Originally posted by: lashy
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">@ Mages, she has also humiliated him many times yaar and accused his character many times - be it discussing with daasis about his sleeping arrangement, be it insulting him during Holi in front of their daasis, be it asking him to go die out of Amer when all he did was ask for some advice, be it accusing his character and storming out in the snowstorm just because she caught his hand under her cheek, be it insulting him during fake pregnancy in front of his family, be it her comments in the Jashan when he was investigating about the culprit, be it her Stree ka Lalsa comment when he'd just confessed about how his life had changed ever since he married her and how much importance she held in his life - both have humiliated and insulted each other...😳</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Now when I see all of this, I don't feel that his Ben insult was 1000 times worse than what she's done to him! Both have been wrong. She's mistrusted his intentions many many times and she had no one influencing her wrongly, unlike him who had a bad family constantly breathing down his neck!Not to mention that she has NEVER apologized for any of this ^^^ while he has for the Ruqs MC and Ben kaand!😳</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Nevertheless, this tit-for-tat game is not the way to go ahead! Then, can we say that the Benazir track was a tit-for-tat for all of this??? No na? Jalal was wrong during Benazir, Jodha is wrong now.</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">They had both decided to put all that behind them after Benazir - but, this track shows that they haven't!</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">The main difference between the previous issue and this is that this one was not about Jalal trusting the words of his family. The mistrust was started by Jodha - she didn't trust her husband and she did lie too (her intentions were right, but there were many ways she could have avoided this which she didn't) Unfortunately, Jodha brought this upon herself - it was her own doing/undoing!</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Till he caught Sujamal in her hojra, he didn't accuse her and he did ask/hint to her before that many times.
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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">A woman - even today - who steps out at midnight three times in a row and keeps it from husband/family (even if her intentions are right) and covers up the act - how can she expect not to be suspected? For sure, they would question me in my house! Why, Bharmal accused her too when she went out with Suryabhan saying she was spoiling the family repute! She made no fuss about that then. Jalal didn't do a public tamasha now. She did. Till Bharmal told her she wasn't even ready to let an injured man share her room!!! I'm sorry, but no justification for that!</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Both have mistrusted each other. Both have committed mistakes. Jodha is as much to blame here - in fact, the first to blame for lying (again, yes her intentions were right - but if she never said anything to Jalal how is he supposed to guess?)</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">He has apologized and done everything he could...if she needed time, she should have said that, but she never gave him a proper answer.</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">His questions today were right 'If a husband saw you with another man in your hojra, what is he to think?'</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">She answered only 'Vivash' that day and how exactly is he supposed to understand what exactly she means by vivash? His tell me only in 'Yes' and 'No' came later on... but, for a long time he kept asking and she only said Vivash. She could have easily said its not like you think - trust me, I'm doing this for a reason. I'm still the friend you can trust in..that's all he would have required!</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">While I agree Janu's come across very strongly in her viewpoints here...Jalal has done what he could. Its time she did hers. He needs to prove his trust in her and she needs to prove her love for him beyond mere kartavya...and both of that is not going to happen if they stay at separate places.😭</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">How is she going to gain trust in Jalal by staying back in Amer? Yes, her wounds/anger may need time to abate - but, trust is something that's only going to develop with time and company na...again, I'm not against her deciding to leave Agra or requiring time. I was against her not seeing how she contributed to this MU too.. how she mistrusted and lied too... yes, she was vachan bandh and he was pyar bandh! Donon hi vivash!</font>
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