Shiv & Shekhars uninvolved?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Each time I cannot help but feel they are only showering compassion on Amol that too because Anandi wanted to adopt him. They do not seem to have accepted him as a son from their hearts.
When Amol got kidnapped, only Anandi was thinking about him. Others were thinking more about how upset Anandi was and whether she had eaten or not! I remember initially we felt that reactions of rest of Shekhars were too thanda for such a serious occurrence.

Shiv always looks smitten with Anandi and seems to observe more of her reactions when they all are with Amol, than bond with Amol himself. The only scene where I really felt he was like a father to Amol was when he gave that remote controlled toy car to him seeing how upset he was when he was unable to play with other toys due to his disability.

It did not feel romantic, rather seemed unfair to the child as Amol kept speaking and AnSh were all oblivious to everything, simply lost into each others' eyes. Would they have behaved like this if they were on an outing withntheir biological kid?

Even now, Shiv was saying yes to Anandi to pick up Amol from school, rather than agree to pick him up because he was responsible as his father. Surprising that he completely forgot about all this and could not even inform Anandi again that he could not pick up Amol or call someone else from family to do the job. Such negligence even after Amol had recently been victim of kidnapping by beggar mafia?😲

Their reactions to DB's behaviour towards Amol are also thanda. I doubt if Shekhars or Shiv would have remained silent if it was their own kid. They have spoken up for Anandi once or twice but not as much for Amol.

What kind of acceptance is this?

In contrast I feel Singhs treated Mannu much better (except for times Sumitra was rude to him due to Sanchi).

Shekhars seem more like benefactors of Amol than family. And seem to be nice to him for sake of Anandi!
Their involvement and connect with Amol is thanda.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I do not think that only Anandi is involved in Amol - Shiv always looks like the real father - like the way he was teaching Amol in kitchen or even patting him to sleep etc. His reaction after Amol's rescue from beggars was like a real father. Shakhers have not been given any intense emotional scenes - so they can be called as not-so-involved. But I do not feel they were guilty in DB case - so far they are just tolerating DB - no strong reaction against her for any of her rantings so far.
Except for Ira (initially) and DB now - there is no biological child- adopted child thing in KB.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree Shiv connects with Amol like Anandi connects with Amol

well Mother feelings always shown while fathers are always underplayed

in beginning Shiv used bath Amol & make him ready for school too. Shiv is one who makes Amol sleeps too.

Duty of child is equally shared by AnSh...plus Amol kidnapped connects both Parents and child emotionally very well.

Shiv was angry...frustrated when Amol was not traced just like Anandi was super crying worried.

Yes initially idea do comes from A's side but Shiv equally involves too.

Like Shiv said...Amol is his own blood.
Edited by blushing - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I feel only Anandi is emotionally invested in Amol. No one else really.
Shiv told DB calmly that he could not hear any wrong thing against Anandi. Whereas he only kept staring furiously at her and left the place when she was rude with Amol and refused to accept chaat he had brought so lovingly for her.
Senior Shekhar ladies' reaction in this respect was also thanda. I bet it would not be so if Amol was their biological kid.

Ira was shown possessive and emotional only for Shiv and Sanchi. She would have been thus for her pota too, if it were Shekhar blood. But since it is Amol so reactions are restrained!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well in Amol kidnapped track Ira do react like possessive impulsive Granny

She practically order Shiv call SP or even Chief Minister 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I do not find that Shiv isun involved with amol...he is absolutely like a real father...yes off course bv makers are more emphasizing on a mother's feeling rather than a father' s felling in that case...But during the amol kidnapping track.and the anandi's old age track the interaction between SRS and amol was no where lesser than the interaction between Anandi and amol...it is obvious somehow i feel that SRS is always a little bit more concern for Ananadi...but this is also a truth that a hubby - wifey relationship can not be compared to any others relationship not even with a mother-son or a father -son...all the relation ship has their own position ...😳
ANSh are actually the soul mate sharing all the responsibilities between themselves...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Shiv is involved with Amol as much Anandi is. Shiv shares the responsibilty quite well.
In the kind of job he is in, Anandi does not expect him to drop or pick up I think. She does it on her own becasue her work schedule is more flexible and less demanding than Shiv's. We have seen Shiv taking complete responsibilty of Amol when Anandi was in Mumbai and Jeitsar.

As far as the family, they might not do anything specific for the child. But, no where does anyone show any bias treatment towards Amol and act like they are being compassionate.

When AnSh were in Jeitsar, Meenu was getting Amol ready for school. When the family thought amol was upset about his marks, Amol was the one who said, 'so what if he got less marks' and asked him to come inside the house.

Edited by dixie123 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think Shiv would have behaved any differently even if Amol had been his own child.
At the time of adoption itself he made it clear that he wants to be father to Anandi's children whether they are their own blood or adopted it doesn't make a difference to him.
But one thing is there he loves his wife and probably will always love his wife more than he loves his children.
The fact that he loves his kid came out well during kidnap track.Though he was very busy trying to trace the kid and taking care of his wife his love and how much he missed his son came out very well.
As for Shekhars I think their reactions to DB's behaviour towards Amol were very clear.They made it very clear to her that Amol is their own in a subtle but clear manner.
In fact thanks to DB we are able to appreciate their love and care towards Anandi and Amol very much.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Writers Cv needs to show more attachment of Shekhar and Amol

prob is Shekhar are still not connected that well as Singh's


but in Amol kidnapped track...family was look connected with kid
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Shiv himself said no matter how many kids they have A remain his top priority

same with A she also said Shiv's position in her mind heart no one able to take it


but both equally love Amol...no plus minus...in fact both are planning to have second baby after Amol being normal kid.
Edited by blushing - 11 years ago

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