I have had my own personal experiences on the lengths to which a guy can fake a charming and caring personality just to be able to get close to a girl physically.
The guy I knew was horribly sweet, got the closest to me when I was quite stressed out due to some family issues and then "the" moment came and I flatly refused saying this was happening all too fast.
The best was yet to come. All his "favours" stop, even casual talking and the next thing I get to know is that him boasting to some of common guys both of us knew that he has had a good time and that I am too sad for him abandoning me and they too can utilize my vulnerability like he did!!!
What I thought to be embarrassment to face me coz he had tried something like that, was actually escape after a casual fling done just for some spiced up boasting before his friends.
I was left wondering what kind of impression those guys must actually have got about me and got quite scared if any of them would seriously try to follow his suite. No one actually knew the real thing, right?
And what if I would have given in that day??
The best lesson learnt here was all that glitters is not gold and the sweeter the guy is, the more dangerous is his proximity. Just shared a very personal but bad experience to all of you gals here who don't really know me personally, so that a mistake like this is not repeated.