Spare the rod,spoil the child

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Am I the only one who didn't find yesterday's Rehan-Zaara-Kabir scene funny,but highly irritating?? 😕

Is that how u bring up ur child??
I mean,ur daughter has freaking broken another child's tooth n instead of scolding her,u r telling the kid that u r lucky that she broke ur teeth n u'll get gift from tooth-fairy n blah!!! 😡

Not only she broke his tooth,but she was also telling lies to her teacher that her father cant come because he has gone for a trip,n in an earlier episode she was telling lies to her father aswell that the parents-teacher meeting is cancelled..


I know she is a child,but if u dont give proper values to ur child then there's high chances that the child will be spoiled rotten..
Scolding ur child for his/her mistake doesn't make u a bad parent,infact failing to do so make u a bad parent..


I dont believe,I'm writing such a big essay for a CAMEO,but this thing really irritated me..
Sorry for my long rant.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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i found it cute how he tried to defend zaara and make both kids in peaceful terms
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I skip all Rehan scenes but from what u have said about the scene I totally agree with you.
Parents who try to be too cool and kids that are over smart irritate me.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I too did not liked tat scene.
When a child tell lies to teacher hitting a student should not be encouraged.I did not liked the way cameo is bringing up his kids.He has to correct them.
Wrong msg.
Posted: 11 years ago
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Smtimess its nt abt truth n liess..
Zaraa cnt evn lie nicely..
Bachcha agr glti krta h to wo glt h..
Pr glti ka karan jane bina use daantna is wrong..
I loved hw zaara ws defensive abt her pappis cooked meal..
A man knws his child..
Rehu knew there must b a valid rsn..
Jb pyaar se baat bn jaaye to dantne ki kya zarurat...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well, i liked how later he took up to give a gift for Saif
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Katy_AZ

Smtimess its nt abt truth n liess..
Zaraa cnt evn lie nicely..
Bachcha agr glti krta h to wo glt h..
Pr glti ka karan jane bina use daantna is wrong..
I loved hw zaara ws defensive abt her pappis cooked meal..
A man knws his child..
Rehu knew there must b a valid rsn..
Jb pyaar se baat bn jaaye to dantne ki kya zarurat...

Every child loves his/her parents,but that doesn't mean u go n break someone's teeth..

Good that Zaara defended her ''Paapi'' 's culinary skills..
But there is a correct way to do everything..
She could have argued with Kabir,but breaking his teeth is NOT ok.
What is wrong is wrong..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Varsha.

Every child loves his/her parents,but that doesn't mean u go n break someone's teeth..

Good that Zaara defended her ''Paapi'' 's culinary skills..
But there is a correct way to do everything..
She could have argued with Kabir,but breaking his teeth is NOT ok.
What is wrong is wrong..


Yeah, and Rehan told her that it was wrong later too...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It was kinda cute..
The way Zaara lied even though she can't lie properly was just so adorable..

And the way Rehaan defended Zara and made Saif happy was also very cute.


Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: musicxolover



Yeah, and Rehan told her that it was wrong later too...


Well as a psychology nd medical student..
I take it positively..
Cz putting ur child to shame n beating them or punishing them in public puts them in negetive development,.
Aur jb wo bde hotein hai..wo apse share ni kr payenge if they really cmmit a mistake..a serious one..
To b their best frend..
U first hv to earn their cnfidence at intial stage so tht they dnt hesitate..
Rehan just earned her cnfidence so that she need not lie him wen she mkes mistake..
Our medical history nd pediatrician support the theory..
Its like wen u put ur child n swing him ip in air..he feels scared but sooner wen he develops the faith that u ll catch him..he no mre cries.. 😊

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