Bash me- But its time!!!!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hello friends

This post is my personal opinion and it need not be accepted by the rest!
Today I write not as a viewer but as a woman and its not to malign any one serial or PH! Its addressed in general!

Having said that, I wish to bring to your notice that I was one of the first to post an an appreciation of the theme of Rang Rasiya and its the only serial I follow!Please do understand that I write this post with a heavy heart! I would still watch it but...

I feel that love is not only support and appreciation but also standing up when things are not potrayed well!
Today's episode! I dunno how they are going to bring a twist etc... Frankly its just a show and we are supposed to enjoy it!

From the very first episode I liked the potrayal of women in Rang Rasiya! They showed all shades ranging from Thakuraayin Maasa( We still dunno why she left Rudra! But there appears a good reason for it) to her sister who is treacherous and selfish! A very innocent Sunehri to a very balanced and soft hearted Maithili!

Paro was potrayed as naive yet a very strong woman with some substance! She was gullible yet she remained staunch in her integrity as well as her character! Another refreshing thing was Paro was shown as a women with a strong conviction and bless the PH as a woman with feelings who could tell a man she liked him and wanted him to be her partner!So far so good!

But I was disappointed by today's episode! This is becoming a habit with our tele shows where the hero gets drunk and gets married to the lady! Now to the point! Give me a million reasons but why show it that way! Marriage is a very sacred union of two souls in our culture and they are making a mockery of it! Today for the umpteenth time I saw a woman being dragged around the fire in the name of marriage and is that my Paro who stood the test of fate and won her destiny back who was dragged like cattle????

Yes I agree she loves Rudra and he also loves her but thats not done! Many follow these shows and what message are we sending to the next generation! They could have shown that he married by deciet! Even thats ok... given the plot to teach her a lesson but... this way? NO!

Women suffer! We all know! But wellw e need not see it again and again and that too in a demeaning way !I personally work with destitute women and seen a few who face worse than this! But well can we atleast have our shows free of this concept of getting married and sorting out?

Oh! Its a plot no doubt but it leaves a bad taste in my mouth that some one is dragged by a drunk man and subjected to such treatment making a mockery of a very sacred ceremony!

My open request to The PHs and the serial makers! Please there are scores of plots to explore I am sure you can come out with scores of scenarios for the hero to marry the lady and then get to know the truth etc! Why do this all the time!

Please let us give a very strong message to everyone out there to stop showing such demeaning stuff in the name of love and entertainment!
I wish people like this post to express solidarity with me!
If you want to bash me its ok! I apologise if anyone is offeneded by this post!I shall take it! But the fact remains!

Enjoy and express!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I'm completely agree with u 👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mithi-kunal

I'm completely agree with u 👍🏼


Thank you yaar! Its really sad how they always show it this way! Ia m shocked as to how they can do it again and again! I enjoy the serial no doubt but today I expected PAro to stand up in her unique way! Only taht it never happened.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hey i am not very good in articulating my thoughts,, but i second u wholeheartedly.. just commenting here so tht ur posts remains on the 1st page and more n more ppl read it,,, most importantly the Creatives, the actors ( if they visit the forum).
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Paro didn't react. I cannot justify that. I'm so disappointed, I can't even repeat my mantra of wait and watch.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: CGBSSI

Hey i am not very good in articulating my thoughts,, but i second u wholeheartedly.. just commenting here so tht ur posts remains on the 1st page and more n more ppl read it,,, most importantly the Creatives, the actors ( if they visit the forum).


Awe so sweet of you! I know you need to get replies to make your post on to the top page!

Thank you so much dear!

PS: You write well !Re😊ally!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Exprimere

Paro didn't react. I cannot justify that. I'm so disappointed, I can't even repeat my mantra of wait and watch.


Oh I am sure they will show some cure! No doubt! But the character Paro today went haywire!

Thanks for your support!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well said anu..
i also had the same question when rudra married paro with all non sense promises

what was the need? when he know that he cannot fix himself in a relation why destroy her life along with his?

and when he comes to know the truth i dont think CV;s will show him repenting too much.. just one sorry and all over with smiles

disgusting.. the value of marriage is going to waste bin when they show such things

now where the twist will come?

and when the CV's run out of plot they ll give a leap.. grow up CV's
there are many ways to show the intense love hate relationship between leads

not like this

I am really shocked to see my strong paro supporting this with tears


Hell 😡😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MeenuArshiCrazy

well said anu..

i also had the same question when rudra married paro with all non sense promises

what was the need? when he know that he cannot fix himself in a relation why destroy her life along with his?

and when he comes to know the truth i dont think CV;s will show him repenting too much.. just one sorry and all over with smiles

disgusting.. the value of marriage is going to waste bin when they show such things

now where the twist will come?

and when the CV's run out of plot they ll give a leap.. grow up CV's
there are many ways to show the intense love hate relationship between leads

not like this

I am really shocked to see my strong paro supporting this with tears


Hell 😡😡


This is the same story everywhere! Arey! There are scores of ways in which you can show the hero married her and then repents what ever! Not this way yaar!
I distinctly remember another serial by the same production house in which again the hero gets drunk and marries the lady! Frankly even if they show repentance I can't see how what has been done is erased yaar! Its a human being not some machine or animal! LOl! By teh wat animals too have animal protection cells! Not our tele heroines!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree
A very frickle female lead who has no self respect at all, accepting all shit with no reaction
And the Cvs want the gilrs to be like paro🤪

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