Jodha is totally Hopeless!!!!!!!!

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God!!!That woman is just INSANE!!!!🤬Or should I say the CV's.😡

Did she just said him,I came to you to tell truth but MA stopped me??!Is this really the explanation to put all the blame on him and all the hurt??!🤢She did came to talk but after the MU happens that too just for her brother not bothered a bit was She about Jalal's condition and state of mind.She didn't told the truth or confided on him when She should have,Meeting at nights then hidings things from him...Him asking repeatedly indirectly(His fault)"Kaash Aap humse sach keh paati, ek baar keh kar toh dekhti,hum samajhte aapki baat ko!!"During this above statement time,He was angry on her,He was hurt for something she didn't knew what but His eyes showed the pain,But She could never see through his eyes and read his pain,love and hurt as She expects him to do so.Infact She never even tried to talk to him through this entire Suji track as to what was bothering him,Now is this how She fulfil vachans of a wife. but He did of a husband constantly by reading her disturbed and worried eyes time and again and asked her repeatedly whatever is bothering you,you can share with me.He fulfiled a husband's vachan and duty of protection of his wife by Keep Checking on her security worrying that stranger man or some other enemies of his might hurt her.Was She a fool to not understand He was repeatedly asking her time and again during Suji track that She can confide on him as a friend,And share things with him.But She didn't,She was more bothered to keep and save her vachan and She didn't trusted Jalal enough to share it with him.So when She had herself given raise to the doubt for this long,And After MU happens and She went to confront him but He didn't met bcoz of MA and his anger,Is this her reason of putting all the blame on him??!Or Its bcoz In his hurt,heart-break and anger,He said harsh words to her which He didn't meant is this the reason for her hurt?!She says You didn't trusted me,I say You didn't trusted him enough to confide and share things with him,Lied to him and hurted him emotionally,You had taken him for granted the entire time in this track and still expected him to trust you which He did till the last moment till He saw that stranger in your room,what any normal and sane man was supposed to think at that point about his wife??!But still Us aadmi ne tab bhi apna trust nahi choda tumpar,Kyunki uske dil se ek awaz aa rahi thi that His wife,His Jodha Begum can't be wrong,So He kept asking you again and again to speak up and tell the truth,But what you did?!Said I'm vivash and can't tell anything,Even after seeing your husband devastated and doubting your charachter you didn't felt the need to break that useless promise of your moreon brother??!So Fair Enough to you by that God's justice, it all came back to you as his DOUBT,Katu-vachan,Anger,etc...!!You decided to break that Damn promise and spoke up the next day,Even then It was not bcoz you was bothered to save your marriage and cared for your husband,It was bcoz you was afraid that The Jallad husband of yours don't ends up killing your innocent brother in his anger,you was oNly thinking about your bro then,Did you even thought for a moment what your husband might have suffered bcoz of your lies,bcoz of your lack of trust in him And a needless vachan you gave without thinking twice to your brother??!And after all this you dare to blame Jalal and give those Pakau Shaadi ke vachan waale lectures??!😡 🤢You says He didn't nibhofied his married vachans,I said You don't do that either,Nor do you respect your husband enough as you treat him this harshly in public,Niether you ever Nibhofied the vachan of giving physical rights to your husband infact till today You flinches and jerks away disgustingly if He just touches you slightly or hold your hands...Despite the fact this is the same man who never touched you without permission always putting up to his promise to you and also You few days back showed your level of trust in this same when when He came to your room drunk,and by mistake holded your duppata,Your reaction was horrifying as He'll rape you or something."I respect you Shenshah,Please leave My pallu!"That was your level of trust on him that time too and you considered him a monster I guess!!!

Guys Today I'm pretty sure CV's have lost it to what they are doing to Jodha!!!Gone the Jodha I loved,Now there is a woman who is heartless,inhumane to the injury of a Human-being,Ruthless,And who can never ever try to see her own faults.She thinks She is perfect,can never make any mistakes,Only other do wrongs with her even though when She gave them a very valid reason to doubt on her but they should never ever doubt her intentions and read her blank eyes like a vampire and supernaturals,The others should run behind her 24hrs and beg for her pardon,Still she won't forgive them as She is totally heartless!!!I don't understand what does this woman wants from Jalal now even after seeing all his repentance,guilt and the fact that He realize his mistake and have the guts to apologize for it even publicly,But she don't have the heart to see his efforts in front of her God Damn EGO!!!!!Today She herself said that Woh hume janmuchke these pahuchana nahi chahte the,Woh toh haalat hi kuch aise the ki unhone galat samajh liya hume!!"and something like that She said.!!So When she can understand this much,And even see his guilt,repentance and all the efforts He is doing to manofy her,So That means this woman is not blind or dumb,Nor Is there any hurt left,Its just her BIG EGO which always pops up greater than ever when it comes to JALAL...See yourself,she forgive the mean Bakshi bano and her Cheap husband who plotted to defame her charachter...But she can forgive them being the big-hearted lady She acts to be...But She can not forgive the same husband who stood by her in the false pregnancy track taking the whole blame against him,even the slaps of his mother against his charachter and accuses of his family,just to protect her DIGNITY!!!!!!WOW She is a Great Aatma Indeed!!!👏 👏 ⭐️ ⭐️ 🤢



Today She proved to me She is a hopeless person who didn't bulge one inche seeing the Emperor of India,Her husband,bowing down to her,his eyes lowered helplessly asking forgiveness for something He was not even to be blamed for and ask her to go home,But this dead-hearted women didn't budge her eyelashes,And coldly,rudely,uprightly said I don't forgive you.!!I guess Maybe She wanted him to make a temple in her houour,With a Murti of Jodha maata and Pujari ji giving lecture on kartavya and Shaadi ki saat vachan!!🤣

Bass Its Enough,This lady don't loves him,She can't love anyone beyond her ego.She was disgusting today and She certainly don't loves Jalal,Yes I'm certain about it and I bet She don't,bcoz Jo log pyaar karte hai They not only run to save a person's life but also care about their emotions and feelings,Just like Jalal cared about her feelings the entire Suji track,then bursted on her in anger,But then after realizing his fault,He repented and accepted his faults(Yes He had those guts to accept all his mistakes and fault putting his ego beside which this woman don't even know the meaning of!!😳)And came running behind her for forgiveness,Coz He hurted those valuable emotions of his love and wife that night and hurted her!!This is called true love and care!!!!From Jodha's side Its only and very visibly a "Kartavya" which pops up everytime just to save his life but She don't gave a Damn about his emotions,pain,love or feelings which She hurts and brutually murders everyday with her harshness,rudeness,that over the top cold attitude and insenstivity towards him!!!!The only angle CV's always use to show her love is that She is over-protective and over-sensitive towards his life but They totally contradict this same love of her by showing her insensitivity towards Jalal's emotions and feelings.!!This shows that her love gets mean at times!!But Jalal cares about both her physical and emotional safety and more selfless than her as He can put beside his ego for her So His love is over-powering and much more relatable to some or I guess many of us.Whatever But I'm firm She is not completely and properly in love with him coz If She really so, then She wouldn't be living in this egoistic world of hers.This Ego was with Jalal during Benazir track where He used to insult,hurt her and never knew her value at that time,He was not totally in love with her then,Same way Jodha's Ego is at play now,where She is cold,insensitive to his pain and emotions,and doing Nakhras.This also proves She is not completely and properly in love with him yet as There is a saying,Where there is love,There is NO EGO!!!If a person is truly in love,He'll give a damn to his ego,And will do anything to get his love in his life or to stay with his love,or to seek the forgiviness of your love.You'll be ready to apologize,forgive or die putting that ego on side if you are truly in love,And this is exactly what Jalal has done to get Jodha back now in this entire track shows how He is madly and selflessly in love with her whereas Jodha can't keep her ego aside...Her attitude and arrogance is more important for her than her so called love.She has not realized his value yet..!!
Unfortunately,They are showing an unequal love story where 1 person is selfless and ready to accept all his mistakes keeping his ego aside whereas The other person pretends and thinks herself to be the most righteous and perfect human-being in the world whereas actually She is plain mean and arrogant.😳This is not a love story actually as love-story only happen between two equals.which CV's are not able to realize.🤔What a Pity!!
I have always been an Akdha fan(never alone Jalal or Jodha,coz I used to love both of them), and loves both Paridhi and Rajat but now Only watching it for Jalal as I can't connect with this Mean Jodha.This story needs to be balanced now and stop the assortment of Jodha's charachter,Bcoz Ppl are gonna lose interest in the lovestory this way and coz Jodha is the one Household viewers love more,Remember She is the MOST popular and favourite charachter in Televison according to some surveys,So this Destruction of her charachter will only lose them viewers.😳I wish someone can mention this Things to Zee TV via call or any insiders you might be knowing from the sets,CV's,etc.


At the end of the episode,I was very happy that The Intelligent,Smart TE is back and He walks out with pride leaving the viewers contented that He tried every single way to won her apology but at the end of the day He has some self-respect as a King and a normal human-being,He has some duties to take care of in Agra,He can't run behind her for months leaving his Kingdom and people.On the other hand There was Jodha dripping with Cold Attitude and Arrogance,who can't see how that Man is a King who had even crossed boundaries of a normal human and lover in his repentance and love to search for her,roaming and crying in streets and tried every way He could patiently to win her apologies but Here this Haughty,Arrogant Princess won't even bugde,She has crossed all the limits today!!The public insult this way is something Jalal never done with her even in his Ego or Anger but She done it in ME when pushed him on the floor infront of everyone and today again!!Plain Disgusting!!!🤢She don't deserve him,his apologies or his love coz She don't value him.
BR]At the end of the last scene and dialogue of Jalal today,I was in awe...He said Hum jaa rahe hai apni Awas ke paas Waapis..Khuda Hawiz!!...**Followed by a pause,He continued** ..."Apna Khayal rakhiyega!!"This is called true and selfless love to the very same person who is showing senseless attitude and arrogance to you..I was like He can't be serious,And Then I was like "Don't worry Jalal,Her Big Fat Ego is there to take care of her,You go and take care of yourself and your Awaam,Give a Damn to her till the time She realize your value on her own and understand and acknowledge her mistakes and comes back to you herself.!!😛I'm all in for a seperation now as I can't stand Jodha's behaviour anymore.🤢There was a time I used to love her for her unsubmissive and head-held high,self-respect intact attiude,standing up and fighting for herself and her rights.(Mentioning the old days and the Suicide track here)bcoz It is a Mordern day women's attitude and We today's century girls can easily connect and relate to it and love it too But This Over-Attitude and Senseless Arrogance She carries now for no reason,Nopes I can't stand that.!!!Its simply untolerable..!!!!🤢This behaviour suits a villian and not a lead!!Not to mention,This woman has always and by that I really mean ALWAYS criticizes other's for their faults but never see her own,Never does She make any effort to see her own faults coz She thinks just like Hamida that Jodha Begum can never do any wrong!!She is such a spoiled baby brat by everyone!!!!! 😔 🤢CV's first need to know that any human can make mistakes,They always show as If she is some God or SuperWoman or Devi(As some ppl call her here😆)who cannot do any wrong.She is the most correct person on Earth according to them,And this portrayal of Mahanta of her that they always show is so wrong,All humans can make mistakes,She had done as well this time but to show her Mahaan again They put the whole blame by her on Jalal🤢But They forgot viewers are NO FOOLS We know and can very well see who is right and who is wrong!!And This time Jalal cannot be blamed,Its all Jodha!!!In their effort to show her Mahaan,They only showed us that How She can be so mean and selfish.!!🤢



P.S.:- "What do you guys think are CV's up to with this type of charachter assisanation of Jodha and the Unequality in the love of Jodha and Jalal?!!!!I can't make any sense out of this,But Do you ppl think There is any chance that They will give a twist where She realize her faults,And understands Jalal's value like during Benazir track Jalal does realize his love,his mistakes and her value in his life seeing her near death bed??!!!I hope They changes her behaviour with a Big Twist and really make her fall in love with him and value him making her put her ego besides and run to him in Agra and not this shallow love where she can't see anything beyond her Stupid ego and stubbornness. 😔 😭 🤢^


P.P.S.:- "Also in the movie,When Jalal went to manofy Jodha She gave some challenge to Jalal,that to rule My heart,You first have to rule the hearts of your people only then will I come back to you!!"But here Jalal already rules on the hearts of his people and Is also leaving bcoz of his People and the duties He has there to do in Agra...!!So Whats the meaning of this whole track in the show??!The point is,Is There any chance that Jodha will somehow realize his value and her mistakes and go back as I already mentioned due to some twist.Want to know what you Guys think are CV's heading for with this sudden seperation track?!What do you think are the Chances of what will happen now after such a rude seperation from Jodha's side??!Will We ever see her repent and see her own faults in this whole issue and realize his value??!!!

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--Janvie-- thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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No one reading or commenting?!🤔
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yeah and she only askabouther brother when everything gotcalmed,she do est know the meaning of lovethats all i can say,to love is to forgive,
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thanks, I did not like Jodha's attitude she could have been polite in front of other people who were watching her dance, she was very rude. I can understand her hurt etc, but in front of other this not acceptable behavior.
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I agree with you my Jannu 🤗 We were barely bearing her unsupportable haughty behaviour till now but today the way she rudely sort of insulted and humiliated him , that was totally rude , pious and too mean from her 😡 Even Jalal who did have humiliated her publicly till now hasn't even done such explicit drama infront of everyone The way , she took a little moment and then reply coldly a 'NAHI' to him was really 🤬
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Great post though very long. 😆

You are right, Jodha doesnt love him, she is only in love with her ego. How can she be rude to him in public. I am happy with what Jalal told her and left, she was getting big headed with all the poodling from him. I hope Jalal will ignore her and now let her run after him.
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thats funny by reading everyone comments...
everyone is furious abt jallu's humiliation in public and how dare she...he is a shahenshah...

but noone bothers to refresh some real old memories of golden 8 months back...how much public humiliation jodha went through in public becos of his stupid trust in wrong people...he even shouted her in public...he even made a maid aka vishkanya sat beside his throne when actually it belongs to jodha...what was she then...wasn't she a princess of Amer...wasn't she a queen of Agra...

the amount of public humiliation jallu has done to jodha is 1000 times bitter than what jodha did tdy...

he folds his hands...ask forgiveness..lets go to Agra...what if he repeats his mistake again when Agra vultures brainwashes him again...will he do the same thing again and again...spend few moments with jodha...Agra vultures instigate him...he suspect her...humiliate her...insult her...manhandle her...accuse her...then upon realising his mistake...fold your hands ask forgiveness as if jodha is not a human but a object...

keep in mind guys...he still trust the wrong people in his pagalkhana...till now he knows nothing abt his vultures in Agra...thus another drama occurs he will still have blind faith on vultures...giving lame excuses "doodh ka karz"..."bachpan ka dosti"..."behen ka shauhar" and so on

here the issue is not love but trust...jodha wants jallu to prove his trust on her and he will not repeat the same mistake again...

she is still in the dilemma becos...she knows if she goes back to Agra...he will repeat his deeds again if another MU occurs...Agra has made her life hell...even though HB..SB are with her...the most important aspect for is her husband's trust and this man always has shake his trust on her...

sorry...i have a different view...i felt it was balance...he humiliate her in public...she did the same...he was rude to her in Agra due to his ego...she is rude to him in Amer due to her ego...

i am not siding jodha...but i can never forget the humiliation jodha has went through in public becos of jallu back in golden era...the list is very long
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Originally posted by: Mages

thats funny by reading everyone comments...

everyone is furious abt jallu's humiliation in public and how dare she...he is a shahenshah...

but noone bothers to refresh some real old memories of golden 8 months back...how much public humiliation jodha went through in public becos of his stupid trust in wrong people...he even shouted her in public...he even made a maid aka vishkanya sat beside his throne when actually it belongs to jodha...what was she then...wasn't she a princess of Amer...wasn't she a queen of Agra...

the amount of public humiliation jallu has done to jodha is 1000 times bitter than what jodha did tdy...

he folds his hands...ask forgiveness..lets go to Agra...what if he repeats his mistake again when Agra vultures brainwashes him again...will he do the same thing again and again...spend few moments with jodha...Agra vultures instigate him...he suspect her...humiliate her...insult her...manhandle her...accuse her...then upon realising his mistake...fold your hands ask forgiveness as if jodha is not a human but a object...

keep in mind guys...he still trust the wrong people in his pagalkhana...till now he knows nothing abt his vultures in Agra...thus another drama occurs he will still have blind faith on vultures...giving lame excuses "doodh ka karz"..."bachpan ka dosti"..."behen ka shauhar" and so on

here the issue is not love but trust...jodha wants jallu to prove his trust on her and he will not repeat the same mistake again...

she is still in the dilemma becos...she knows if she goes back to Agra...he will repeat his deeds again if another MU occurs...Agra has made her life hell...even though HB..SB are with her...the most important aspect for is her husband's trust and this man always has shake his trust on her...

sorry...i have a different view...i felt it was balance...he humiliate her in public...she did the same...he was rude to her in Agra due to his ego...she is rude to him in Amer due to her ego...

i am not siding jodha...but i can never forget the humiliation jodha has went through in public becos of jallu back in golden era...the list is very long


If you have read my previous comment then you will see my reference to the past ! If it's only about balanced toward each other , they will be nothing left between them , you did that to me in past , I'm going to give you that back etc etc . . . Then where is heading the Epic lovestory ? Don't forget that when Jalal was humilating and distrusting her publicly , at that time he still didn't have enough trust and proofs to believe over her even though the hatred between them has been pacified enough , they were still the unsecure and hesitation between their relationship , at that time Jalal could still have been easily manipulated by his close one , at that time he was still the heartless and ruthless Jallad and Jodhaa's perfect example of compassionated , innocent , kind hearted and pure woman but what we are finding freaking funny is that the JALLAD has changed a lot during this entire phase meanwhile people keeps judging and accusing him wrong and idolizing and glorifying Jodhaa's acts , the one who used to believe in love and forgiveness , and gives long speeches to her surroundings about it now is confused between the defination of ego and love , the man of her life was bitterly suffering only in order to seek her pardon , the one who wasn't even entire responsable for that , and she herself was in majority and now not even acknowleding her own mistakes , is showing attitude , pretending love for him but to be honest , she is deadly attached and bonded to her own EGO and SELF RESPECT , agree she was hurt but she wasn't totally innocent from this fiasco , her lesser responsable husband , the Emperor , left everything behind him , his pride , dignity , ego , awam , agra and Mughal Sultanat only for her , counting to it we should also add the dhakka issue which is still not resolved and with her presumed betrayal , Jalal has eye closed and overcame over lots and sacrificed lots for her ! So we shouldn't incriminate him in current situation coz of his past misdeeds where he was still the meaningless TE ! Let's be clean and neat not to mix everything in an only one issue !
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Originally posted by: --Janvie--

No one reading or commenting?!🤔



every one reading n lots of liking n sharing your rant but I m sick n tired of this woman n this jelly jalal tht there is no energy left in me specially for this so called vachan ki mari Abla naari... But thnX at least u r able to share my heart feelings
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@ Mages, she has also humiliated him many times yaar and accused his character many times - be it discussing with daasis about his sleeping arrangement, be it insulting him during Holi in front of their daasis, be it asking him to go die out of Amer when all he did was ask for some advice, be it accusing his character and storming out in the snowstorm just because she caught his hand under her cheek, be it insulting him during fake pregnancy in front of his family, be it her comments in the Jashan when he was investigating about the culprit, be it her Stree ka Lalsa comment when he'd just confessed about how his life had changed ever since he married her and how much importance she held in his life - both have humiliated and insulted each other... 😳
Now when I see all of this, I don't feel that his Ben insult was 1000 times worse than what she's done to him! Both have been wrong. She's mistrusted his intentions many many times and she had no one influencing her wrongly, unlike him who had a bad family constantly breathing down his neck! Not to mention that she has NEVER apologized for any of this ^^^ while he has for the Ruqs MC and Ben kaand!😳

Nevertheless, this tit-for-tat game is not the way to go ahead! Then, can we say that the Benazir track was a tit-for-tat for all of this??? No na? Jalal was wrong during Benazir, Jodha is wrong now.

They had both decided to put all that behind them after Benazir - but, this track shows that they haven't!

The main difference between the previous issue and this is that this one was not about Jalal trusting the words of his family. The mistrust was started by Jodha - she didn't trust her husband and she did lie too (her intentions were right, but there were many ways she could have avoided this which she didn't) Unfortunately, Jodha brought this upon herself - it was her own doing/undoing!
Till he caught Sujamal in her hojra, he didn't accuse her and he did ask/hint to her before that many times.

A woman - even today - who steps out at midnight three times in a row and keeps it from husband/family (even if her intentions are right) and covers up the act - how can she expect not to be suspected? For sure, they would question me in my house! Why, Bharmal accused her too when she went out with Suryabhan saying she was spoiling the family repute! She made no fuss about that then. Jalal didn't do a public tamasha now. She did. Till Bharmal told her she wasn't even ready to let an injured man share her room!!! I'm sorry, but no justification for that!

Both have mistrusted each other. Both have committed mistakes. Jodha is as much to blame here - in fact, the first to blame for lying (again, yes her intentions were right - but if she never said anything to Jalal how is he supposed to guess?)
He has apologized and done everything he could...if she needed time, she should have said that, but she never gave him a proper answer.
His questions today were right 'If a husband saw you with another man in your hojra, what is he to think?'
She answered only 'Vivash' that day and how exactly is he supposed to understand what exactly she means by vivash? His tell me only in 'Yes' and 'No' came later on... but, for a long time he kept asking and she only said Vivash. She could have easily said its not like you think - trust me, I'm doing this for a reason. I'm still the friend you can trust in..that's all he would have required!

While I agree Janu's come across very strongly in her viewpoints here...Jalal has done what he could. Its time she did hers. He needs to prove his trust in her and she needs to prove her love for him beyond mere kartavya...and both of that is not going to happen if they stay at separate places. 😭
How is she going to gain trust in Jalal by staying back in Amer? Yes, her wounds/anger may need time to abate - but, trust is something that's only going to develop with time and company na...again, I'm not against her deciding to leave Agra or requiring time. I was against her not seeing how she contributed to this MU too.. how she mistrusted and lied too... yes, she was vachan bandh and he was pyar bandh! Donon hi vivash!


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