Originally posted by: eveline
The sole purpose of this post is to answer certain allegations logically. As I hate to create a ruckus on a forum friend's posts, I am creating a separate one. Also it promises to be long..so please bear with me. Again, as it is in answer to some points, it might feel like I am jumping from point to point...with no correlation...or context...This post it totally in defense of Rudra, those who don't support, please don't give me or my writings your time and patience, you will not find them worth.
Applause for you that you have made the post. since yesterday even i am seeing how Rudra had been completely painted negative, infact his positive actions were also called as negative and harmful. Do not really understand that is it that easy to mock a character only to defend the other ? that clearly shows how there is not even one valid defense against Paro, atleast not for the current track.
- First and foremost, the only purpose of fake warrant was to scare Tejawat, and make him act hasty, so he makes mistakes, which he did. Rudra did not single handedly kill the entire baraat, neither did he start the firing. The terrorists (yes, it was not a baraat btw, they were hard core arm smugglers and terrorists), fired the first shot, and armed forces do not stand there like sitting ducks, ready to be shot at. When any agency starts hostile firing on men in uniform, they defend and they retaliate. They are our defenders, so firing back is a logical response. Hopefully, we all accept that. And a reminder, Rudra was not the first one to retaliate too. Hopefully, we all accept that. Yes, people died on both the sides, as happens in an encounter. Rudra killed some, who were all ganging up on him cruelly (we all saw the show..right??) So once and for all, he did not brutally kill an entire baraat, he and his unit were shot at first and they defended themselves leading to casualties.
Exactly. Any sane person would atleast try and kill the other person in self defense right ? here Rudra not only killed the terrorists to save himself, but also to save Paro, to save the mission he had ordered for. In a live encounter, is it really possible for any officer to manage and arrest every terrorist and throw them in the prison ? NO. Moreover, his colleagues were killed, and he would also be killed had he not been handled it in that way. Plus he had shot Varun to save Paro. Did not we all watch it ? then how come suddenly he becomes a foolish officer who cannot handle a mission and does not deserve the medel at all ? how convenient is the allegation against him ? Obviously while he was being stabbed left right and centre by those smmuglers, how was he supposed to call and seek permission from his senior that should he kill every1 or just leave them , is not that illogical and inhuman , anybody hell, even an animal will eat other animal to save his life, Rudra killed the traitors, and still he is called foolish here ?
- Secondly, when handling Paro, Rudra was not out to make friends. He was dealing with a suspect, in a case of arms smuggling across border, which hopefully we all know is a huge crime. A suspect who was also a prime witness, with whose help he was trying to break a ring of mass murderers dealing in lethal weapons for the past 18 years. Just want to point out, that such criminals, suspected of such crimes, are meted out various harsh and inhuman treatments in real life. Torture, rape, molestation, sodomy...just being a few unpalatable examples.The armed forces, any wing, any nation, have their own way to dealing with such human scum. Yes, human right activists have been struggling with issues for years, but if we want a realist show, we have to digest reality, however bitter it may taste. And Rudra's treatment of Paro was nothing, nothing at all, compared to real life.
Moreover, did we also forget the hospital scenario ? How he made sure that she was kept in the same ward as his, to ensure her safety. Plus, any officer would not fully believe in that Paro is completely white and does not have a hand in the fiasco. obviously, they needed to monitor her, investigate on her. Heck nobdoy even bothers to do that and directly abuses the girl to get what they want. Rudra , to ensure her safety had stepped into the house he had never intended to, he returned to the hell where there is Mohini's taunts as breakfast, his mother's memories as his lunch, his troubled childhood as his dinner, yet he chose to stay in the house with Paro, why ? Not because he was enjoying it, but becos he had no other option. He faked Paro's death to manipulate tejawat and not cause her any harm, that was not a lie to his senior, but that was a tactic which an intilligent officer had played on.
-Paro by her own will returned back to Rudra's place, with a challenge in mind...dekhenge!! So essentially when she threw the gauntlet she was ready for whatever came her way, right?? And yes he was breaking a crucial witness here, and by hook or crook is expected from him.It was part of his duty, which not only means protecting witnesses, also breaking hostile witnesses. And he used whatever means he had handy. Would ppl have preferred if other, more physically cruel means, were used?? And Paro could have walked out any time or asked for help!! And no, no one can believe that Rudra would kill an entire village??? Really?? An entire village?? KCM even offered to help, but she said she trusted Rudra more than her. Go figure!! And I don't remember Rudra touching her at inappropriate or private places, or molesting her...He if anything was very very clear about his intentions, leaving neither in doubt.
I guess this is the biggest W*F statement of this month, the one which mentioned that Rudra is a molester .. Really ? then how come Paro was still very much fine and back to normal by staying with him in the same room for 2-3 long nights ? holding her wrist or making her aware of the hell she would face post marriage was not an abuse but again an indication that how he constantly tried to show her the picture, how he constantly tried to make her face the reality. we all must remember that how he had warned her not to go to the jhaaki, as that would be unsafe for her. It was Paro who challenged him that, he was lying and ditching him and thus she wouldn't listen to him. He tried to tell Paro that how her nandu jija was missing, and why was she missing, he gave her logical reasons, he tried to make her realise that every girl faces the same fate after marriage in birpur, but she still chose to not see the reality but stay in her delusions. and neither did she try to find out that why was Nandu jija missing then ? This is the same guy who had taken a bullet in order to save Paro from molesters, and how conveniently he is being called one only to serve justice for his team, his country, and to Paro.. wow... today Logic just lost its way.
-The wedding rituals...well if a marriage is planned, rituals follow. First, making her his fiance...not his idea. Getting married ...not his idea either. He just tried to take advantage of the situation. He did not want or make the charade public, if anything he was totally against it for safety reasons. He even asked Paro not to go for the jhaankhi...the girl had her own reasons to defy. And again he did not led her to believe that it was out of love, the deal was very clear from his side.
He took advantage of the wedding rituals just how Paro took advantage of the situation and kept giving him nightmares that how she will never sign the papers and he will lose his job. He atleast gave her two options, both of which were very feasible, but what did Paro do ? All she has done is forced him to marry her, not even trying to consider his opinion, not even asking that what he wants . the only option she gave him was to marry her and become her shivji ? really Paro ? thats all?
-How do we think hostile witnesses give their statements...happily and voluntarily?? Not under duress, or pressure...?? No tactics are required, no bargaining, no immunities offered?? No further comments needed here.
- I can say the same for Paro..right?? She too went ahead with the marriage plans, when she could have done something...anything, like taking KCM's help, or contacting someone for help, instead of resorting to prayers only.
leave taking help, she was ulta taking Danveer, Dilsher's ashirvaad to become their bahus.. taking Rudra's mom's kangan and all. 🥱
-When Dilsher was attacked, Rudra asked multiple times (not once, thrice if my memory serves me right) from an eye witness, who was totally neutral, and confirmed. He also had other witnesses to support and corroborate the story. The question here...Rudra could have taken legal action against Paro. Could have filed a complaint against her, accused her of trying to kill her father, have her arrested. He did nothing, just accused her, and didn't take action except ask her to leave him and his family alone.
Ditto, the fact that he did not take any legal actions against her and even tolerated her in his house, in dilsher's room without creating a ruckus about this matter is enough to show that him accusing Paro of this scenario was only one way to keep her distant from him. Just the thing which maithili had told that day. He also asked Paro to be in someone else's custody, it was she who wanted to stay with him, she did not go with her mami also. still Rudra is blamed for not caring about her safety ??
-Rudra is unbalanced?? TIme and again I have seen forum members accuse him of being unbalanced cause of his past. How?? How in the world does an imbalanced human rise to the rank of a Major and also win awards for bravery?? Isn't he the guy who ended an 18 year old arm smuggling racket?? Isn't he the one who stood like a rock in front of Tejawat and refused to bow under pressure?? Isn't he the same guy, who rescued a beautiful girl from being gang raped the first time he saw her?? And the one who sent not one but two beautiful girls back home honorably in spite of Aman's opinion. Or may be he is unstable, so he should have allowed the same beautiful girl to be shot by her so called hubby...good riddance?? Are we talking about he same guy, who took a slap for a beautiful girl, and tended to her painful foot?? Just a reminder there are plenty of rude and short tempered men out there...for that matter even women. Temper and rudeness does not make a man insane, if such were the case quite a few of us would be admitted in an asylum 😃
Plus he is the same guy who had thrashed laila for posioning Paro, same guy who took Mohini's slap to save her honour. Same guy who did not let Paro carry his shoews like a doormat, for her honor, same guy who was hesitant of touching a sleeping paro and medicating her sprained leg, same guy who bowed down to mohini's feet ( which he would never ever do for himself ), so that he can keep Paro in the house, same guy who even after knowing that Paro will not sign the papers tried to save her from tejawat, did not care about his image, but wanted to save her only.
And we all have different definitions for crazy...well I can call some other characters delusional, un realist, self centered, living in a dream world, obsessive, ...but I won't.
-Rudra washed his hands off Paro after the Bapu Sa incident. He asked that another officer take over Paro's safety obligations. Paro refused point blank and decided to stick with him.
Rudra in essence has always saved, rescued Paro, not on one but on several occasions, not only from certain death but from also rape and human trafficking. Don't see how he deserves punishment ?? Just desserts at that??
I doubt if anyone here thinks that Rudra gives men a bad name, yes, I do think that most women are not like Paro here...and that is a different story. About Paro...she is getting what she insisted on, and asked for publicly, and don't they say be careful about what you ask and pray for!!
Once again...I hate to take sides. But if a character is openly and blatantly painted negative, I will rise to defend. Again, tomorrow if someone makes an openly unjust and negative post about Paro, my just responses will be forthcoming. Live and let live in peace !!
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