Spare the rod,spoil the child - Page 2

Varsha I love ur post as much as I hate rehan.

Originally posted by: Katy_AZ

Well as a psychology nd medical student..
I take it positively..
Cz putting ur child to shame n beating them or punishing them in public puts them in negetive development,.
Aur jb wo bde hotein hai..wo apse share ni kr payenge if they really cmmit a mistake..a serious one..
To b their best frend..
U first hv to earn their cnfidence at intial stage so tht they dnt hesitate..
Rehan just earned her cnfidence so that she need not lie him wen she mkes mistake..
Our medical history nd pediatrician support the theory..
Its like wen u put ur child n swing him ip in air..he feels scared but sooner wen he develops the faith that u ll catch him..he no mre cries.. 😊

well,I'm a doctor myself..
But unfortunately,we were never taught that u should not scold ur child when he/she is wrong..

Originally posted by: .Varsha.

well,I'm a doctor myself..
But unfortunately,we were never taught that u should not scold ur child when he/she is wrong..

But psychologist will tell u d same.
Tk a pediatricians refrence plz..
U will find certain clause fr it..
In those books..

well i find it cute and funny 😃 In my opinion, that was a pretty lighthearted scene, at least better than nafisa-shazia bakwas 😡 he's a dad and has to handle his children alone and besides that, kids understand better when you be a lil lenient towards them. And of course, by scolding your kids in front of the whole classroom can make them feel low 😃 so it's better if you handle such matters pecefully ! and he didn't want to involve in matters that should be solved by kids themselves. so he,very smartly, made the kids understand their mistake and becomes good friends 😃

though i get ur point varsha, i completely agree with Katy... rehan did tell her lter that she was wrong.. it was good he did not do it in front of all and i'm glad about that. he move may not be perfect but was definitely one of the better ones

Well I liked Rehan's and the kids scene. I feel he has tried to give them a good upbringing considering the absence of their mother.

Basicaly bachche bohot masoom hote hain..
Sahi galat se upar hote hain..
They trust their loved ones blindly..
Unke liye kuch b kr skte hain..unhe cmmitments ki zarurat ni hoti..
Jb papa dant te hain..to mumma k paas rote hain..
Pr jb mumma na ho..to papa ko dono role play krna pdta h..
Paoa ki trh daant doge to mumma smjh kr rone ni aa payenge tumhare paas ..n rehaan ko mumma ki kumi poori krne me kitne saal lge honge..
Ek jhatke me he cnt loose it