Originally posted by: Nakshiranridz
Naitik's behaviour towards Naman is absolutely right in his place.
Happy seeing that Akshara stood up for Naitik.
How can Naman talk to Naitik rudely staying in his house and that too in front of everyone.
I just loved the way Naitik said that Tum mera kuch bigaad bhi nahi sakte...
Why are all blaming Naitik?
Its not easy to accept anyone in our life.
I beg to differ, and for the following points
Naitik also talked rudely and pouted so much that Naman lost his fuse as well. Every single piece Naman said was true about Naitik and his behavior.
If Naman is wrong to do so in Naitik's house, so is Naitik wrong in behaving so with a guest.
Besides it is just not his house, it is Devyani's house as well, and they are her children.
It is not easy to accept anyone in our life, BUT, it is imperative for mature adults such a NAKSH (who claim to be one) to be tactful and tolerant and even more understanding. Naitik only saw how it affects him, he has never tried to understand Devyani's or the kids situation even once.
About Akshara supporting Naitik, as I wrote in another thread, she surely followed her duty as a wife, but stepped over a lot of boundaries in doing so.
Devyani is her mother-in-law. The kids are her devar and nanad. If the kids were as wrong as they were made out to be ( and I don't think it is wrong on their part to want to live with their mom), then the only person who should have corrected them was Devyani, not Akshara.
What right does Akshara have to correct or yell at Devyani's kids, that too in Devyani's presence?
What 'bada dil' and 'himmat' is Akshara talking about? Getting a woman into the house as her FIL's wife is not bada dil or himmat..It would be "bada dil ' and 'himmat' only when they stat treating her like a mother and mother-in-law. Until then they have just brought in someone for their own need, not to love or incorporate into the family. For all said and done, even Akshara doesn't get Devyani's pain or the need to be with her children.
When Akshara had lost her baby she felt so much pain and depression. Can Akshara imagine Devyani's pain of seeing her children, yet not being a mother to them in every sense of the word ..even now when the kids accept her as their mom?
How would Akshara feel if she were in the same position as Devyani and had to choose between her Duggu and the family? Trust me, we would get flooded with her tears.
I always felt Gayatri was very unfair with Akshara, but now I feel that maybe Akshara watches her limits better with someone strict around her. Devyani is too lenient and friendly with Akshara, hence she is taken for ride royally.
Naitik has never accepted Devyani till date. He never apologized for his behavior during Akshara's miscarriage, even knowing fully well that Devyani had nothing to do with it. Infact it looks like he hates her presence. He knows his father needs her in his life, so why make her life miserable, when she is benefiting you?
If Naitik is truly as mature as he claims to be, then he would not create a situation where Devyani has to choose between SInghania's or her kids. Devyani isn't a character who is very strong, but if she chose her kids over the Singhania's and walked out to live with the kids elsewhere, there is hardly anything Naitik can do to keep his father's life from turning upside down. All that would be because this 40 year old baby cannot get over from seeing only till the tip of his own nose and look at other people.
Yes the only thing correct is that it is not easy to let people into our lives, but grown, mature and caring people genuinely try. They don't get irritated, uncaring, pout and pick fights through their rude behavior with less mature kids. They realize that time is a great healer and tact is a better tool than stubbornness and anger.
Edited by bubbles22 - 11 years ago
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