Navin, I need a forum where I just read your posts and your stories. Where nobody else is allowed to post. That is all. I know it sounds very dictatorial and all, but I will take it this once.
This post is just perfect. We are in so many ways shaped and changed by all the individuals we let into our lives. So Paro will change Rudra and he will change her. These may be good or bad changes, that is not even the point. Yes, Paro can be more selfish, less big hearted, more cautious and less forgiving. But then she will just be us. Where is the fun in that?! She is simultaneously tactless and very together. I don't know how, but that is how she is. Why does that deserve constant censure, I fail to understand.
And about remembering mom in the middle of a romantic moment, it was funny, but on point. Man was upset with her when they went to bed, calls out to mum not once but three/four times in his sleep and wants some action in the morning.. of course it wall all some deep-rooted Oedipal thing going on.
But I think even Paro understands that she can never win over the section of the fandom who are territorial about Rudra. It was almost poignant when she said in today's episode, 'main kuch bhi karoon, aapko gussa aata hai."