WHY Paro Pushes - Page 8

Originally posted by: shree10

What a brilliant writeup baisa!
While I have had issues with paro pushing major and NOT giving him enough breathing space regarding Mala your writing was superb.
Some credit goes to major too dont you think? He is accepting her pushes and Not ignoring that under nagging??

Originally posted by: Msfrootie

@ bold- Something I ve been wondering too.. How many people will actually take the "push" in the right sense and not just snap out..

I guess selecting the person to push is as important as the push itself.

Originally posted by: Snoowfall

Shree.., you are right, did not see it from that POV...nice...

Originally posted by: napstermonster

So glad you did, Baisa...😆

Yes , me too. Thanks Napster.

Originally posted by: shree10

Thanks Sam. Hope you have not cancelled colors subscription. :)

Originally posted by: Harshuu

@NapsterMonster!! Don't you think that it's wrong on paro's part to insist that Mala stay in their room without consulting Rudra ( after all this is his room too ) ? A man comes home tired after work, least he deserves is his own room to relax ,isn't it ? How can Paro decide everything on her own ? I would love to hear Your take on this . Maybe,there is something that I am overlooking which you might be able to shed some light on. Because of this,I am not able to enjoy the show. Thank you.

Originally posted by: napstermonster

Yes, Simple answer, I think it was ridiculously wrong of her to offer her and her husband's bedroom to Mala like this--unless and until there is a motive behind it--like this tyaag of the bedroom resulting in Rudra coming and going from his bedroom. Normally he avoids Mala but if she is staying in his room he will have to see his mother on his bed, in his space, and be made to interact with her in a setting of his childhood bedroom. He will be forced to deal with her, in aplace of memories, where his mother was a constant presence. I don't know if Paro is as devious as I am, because that is something that I would do to psychologically trigger good childhood memories in my Rudra if I was Paro.

The motive could also be (and more likely is) Paro being over-enthusiastic and impulsive and mahan, and this tyaag was done out of unthinking kindness (and its a tyaag-- that angaan has absolutely no privacy for moochwala romance or consumashion of any kind). It it was her being--"Oh Great Mala-Meri Sab Teri Hai, Meri Mahan Mata Rani" I think Paro just majorly stepped over the line. In that case, Paro is being stupid, and I hope Rudra gives her hell for it, for taking away their private space like this. I hope she has to kiss him multiple times for this stupidity, and we get to see every one of those "sorry" kisses in slow motion.


Lets see which one it is--because at the end of the day, I am going to relax and enjoy this--because I need Rudra to deal with his hurt, his pain--and this will bring him a step closer to doing just that. Mala being in his room--the result will be the same. This son loves his mother, and he is a generous, protective man underneath all that gussa and dekhava. He went to search for his mother, and bought her home. He loves her too much to be indifferent to her, even when he hates her. He will be secretly happy being the one to protect her now, by giving her the sanctuary of his bedroom, where she used to sing him to sleep. Maybe, once more, she will do so, and give him the peace she snatched away from him 15 yrs ago. Kya kare, baisa..incurable optimist hu mein, barso se!

Originally posted by: napstermonster

Yes, Simple answer, I think it was ridiculously wrong of her to offer her and her husband's bedroom to Mala like this--unless and until there is a motive behind it--like this tyaag of the bedroom resulting in Rudra coming and going from his bedroom. Normally he avoids Mala but if she is staying in his room he will have to see his mother on his bed, in his space, and be made to interact with her in a setting of his childhood bedroom. He will be forced to deal with her, in aplace of memories, where his mother was a constant presence. I don't know if Paro is as devious as I am, because that is something that I would do to psychologically trigger good childhood memories in my Rudra if I was Paro.

The motive could also be (and more likely is) Paro being over-enthusiastic and impulsive and mahan, and this tyaag was done out of unthinking kindness (and its a tyaag-- that angaan has absolutely no privacy for moochwala romance or consumashion of any kind). It it was her being--"Oh Great Mala-Meri Sab Teri Hai, Meri Mahan Mata Rani" I think Paro just majorly stepped over the line. In that case, Paro is being stupid, and I hope Rudra gives her hell for it, for taking away their private space like this. I hope she has to kiss him multiple times for this stupidity, and we get to see every one of those "sorry" kisses in slow motion.


Lets see which one it is--because at the end of the day, I am going to relax and enjoy this--because I need Rudra to deal with his hurt, his pain--and this will bring him a step closer to doing just that. Mala being in his room--the result will be the same. This son loves his mother, and he is a generous, protective man underneath all that gussa and dekhava. He went to search for his mother, and bought her home. He loves her too much to be indifferent to her, even when he hates her. He will be secretly happy being the one to protect her now, by giving her the sanctuary of his bedroom, where she used to sing him to sleep. Maybe, once more, she will do so, and give him the peace she snatched away from him 15 yrs ago. Kya kare, baisa..incurable optimist hu mein, barso se!