Biggest Problem of my Life yet pls Help.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Well as most of u may be knowing i m the Captain cum Coach cum Manager of my Football team. Yesterday after our practice the players wanted a team meeting n i said "O.K" ..

And during the meeting my players said to me...

" Dude u r not concentrating enough , U have to leave ur Forums n Stuff"

Well i m not saying they r wrong.. I hardly get 2 hrs free a day and i use those hours on the NET n on the forums.. Well they r justified within 2 weeks v have the BIGGEST tournament yet... it's a open n if v win that v have a great chance of playing for out state or even the nationals...

They think i ain't giving my 100% but believe me i m giving my 100%..

Now above that i have to take off time for my G.F ..

At the end of the meeting the team said to me...

"It's either us or ur internet world"

and it gets worse My G.F comes up to me n says " U aren't giving me enough time"

Now this is the Biggest problem i have faced yet..

FRIENDS,G.F and my FOOTBALL team to choose....

HELP PLS

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Posted: 18 years ago
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easy solution

take your girlfried out for a nice meal at top restaurant,
then take a few weeks off for training and your tournament, after you win (and notice i said after you win) after you win then comeback and we can celebrate 😛
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Posted: 18 years ago
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If i had time to take her out for lunch i would had done that already...

I have the Football Practice,Tuitions,other Coaching classes,Studies ,MY G.F,and within 4 days the college is gonna start, My SLEEP and my FOOD to cope with.. all this withing 24 hrs.. do u think i can handle all that... No way brother..

and it's not only the important tournament after that v have the league starting n last season v lost the title to our rival team ... i missed most part of last season due to exams n studies so this year i have to be with my team...

it's very complicated
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Posted: 18 years ago
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okie
lets think about this rationaly

well to me footy is most important so instead of every other day training make practice 3 times a week,

then on the days you dont have training you need to alternate between net/tuition and girlfriend.
if not then make a choice whats the most important to you,
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Well the most imp. Tournament of our life is coming up in 2 weeks so I don't want my players to get rusty even one bit..

I m planning to keep the training everyday except Sundays..
And on Sunday I plan to give the whole day to my G.F..

But I still don't think I can remove time for the forums..

I still have studies, Tutions, coaching classes to cope with along with the daily routine…

God knows if this will work out…
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Posted: 18 years ago
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well so far net time is the least important, i dont see how you can put studies before messing around on forums. but its your life but i think you are spending to much time on training
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Look i spend
7 hrs on sleep
2 hrs for breakfast,lunch,dinner,bath n stuff.
3 hrs on studying daily...
2 hrs for Tuition
2 hrs for my coaching classes
5 hrs for College tuitions
2 to 3 hrs i get free n i spend it on the net...

total - 24 hrs [ no time for football practice,My G.F no nice family time too]

if i have to call for the football practice then i sleep for 5 hrs.. for 12-00 pm to 5-00 am..

see what i mean?

very very Confusing....

I wish i could get 48 hrs a day then everything would had been Fine..


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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neav

Look i spend
7 hrs on sleep
2 hrs for breakfast,lunch,dinner,bath n stuff.
3 hrs on studying daily...
2 hrs for Tuition
2 hrs for my coaching classes
5 hrs for College tuitions
2 to 3 hrs i get free n i spend it on the net...

total - 24 hrs [ no time for football practice,My G.F no nice family time too]

if i have to call for the football practice then i sleep for 5 hrs.. for 12-00 pm to 5-00 am..

see what i mean?

very very Confusing....

I wish i could get 48 hrs a day then everything would had been Fine..


7 hrs on sleep
2 hrs for breakfast,lunch,dinner,bath n stuff.
3 hrs on studying daily...
2 hrs for Tuition
2 hrs for my coaching classes
5 hrs for College tuitions
2 to 3 hrs i get free n i spend it on the net...

7 hours sleep

eat faster 1 hour 30 mins

12 hours in total study time (inc coaching)

3hours 30 mins spare,

1 hour footy training

1 hour 30 mins for girlfriend

1 hour net time

how about that

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Posted: 18 years ago
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DUDEEEEEEEEEEE...

one Suggestion..... Concentrate More on your TEAM.. Help them WIN... Stop Visiting Forums for like 3hrs a day...just 5 mins is enough... Spend like an hour with ur GF... but TEAM First...coz you have a Tournament..once u get Success.trust me everybody will Appreciate you and will come back to you 😃 😃

TRUST ME 👏
GOOOOOD LUCKKKKKKKK.. CHAK DE PHATTEEEY 👏 👏 🥳
Neav thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Well i m leaving the forums...

BYE GUYS..

Had a chat with my team mates today..

m i have told them i m leaving everything else ....

explained my G.F that i can meet her only on sundays and it's almost all o.k now...

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