Is DB correct on men and women?

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 11 years ago

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We can't say anything about DB being right or wrong.She is speaking from her belief and what she has seen.

She is looking at the situation exactly the way world looks at it.

The problems happen because when the man in question or woman in question have tried to cross boundaries especially when men and women are working together very closely the boundaries have to be made clear.

Here Shiv did set a boundary but he allowed her to cross the boundary because of his symapthy towards her.

Segregation is not the answer but drawing clear boundaries is the answer for this.

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Ume Salma Kakal

@sunflower52

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: aparnauma
We can't say anything about DB being right or wrong.She is speaking from her belief and what she has seen.
She is looking at the situation exactly the way world looks at it.

The problems happen because when the man in question or woman in question have tried to cross boundaries especially when men and women are working together very closely the boundaries have to be made clear.

Here Shiv did set a boundary but he allowed her to cross the boundary because of his symapthy towards her.

Segregation is not the answer but drawing clear boundaries is the answer for this.

@bold, I agree.

I come from a community where we mingle with men and were told from children there are certain boundaries not to cross. Both men & women are told to upheld those boundaries.

DB is talking what the actual society thinks and unless you are sick from mind then thats a different story.

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Tulasi14

@Tulasi14

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Quote[SEETHA.K] Sometimes the conclusions agree with the present day happenings, but at times, the theories disagree / contradict the reality in basic practical rural / urban situations !

There are variations concerning the relationship between a man and a woman to share common interests,without having any discomfort ...but there are success stories too on either side of this dilemma ! I strongly believe that ...clean and healthy relationships are quite possible between people of the opposite sex! Yes it depends on the maturity levels and as a matter of fact, as a member rightly described ...depends on the age, with implied 'hormone factor' of the people concerned. Quote[SEETHA.K]

Yes,I totally agree with you seetha,clean and healthy relationships are possible btw opposite sex ,yes it depends up on there maturity levels ,right thinking and yes the 'hormone factor'.

Edited by Tulasi14 - 11 years ago

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Tulasi14

@Tulasi14

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

"In a study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, asked more than 150 professional men and women what they liked and disliked about the opposite sex.Topping women's list of dislikes: sexual tension. Men, on the other hand, more frequently replied that sexual attraction was a prime reason for initiating a friendship.

"Men rated cross-sex friendships as being much higher in overall quality, enjoyment and nurturance than their same-sex friendships. What they reported liking most was talking and relating to women"something they can't do with their buddies. Meanwhile, women rated their same-sex friendships higher on all these counts. They expect more emotional rewards from friendship than men do, so they're easily disappointed when they don't receive them.

Lot of things have changed from my college days ie late 90's to now.Now men and Women move more openly then before.

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