sensitive to their needs...rather than deciding for them...how soon they should do what...

I think the only reason the track was rushed was TRP...nothing else...There was no reason ...why it had to happen yesterday...and it couldn't happen in a week or two...or more...

Oh well...it is what it is...I think the creators do need to keep more attention to keeping Paros character...well connected to the audience and consistent...They sometimes...lack...or may be it is just me...who thinks giving people their time and their space...even when you are trying to nudge them along...to something...is THAT important...and it was a nonissue...